The Denied Journal

[Denied]

yes i did. I´ll copy the best advises here..

@Denied

Hi there,
I tried some pheromones by now (see signature) and had good hits. By now im wearing A314 every day at work. Gave me great respect an helps me focus on my work. I combo it with Instant Shine and Instant Honesty as i like. Instant Shine is a really great Product. Changes my mood. I feel really relaxed and smooth. Helped my staying cool after a car accident. And Instant Female Magic in combi with Instant Honesty helped me while talking with my wife about our Problems.

We still have no sex life, but after so many monthes my libido is problably nearly as low as my wifes. But we agreed, that we both like to start the fire we once had. She told me, that she often thinks about it, but with 2 little children she doesn´t come into the right mood. I´m at work most of the day and i enjoy the time in the evening till eight o clock with my kids. But i only see them about 3h a day. She´s fed up with them at six o clock. And she´s unable to come down, the rest of the day.

So i tried helping her as much as i can with her daily work. When i notice that she´s upset, i´ll add Instant Female Magic. That worked pretty good. She seems to be more relaxed, but i did´t change our sex life.

After i experimented that pheros DO work (i was sceptic) i´ll like to expermiment with some hot stuff. Maybe something that my increase our both libido and helps her getting away form it all. So we can both enjoy our privat time after eight I guess that there are many People having my Problem.

From what i read in the Forums Ammo, Turn up the Heat an P83 will be candidates for my next order.

What do you suggest?

@jamesbonded

Hi denied,
When she is upset, you used Instant Female Magic to make relax. Good choice indeed. You can also mix together with Instant Shine to lift her mood. To take care of the kids can be really moody.
Instant Shine will be a good choice. In fact you can also ask her to wear Instant Shine herself.

Still no sex life? Ammo is good as an attraction.
Turn Up The Heat is good in sexually arouse her. However, I don’t think Turn Up The Heat will work when she is moody .
Let Instant Female Magic calm her down and apply Turn Up The Heat to sexually arouse her.
TUTH is best used at night or when both are you are alone. Hopefully your sex life will blossom again.

Thats why i ordered the TUTH. I will report on that later.

@Phya

Yea, I’d be careful with the Turn Up The Heat around your kids. Just because you never know.

With your current pheromones, I’d say a little Ammo and Shine will probably go a long way. Then perhaps introduce the TUTH when things have really started to get kinda heated up.

It sounds like your relationship is healthy, just needs a bit of a spark, so I don’t know how significant of an impact Instant Honesty will make.

I’d probably just go with IMF, light Ammo, and IS. Then if things start to get better, maaaaybe try some TUTH.

Jepp. TUTH is only an option when my kids are both to bed. I was wearing Ammo the last two weeks. She likes the scent. I like it. Pretty good as a cologne. But in fact i didn´t see any hits. Not from her and from anybody else around me. I used 2 Sprays. The only thing… i let my sister sniff it. I told her that it is my new cologne and if she thinks that it fits me (shes about 37). Since then she keeps asking me, if i can order it for her husband

@bosshank

Yours is really a common problem with small kids.

Part of the solution is going to be communication.

Part of the solution is going to be carving out small pockets of “mom and dad” time without the kids. Whether that is in the evening or trade babysitting with friends so the two of you can go out even if for an hour or so by yourselves with the kids.

You can also try to make dates for “romance” - sinds artifical, but it will give you both something to llok forward to and plan for rather than just trying to wait for it to happen “spontaneously”.

Daily wear at home: Instant shine and Instant Honesty. You have also discovered the magic of Instant Female Magic. That is good. I would wipe off the A314 with a towlette before you get home and maybe add a shot of ammo instead.

Once you two start finding yourselves getting back into the romance mode then it will be time to think about Turn Up The Heat.

I agree. There won´t just be one solution. It´s not like spraying pheros and the world is ok. In fact it works some time with my new Instant Shine 2x… 30 mins after applying 2-3 shots the world is just fun.

Its my second bottle of IS and it works very good for me. But although my wife is exposed to it almost every day now, she seems a little more resistent. She´s not in a bad mood, just not as happy and joyful as i am when i wear it. 2 Days ago she told be she has a bad mood… so i sprayed 3 IFM and 2 of IS2x. I asked her a hour later if shes still in a bad mood. She told me she still is, but in fact i did not notice it. She behaved quite normal. I don´t understand her sometimes

We are working on privat time for ourselfs. I also think this is important. But i´m a little afraight that she won´t be able to distance from her daily life in only a few hours. I think we would talk about the children when we go out having a nice dinner in a restaurant. It would be time for us but it won´t change much.

@big_guns

My wife used depo for a while, but her libido stopped the day we got married, long before the depo. I struggled with this for a very long time, we’ve been married 19 years and our kids are 16 and 18, so she couldn’t use them as excuses anymore. After trying just about everything, I finally found pheromones and decided to give them a try. After a lot of experimenting what I’ve found that works best for me is Instant Female Magic 2 sprays regular strength, P79 and P83 both 50mcg 1 spray each. Sometimes I’ll add IS. Recently, I started to add ammo, still great results. I’ve used Turn Up The Heat in the past, again with great results, but sometimes I felt it made me seem a little too aggressive even thou I have a laid back personality.

Good luck

Hey. that was the advice on how i ordered a 30ml P83 15mcg Bottle.
I didn´t try it on my wife becourse she is still on Depo.