I was searching for some information on copulins for self-effects and came across this article:copulins: http://www.geocities.com/n2crochet/index.html
I couldn’t stop reading and I got more and more creeped-out as she describes the control she exerts over her husband through copulins.
I was wondering why her account creeped me out so much and realised it was becuase the husband was not playing a game with her - he was the game. I know that it’s sometimes nice to play a game together around submission and domination, but in that situation you are both agreeing to play and when it’s over you go back to being “you”. This goes beyond that…
There are a few parts of the account where he seems to disagree/reject/resist and she finds ways to counter that - so much so that he forgets he resisted in the first place. He sounds like he’s lost most of his drive, some of his personality, and definitely some of his free will.
If I thought for a moment that the pheromones I was using had a similar effect, I’d stop using them: I don’t want to interact with ‘zombie’ women, I don’t want to date docile women, I don’t want to be placated, I don’t want to be agreed with ‘just because’. If I wanted to have a relationship with an obedient neutered spaniel I’d buy one of those, not get a woman and turn her into one.
I just had to get that off my chest. I feel for the guy, and wish she’d divorced him instead of that. <shudders> The account was quite disturbing.
Although I highly believe pheromones work, I think you’re giving (in this case) copulins far too much credit (or at least by believing that.) Well, someone more experienced on cops like Diane, Tisha, or Lor probably has something better to say regarding what you read. I personally can’t believe a man can be controlled THAT much by copulins, or a female controlled with pheromones for instance. If it were that way, pheromones would be sold out all the time (and I don’t mean just here.)
I have to say that this website you link to is downright scary. I don’t know if she’s nuts or if this is all true, but it does not match my experiences and it seems she is happily brainwashing and controlling her husband, regardless of how she does it, and then justifying it to have what she wants.
I have always found that not having sexual release makes me more irritable, and I think a lot of other men and women would say they experience the same thing. For me, more sex and more regular sexual release promotes more intimacy and lovingness in a relationship, and more even and calm emotional responses. I achieve my best emotional balance through regular sex with a woman - not mastubating, because there is something missing. And no, it’s not copulins. There is some sort of “layer” or type of energy that gets released during sex with a woman that does not get released during mastubation, which makes a BIG difference. In fact, after a while without a lover, it’s not even worth trying to masturbate because of that.
Copulins definitely have an effect on the male brain… both synthetic and natural. I have also noted that the “right” copulins can in fact produce a trance like state in me, as well. But the rest of what she says does not jive. In me, this trance like state results in me either wanting to have sex forever, or eat her forever. It does not make me forget things… it does not make me happy to give up my orgasms so she can have her way. I had to shudder a few times while reading that… thank God I am not dealing with her.
However, that does make me wonder if copulins had more of an effect on my last relationship than I thought. However much copulins did affect it, my ex and I share a bond and sexual magnetism that has absolutely nothing to do with copulins, and I know this because we have been separated physically for months and we still respond readily even by just IMing eachother.
Interesting stuff. But brainwashing people into your control isn’t my thing.
I agree with you. I also believe that pheromones work but this seems too extreme. It seems fanciful that there would be such a strong effect on her husband, to the point approaching deep hypnosis. But if it’s a work of fiction, then it’s still disturbing.
Carlord, not sure if you’ve seen this: How Sexual Frequency Affects a Woman’s Sexual Responsiveness, Fertility, and Health
By the way, thanks for all your work in posting, testing, writing and formulating that you do. You are one of the reasons this forum is worth coming back to day after day. I can’t wait for your Panty Scorcher MX!
Okay… had a look at the link… and I’m not religious, but what is said there otherwise does match my experience directly. I believe that sexual intercourse serves more than just the purpose of reproduction. I think it serves as a way for the couple to bond in at least two ways - make her smell of him, and vice versa, to “warn others off” and strengthen the relationship; and to include deeper emotional intimacy and balance the brain chemistry.
The “airborne” pheromone that they speculate men give off sounds like what I believe is the energy exchange that only happens when sex is had with another person. I think that we exchange emotional energies this way, and that one layer of sexual energy is tied to this.
I have a lot of experience with my ex not just telling me, but demonstrating when we are separated that her sex drive decreases as she slows down on sexual contact. Mine, conversely, goes into overdrive to a certain point, and then I give up trying to “release” whatever energy requires a woman to release and it dies down considerably.
My ex and I have some sort of sexual magnetism that can cause unbelievable arousal in us both, simultaneously, when we are simply talking to eachother… even if it’s not about sex. I think this has something to do with energy exchange again… it seems to be some sort of connection that is independent of distance, and also ties into the emotional aspect somehow.
Personally, I think the man should have walked. That’s direct manipulation and control, and he sounds as if he’s hyper-suggestive and she is taking advantage of that to control him.
Catlord, you are absolutely correct about the energy thing. I experience the same thing with my husband. It is much stronger when he is physically present, but it never really goes away, even when he is on an extended trip. And at least for us that energy exchange doesn’t require sex, although to release it does. When we cuddle up for sleep at night I can feel it zooming between us like a circular pattern back and forth. He feels it strongly too.
Check out this link. The part about the Slavic Russian Mystics is particularly facinating, and I thing relevant.
I find it mutha-freakin hilarious
that every guy here is horrified by this nonsense,
and YET no one has addressed this fictional guy was LYING to his wife,
HAVING AN AFFAIR…
hahaha oh so typical…
poor MAN…
she should have divorsed him instead of being sooo sneaky…
because he wasnt sneaky going to strip clubs and having an affair while lying to his wife about it…
just wow…
and this is a bunch of BS.
what this chick said has been around for years and years.
many here dont subscribe to it.
but i certainly learned alot about the men on this forum,lol.
Typical? Not sure what you’re implying but it does sound like there’s something you need to get off your chest. Because misinterpreting happens to us all, here’s being clear: If the sexes were reversed and the story was of a man somehow turning his wife into a docile imbecilic puppet through the use of male pheromones, I’d be just as disturbed (I think I said something similar in the original post).
You are only half-right about the lying: no one yet. Up to now I’ve been distracted by the general fücked-up-ness of the story, but no longer. Here:The husband was an idiot for having an affair. She should have divorced him at the least without question, and taken what she could from him in the divorce for wasting her life.
That’s my take. If you feel that his affair somehow balances or negates what she’s supposedly doing to him then… well… good luck with that. If the relationship part of the story is in any way true then they’re both a pair of messed-up emotional morons. If it’s not true then whoever wrote it has has an ever-so-slightly sick imagination.
Assuming you are using the word “suck” in general rather than literal, points (3) and (4) are flat out wrong. As a woman you generally have more mucosal membrane surface area than a typical man so let me teach you something about your own body
I have enough of a biology background to tell you that mucous membranes both absorb and secrete. You know where these membranes are, right? Glans (both clitoris and penis), vulva, lips, anus, nostrils and so on. It’s one of the reasons that hayfever nose sprays work: if they didn’t get absorbed this way we’d be better-off injecting Beconase (it gets broken down by stomach acid so drinking it wouldn’t work).
The glans and scrotum are pretty good at absorbing chemicals but you don’t have to believe me, look up Male sexual function by John Joseph Mulcahy (page 322). If that’s too specific, Google is your friend.
Happy to help.
The story may be fiction - and I really hope it is - but nothing she says is impossible, just unlikely.
oooh oooh quick edit-
no one was disturbed by REPEATED lying and an AFFAIR-
one that could have exposed her to life threatening diseases
(try divorcing AIDS, dr. oom )
but she never even touched another man.
AND its fiction.
so much for google being YOUR friend ,LOL !!!
Let me teach you something about your own body. Mucosal membranes have to be in contact with a substance to absorb it. The outer levels of the skin of the penis and scrotum are NOT mucosal membranes – otherwise they would be WET, like the inside of your lungs, in your mouth, up your nose, and inside a woman’s vagina.
The urethra is another story, however during sexual excitement the seminal vesicles constantly ooze a sugary substance that lubricates the urethra, thereby pretty much excluding the possibility of pussy juice being pushed up there.
Another point… even in the highest natural producers of the fatty acids that are the components of copulins is a very small amount, certainly way too small to have any CNS effects, much less to zombify anybody, even if enough were pushed into the urethra.
And please site a source if you are saying that a man’s penis can suck juice up into his balls… zomg… you’re killling me.
Chances are, this story is written by a man because this kind of thing is his fetish. Generally, most fucked-up stuff on the internet is created by some fucked-up man for his fucked-up sexual fixations and fascinations.
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