a/s/l - 30/male/Zurich, Switzerland.
Nationality - South Asian (Indian, Sri Lankan, Pakistani etc.)
Challenge Description:
Swiss women almost instinctively avoid South Asians
Of course, there are surely exceptions. Possible reasons include:
Perception that all SAsians are asylum seekers with poor jobs
Experience with SAsians trying to hit on the girls to make citizenship easier
SAsians are desperate for sex and think the girls are easy (maybe partly true )
SAsians are not trendy dressers or physically attractive
Racist feelings (I’ve seen no direct evidence, this is a possibility nothing more - my personal opinion is that they are not racist) Swiss girls like dominating men
I have been told this by other men and some Swiss girls themselves. One Swiss buddy told me to be slick but aggressive.
Switzerland is still relatively conservative and it’s not uncommon to find women who’re housewives. The new generation is different though.
Men are expected to make the first move.
Note: This is based on hearsay from people I know - I have no personal evidence of this.
I need to get in shape
Now I’m working on this, but it will take considerable time. This may take too long and this also affects the trendy dressing factor unfortunately.
Language is different - but most people speak English.
What I’m aiming for?
Two goals totally separate and dissociated from each other.
Sex (Short Term stuff) - primary targets in clubs, beside the lake, waitresses etc.
Friends - mostly in the professional/standard social environment.
So, could you guys and gals please offer suggestions?
As far as possible, please recommend specific pheromone products that have worked in an environment with total strangers and resulted in sexual plays. For the friendship, it could be familiar faces I run into.
Even better if someone has done this in a totally foreign and conservative country.
I look forward to your replies and accept that it might not be possible for Pheromones to help.
For what it sounds like the environments you’ll be engaged in..
Sex - turn up the heat, ammunition(good on its own), Putative 83
Instant female magic would be a nice compliment to any of these.
Generally, I find people adore assertiveness but despise aggressiveness.
In regard to mones, A314 may help. The bulk of the work is completely up to you though. Most people judge others on their own merits. Learn to carry yourself well and respect foreign cultures and people.
Well, the word used was “aggressive”, but maybe they mean “assertive”.
It’s just that the guys have to make the moves - girls won’t usually. And I’m told it’s got to be a little more than mild moves when the time is right.
As for the respect for foreign people and cultures - hey, I do like the people here. The few friends I have are super!!!
You’re right - the bulk of the work is me. However, I do need to get past the first barrier or mental block that a lot of the people have.
Ah dunno about that. Only about 25% of the people in Hawaii are White. 75% are everything else, especially Asian and Pacific Islander. And mixed marriages and dating are the norm and not the exception. Also, you should check out the people in Brazil. It’s probably difficult to have interracial dating as everyone is already mixed…
Reminds me of the TV ad I saw for vacationing in Porta Rico: we have the only tropical rain forest in the USA. Of course they didn’t bother to check the Great and Holy Kingdom of Hawaii.
Thanks chaps!
Actually, I think it’s just a matter of time before the Swiss get accustomed to foreigners. Only thing is, I might be old and grey by then.
They really are nice people - albeit reserved.
Actually, I was in London quite a few times. Although it’s a super city in terms of size and options for entertainment, I think I like my beloved Zurich. London is pretty darn expensive too and the UK taxes.
Hey friday my man, i have bangladeshi ancestry, we are third generation British, i have never had problems with women of other races, in fact European women really dig ‘Tall Dark Handsome’ strangers, i guess you should almost be in heaven, cos men like ‘fair ladies’ right. I know, i see it in london all the time, my current love interest is a lithuanian strawberry blonde, i have had GF who are Slovakian, Welsh, Iranian, Arab, English, and Austrian, plus i get a lot of Eastern European women who havent really experianced non european men tend to be more flirtatious and willing to strike up a friendship. I have had advances from Estonian and Finnish as well as Croatian women. But the easiest girls are Ukranian and Polish.
I think it more becuase the atmoshpere of London is one big tolerant racial soup bowl, and this spills over to the immigrants, plus most people live on their own and willing to be friends with others like them selves, but i think in their own countries they wouldnt be like that, more wary of foreigners and xenophobic to some extent. After all centuries of prejudices wont disappear over night.
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