Hey guys…I want to say again thanks for all the help! If you haven’t read my previous thread, here it is in a nutshell. I’m a noob to pheros and wanted some advice for what to get for a party tonight. I ordered some Ammo and also received a small vile of Instant Shine (once again, thank you for that hook-up whoever you are!). I’m back with results.
I read over lots of posts and debated on whether to use Shine or Ammo tonight for my first time ever using pheros. Ultimately, I decided that I’d use my little vile of Shine and went with a liberal spray on the wrist which I put on my neck. Let me stop at this moment to say that I think I’m one of the small percentage who can smell the pheros because I definitely could smell something funky under the scent. Anywho. I pick up my friend (female) and we go to the party at this dance club. As someone with anxiety, I don’t enjoy going into these places…I don’t do well in them…they just generally make me uncomfortable. And of course, tonight that was no different.
BUT…from the get-go…I got big, happy hugs from all the ladies. Not unusual to get hugs but these were definitely nicer than usual. Everyone was chatty, friendly and generally stayed with me. Once again, as someone with anxiety, I just had to get away a couple of times to breathe. Now would be a good time to say I actually work in national television, and am elated on a stage or in front of people, but put me in a situation where you’re an ant among ants and I just don’t enjoy it to say the least.
Anyway, my friend asks me to go get the camera out of the car so we can take some pictures. Relief that I actually get to get out of this place for a few minutes, I go and get the camera from the car and take my time. I bump into an old friend and we chat for a while outside which takes more time. By the time I get to the car, I’m thinking, you know what…I don’t like being in there, so I’m going to make them like ME in there. Now, I know you guys said DON’T mix pheros on a first time out…but I did…I reached for the Ammo and put some on in the same place as my Instant Shine.
What!
I walked back in…instantly started getting eye contact from ladies as I just casually walked around. At one point, I went and stood in a little hallway to make a phone call and 3 girls just came and stood in there the whole time I was in there and had a conversation. On the dance floor, the ladies I was there with were leaps and bounds more touchy-feely than I imagined. Little subtle things that never occur. As I walked through the dance floor on my way out, I got my butt pinched by some chick. Weird, but new. I also noticed that some other males were less than friendly, one even elbowed me as I was walking onto the dance floor but I just let it slide.
I ended the night in a coffee shop with my friend that I went there with. I actually asked her, just to check (because she’s one of those like a sister friends you can ask this stuff to), do I smell good or do I smell like cat piss? There was no cat piss smell detected even though I could smell it every now and then. I think being able to smell the pheros through the scents will help me from ODing for sure.
In summary and closing, all in all, the night was good. I hate these kind of venues and was extremely uncomfortable there. But that’s just part of who I am so no need to dwell on that. My mission to know whether or not the pheros work was a SUCCESS. I even successfully mixed pheros on my first time out! Fantastic stuff.
