Warning: This is really long!
There is this guy I met while taking salsa dance lessons who I like. We have been steadily developing a rapport, but tonight I am totally perplexed by his behavior.
Let me start from the beginning. I’ve worn pheros around him before in dance class, primarily IS/A, IS/B, and MX274. I noticed when I wore IS/A, he seemed to apologize to me a lot if we messed up a dance step, and a little less sure. When I wore IS/B around him, he seemed totally sure of himself and much more dominant. MX274, I really didn’t see much of a response from him.
In November, one day I arrived late to the Latin dance social wearing MX340, which is based off of Instant Honesty 4x. Here is the account: “Another guy I’ve had my eye on, a blond cutie who’s a bit young for me, but I’d definitely hang out with him, came over to talk to me. This was unusual, because even though we’ve danced together before in salsa class, we’ve never danced together at an actual social. In fact, I thought he didn’t like me or something. And truthfully, I love dancing with him because he is such a smooth leader. I call him the Salsa King, because he’s always dancing and always in control. Anyway, he came over to me as the salsa dancing was ending. He wanted to say hi and good-bye. We chatted for a good bit, but the tone of the chat was like I was talking to my best friend. There was a great rapport between us. I would surmise this is because MX340 is based off of Instant Honest 4X. I asked him about his health (he wasn’t feeling good the last time I saw him) and various other things. He’s never been this into me before, so his openness and increased trust surprised me. I joked with him asking when I’ll get a salsa with him, and he replied he tried to make his way over to me, but every time he did, I was taken.”
It was so out of the blue for him to just come up and start talking to me, so I guess he must have caught a whiff of the MX340 while I was dancing and wanted to check me out before he left.
Another Sunday, he finally asked me to dance. It was awesome. I regret that I don’t remember what phero I wore.
Last Sunday, I danced with him twice while wearing Come Talk To Me and seven drops of copulins. I wanted to mimick Lust After Me, which is no longer available. I know LAM had mostly a-nol, but I wanted to copulins with the combination of a- and b-nol found in CTTM. Well, with Pink Sugar, the results were stellar. Not just with him, but with other guys. It seemed as if they just wanted to hold conversations with me rather than dance while on the floor. With my TG, he was very talkative and very focused on me. In fact he told me that he loved the fact that I smelled like baked goods. This made me chuckle. He said I had a “warm” scent that he was sure every man I danced with found “enticing” (including him, I hope!). After we finished dancing he commented that he wished the song had been longer (we started mid-song).
Fast foward to today, I helped set up for a New Year’s Eve dance. He, of course was there. I had on Instant Shine 1x and some Pink Sugar on top. He arrived later than me and did not acknowledge me until some time later. He saw me and said hi. I have to add, I looked a right mess: ratty jeans, a sweater, and a hat to cover up my disheveled hair. We chatted a for a minute or so. I asked him if he was excited about the party, and he indicated that he was. When my time was up for helping at the set-up, I kind of slipped out quietly. However, as I was leaving, he shouted and waved “good-bye” to me. I waved good-bye wondering if he thought I wasn’t going to return for the party later. I don’t know if he noticed I was gone and followed me out or if was just a coincidence.
So New Year’s Eve, I was all jazzed about the party and hopefully getting a dance in with my TG. And I made sure my appearance was on point. I also wore a mix I concocted a couple of months before:
7 of IS/A
7 of MX335
2.5 of Spaceland
2 of Instant Shine
3 of TAF
(https://pheromonelabs.com/)(All these sprays are combined in separate spray bottle.) I wore this for a Halloween party, and got some over-the-top results from it. However, I noticed that tonight and that night at the Halloween party, my TG stayed clear of me. I have to add that I also wore 6 drops of Essence of Woman (EOW). It was all covered with Pink Sugar. I mean, I did at least talk to my TG, but he did not approach me to dance at all. In fact, I think he left the party around 11 p.m. But other men seemed to respond to me just fine that evening. Not as much as at the Halloween party, but enough. That’s what perplexes me. I wonder if the TAL in IS/A turned him off, because he responded so well to the social pheros I’ve worn around him. I single out the IS/A, because I remembered that he seemed to act nervous when I wore it but very self-assured when I wore IS/B. So maybe he’s a TAH kind of guy? I don’t know.
Maybe I’ve answered my own question, but would it be best to stick with social pheros when I interact with my TG?
. I love this mix, and I’ll tell you why. It makes people so friendly an accomodating! They just want to do stuff for you! Help you, make you more comfortable, assist you in whatever.
Thanks!
It sounds like everyone on this forum has so much fun doing so. I wish I would have known about mones during college and law school…perhaps life could have been a bit less stressful sigh. Anywhoo, I am happy to join the forum and occasionally lurk around to see what people’s experiences have been. I’d eventually love to try more products to see what works for me and where my sweet spots are. I’d like think of mones as my ‘dirtly lil secret’ lol…although I’ve shared my experiences with my SO, I still like to wear them to work.
. What I mean is that I cover it everyday (sometimes twice) with some of my Demeter foodie scent, but by the end of the day, I smell the grapefruity cookie Mx274, which is fine by me. I could eat my wrists.