Great read. And a first time I’m nominating a post 
Today’s edition is about approaching women and what mones I like to wear when doing such.
A lot of times I’ll go out with my mix for the night, but many times I’ll also bring along to go’s. I do this so I can layer on certain mones after I have her liking me. Its a subtle way to get under her skin.
I ALWAYS wear Instant Shine. I have 4X and I still wear three sprays. IShine is my base to everything. There will be countless reports where I don’t even mention IShine but you can assured it has been applied. I suggest everyone starts off with standard strength and discover what is right for you personally. I also wear 3 sprays of IO paired with 1 spray of IH. I always have to wear the IO/IH combo since otherwise I would come off as too chatty.
With this triple play opener combo you have everything going for you that you need. I know a LOT of guys on here will be wondering where the sex appeal is and I can absolutely affirm that the three of these working in conjunction with your confidence in approaching will work miracles every time. These are the magic everybody seeks out when they first start wearing mones. The key, as reported in my notes above, is to pair confidence, dreams, and goals, with the right mones and you will have women everywhere. There is no other more important combo, yet they all work in conjunction with each other.
Without further ado, here are some opening strategies that over the years I have learned from the master of destroying your approach anxiety Eric Disco. You can check out his blog here: Approach Anxiety - Turn Your Fear of Meeting Women into Confidence
It’s never about what you say, only how you say it.
Slow and deliberate is your friend. Practice makes perfect so as noted above in my notes when I practice, I practice at my successes. How do you practice at success you might be asking yourself? It’s easy. First ask yourself this: Does the Pro-Bowl quarterback get to where he is from day one, or did it take him years and years of hard-work? Of course the answer is years and years of hard dedicated work. There are thousands upon thousands of athletes who never make it to the pro’s.
I go about and I start with the (for lack of a better term that guys can understand - Please keep in mind I LOVE all woman, they are all beautiful to me and therefore loved by me, but I also love my mom, I just don’t want to sleep with her) 5’s. Again I’m starting somewhere I feel most comfortable and just want to get to know them. What makes them tick, what makes them happy, sad, angry, elated, jovial, pissed, content. All the emotions as women are very emotional beings and as such if I learn their emotions I learn who they are. I move through each stage progressively, so that (like the quarterback) I can go from pop-warner, to JV, to college to pro onto pro-bowl. I put in the hard work, dedication and everything I need to do to advance to the next stage.
With that said, where does the opening occur? For me it occurs the instant I lay eyes on her. I begin by prepping my body language to match hers. With hypnosis you learn that deep rapport begins when you match your breathing, your movements, your body to her body. Not so you are like a mimicking, annoying child, but about three seconds apart and in subtle, gentle movements. If she discovers what you are doing you haven’t a shot in the world. You might as well move onto another woman. However done correctly there is nothing deeper and rapport more in-line with becoming soul mates than hypnotic rapport.
Eye contact is the single most important aspect of any game. You need strong eye contact and it needs to be saying the right thing. My eye contact, and yours, needs to start before you interact with her if at all possible. There will be times when you simply just see someone and the opportunity is right then. Even so at this point the eye contact needs to be strong. I cannot implore you enough just how important eye contact is. Whenever you are looking at a woman you should be smiling with your eyes and they should say that you want to make sweet, sweet love to her all night long.
If I am walking by someone I stop lean back over her shoulder and take her hand and say OMG, I had to meet you. I turn, look at her friends and say “I apologize for my outrageous behavior but I just had to meet your friend here.” I look back at her and say “so is there anything interesting that goes with your beauty?” It is a very direct opening and I only do it if I get stopped in my tracks by someone drop dead gorgeous.
Most of the times I will be building hypnotic rapport, gaining eye contact and then slowly, like I am gliding like the wind, walk at an angle towards her, while in my mind and thus my eyes I am making wild sex with her. It is very important to always come at an angle. Full frontal approaches often fail because it reflects aggressive behavior and she wants to feel safe. Make her feel safe.
I know many guru’s will tell you a gazillion times never expect an outcome with any approach. I completely disagree. I go in because I am interested in an outcome of her naked body quivering with anticipation as we lay together naked for the very first time. I am a man with goals and dreams and I am confident about achieving my goals and dreams. Its my reality! On the one hand these guru’s are telling you to be confident but on the other they are saying if you have a goal in mind of meeting her, you’ll only beat yourself up if that goal isn’t accomplished. That is not confidence. That is failure profile and I am a confident man. It never crosses my mind that I might not achieve my goal. I will and that I can assure you of.
Before I say anything I always start at the eyes and give her a once over from eyes to toes, all the way back up to eyes. Its OK because I am not doing this sexually, I am doing this because I love woman, I love ALL of her. Remember again its never about what you say, only how you say it. Your speech is slow and deliberate with lots of pauses which translate into confidence. A confident man does not rush.
You do not need a line or an opinion opener or anything like that. You need passion, knowing that you are her man. She has been looking for you all her life and she needs you. You are her soul mate. Sure you can use lines, and sure some of them do work, but ONLY if you make it a part of who you are. You must be the guy who makes her say to herself: “Who is this guy? Where did he come from?” Be that guy and again it won’t matter what you say.
Threads are all about what you can use for conversation. When someone talks it gives you an idea what you can talk about. We all do it here on the forum. You read a post, pick up on something and go on with that and it keeps happening. You can also use trance words, which essentially are keywords she uses in her speech. Her: OMG I absolutely love cycling with my friends. You: Oh man I totally love going cycling with my friends. Essentially you are repeating her phrases back to her and making a connection. Its always about the connections. You will NEVER run out of things to say this way. Also if you picked up on reading those books and things that interest women you will never run out of things to say. You don’t have to know everything, just a little about a lot of everything . But I digress this is about the approach. I like to use a couple opinions and always through in a time constraint.
The tone of your voice should be smooth and if you haven’t yet practiced voice tone you should. I recently read in the PheroQuirks generous postings of his and tacitus PM’s. Tacitus hit it on the head when he suggested voice training. I was blessed with a voice that is deep and resonates as sexy with the ladies. Yet, I will reveal this for the very first time anywhere to anyone (yeah this is getting deep and personal).
When I was a baby I started talking very, very early. Not baby talk, but I had this uncanny ability to talk in full sentences from a very young age. Then tragedy struck and I happened to find a nickel and decided to taste it. Not a good idea because it got stuck in my throat and they had to go in and get it out. I stopped talking! I stopped talking until I entered kindergarten for the first time. I got kicked out because of a smashed window, a kid named Matt and well that’s a whole other story. My point being is that I had to take speech therapy for years. I could barely talk or make sentences anymore. It was, in my mind, directly related to talking and not the nickel. It made perfect sense when I was a kid, but all through grade school I barely said a word in school. I was labeled as shy, but was I really? No I was scared to death all because of some strange correlation that in my head was very real.
Over the years I did a lot of reading and introspection on that stage in my life. As I aged I wanted to understand why that had happened. I also never wanted it to happen again. I am not going to get to in depth about tonality here, since really it is a different part of social skills, but it is important. A strong confident voice can instantly be picked out over a weak unsure voice. What is your voice saying about you? If you are unsure of your voice record it on a digital recorder. If you are unhappy how it sounds take action to change it. When you meet someone you should be using your voice as if she is your best friend in the whole world. If you had to ask someone for something like maybe directions how would you ask? Now say that person is your best friend, would you sound different? I bet you would, so sound as if you are excited that you just ran into your best friend.
This next point is not something I can write out for you, but its about body positioning. The best idea is to watch two guys talking and emulate that when approaching women. As mentioned earlier if you approach from the front you need to stop at least 3 feet in front of them and usually even then they will feel a tinge of apprehension. What’s worked for me is side to front or side to side. Its not an absolute and most of my signals I get directly from her.
Just by approaching her, you will build your confidence. Remember I NOW use my approach for a goal, but when I started I had a different goal. My initial goal was to learn about women, to overcome my anxiety of approaching women. Start out simple and begin approaching at least ONE woman every single day. If you really need something to say maybe say: “hey, I was just walking by and I really wanted to come say hi.” That’s it, you approached.
When coming in from the side, like I do, you want to initiate kino immediately, but not sexually. I simply invade their space touch their arm and when she turns toward me I take a step back. This works in two ways. The first is that when I am touching her, she gets used to me touching and being close. The second is she sees that by me taking a step back I am in tune with her safety and she never feels uncomfortable around me. believe me you, she totally appreciates this.
The entire concept behind this post is to start approaching. The best things in life take effort.
Have you ever thought of becoming a coach. I mean dude, you seriously have some natural skills that go beyond many of the coaches in the company I work for. You know who I work for so please take this as a compliment because some of these guys are rated as the best in the world. I don’t know what anderotics pays you, but if its not thousands a week you should consider coming to work with us. Call me 
Of course I take this as a compliment. I totally appreciate the offer too. However while I am very confident and secure with meeting ladies on a local level, I am not comfortable yet with how I look and therefore would not be a viable nor successful coach. I am currently working on my image and while I am making HUGE strides I still am dedicated first and foremost to addressing myself before I could address anyone else. In 6 months time I might just take you up on that offer.
KINESTHETICS (AKA KINO) - THE ART OF TOUCHING
If there is ever one product that was perfectly designed for touching it would be Ishine. If I ever had to chose one product over all others that AD makes I would choose IShine. As difficult as that might be to believe to many, it is by far the most versatile, the most effective pheromone product if ever there was one. In any situation it can be worn and just has this aura of well-being and confidence about it. Its precisely why it is PERFECT when it comes to touching.
If you read the first post in this series with all my notes I wanted to reiterate that I start touching immediately. As in when I stop them and have them join me in my reality. One key thing that I have to also emphasize is that when I touch I get closer, only for a second, and when I release I move my body back. I do this because subliminally it says when I touch you I am in your space and we are close. It also shows her that I can appreciate her space as well. This is one of the most important aspects to kino for me anyway. It absolutely sends a clear message and if you start touching from the get-go then its all good the rest of the time too.
Another thing I do is I never look where I am touching, I move in, touch and look at that third eye (that’s the point right between her eyes above the nose, where its an energy focal point. It’s very powerful and dominant. All the while I smile at her. Oh my good Lord of all things Pink and Squishy this stuff is like candy to a babe. I would not lead you astray on any of this. I hope you realize that by touching women make them so much more comfortable with you. It creates a DEEP connection both physiologically and more importantly physically. There’s that word connection again .
If you ever have gone to a store and looked at fruit, you should ask yourself do you touch it and why? Of course you do. One of the main reasons you touch something is because it adds reality to it. If you can see it (like in TV) it will look real. If you see it and can touch it it IS real, hence the connection.
You should be touching right off the bat. The longer you wait to touch someone the more awkward it becomes to touch them. One thing I have learned over the years is that I get terrific results when I start with touching and then touch everyone in the group, including the guys. I know this might seem odd, but while you don’t touch, touch them, just a shoulder pat, a high five, a hand shake, there are tons of ways to touch dudes, but it shows everyone including the woman you want to make love to that touching is normal.
I know that Lance Mason from PickUp101 teaches nearly the opposite of touch in the fact that when he touches he actually adds space between them. The point is that its really the same thing. I like to move in touch and then add space. He likes to touch while body rocking out to add space. Its essentially the same thing and the most important thing you should learn from this is whatever you do you need to be confident. Find what works best for you and do it consistently.
One thing I am debating telling everyone is something that EVERY needs to know but not many do. These are some of my best kept secrets. OK I’ll tell you: DISCRETION! You will not meet a single woman on this planet that meets a guy in a bar and wants every person in the bar to know she likes a guy if the relationship will go further than the bar. Yes you can make out with someone in a bar, but the likability of ever seeing this woman as anything other than a ONS or FB, is being discreet. If you are standing up against the wall and go to hold her hand do it behind your back. It is like holding a magic potion (essentially the same thing as finger play - figure that out on your own). So discretion is hugely important and guess what? Its hugely sensual too.
I can tell you my best experiences have come from people watching. I watch guys with really beautiful women and how they touch. Its about the slide, not the plop.
I do NOT subscribe to this pick up stuff Stephen, as you are well aware, but what you have posted is breathtakingly refreshing. You indeed have come full circle on your journey. It could be said you stolen Don Juan DeMarco’s essence. Have you read the book yet? I know you said you wanted to re-read it with a clearer view of your world.
Congratulations on your development.
I knew you couldn’t stay away! I have not yet afforded myself the time to reread it, but its still on the agenda. Let’s do cocktails…and soon?
Steve this is some excellent stuff. Glad you decided to share!
Thank you so much for this kind of insight. I’ve read a ton of books about these matters, but when you write about it seems more real. In a somewhat empirical way. We know you are not bullshitting the reader.
I’ve been getting a lot of questions on how to create your own reality. I’m sure many of you, if not all, have had an opportunity to watch the movie “The Secret,” or Tisha’s favorite “What the Bleep Do We Know?”. Well those types of movies are wonderful to get you thinking, but really you need a method to get you thinking right. So here is my formula that I have concocted from many gurus in this field, including Napoleon Hill, Bob Procter, Wallace Wattles, Abraham-Hicks, Wayne Dyer, Jesus, Buddha, Krishna, and quite a few others.
I’d like to present to you my methods. You may use whatever works for you in creating the life, exactly as you would like to have it . I’ll offer them as time allows.
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It doesn’t matter what you are facing in life, whether its big or small. It takes the same effort to go after the big idea as it does the small ones. (Put this into perspective this way: Think of the smallest town you ever visited. Now think of the largest city you have ever visited. Neither one of them took any more effort on your part than the other to think about. You can think across the room, or you can think across the Grand Canyon.)
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Be willing to change your views often. As you learn there will be many opportunities that challenge your current perspective. Do not discard or accept any views until you have fully tested them. (There is no progress without change and no growth without renewal. As soon as you perceive the better let go of the old. You must let go of your present good if you are to have better. Those who are satisfied with their present good are the same ones who are unsatisfied with their present. Master your present state, or your present state will become the master of you!)
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All of our problems, our worries are completely mental in nature. “Worry pretends to be necessary but serves no useful purpose” Eckhart Tolle. When you approach any challenge with a clear, concise mind the answers ALWAYS reveal themselves. By studying the Universal Laws and continuously applying said law you will create a clear mind, sound reasons that will construct whatever you may wish to create. Ask yourself why you are doing what you are doing? Why you are thinking the way you are thinking? If you are not headed in the direction of that which you desire to create for yourself, change direction!
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Your inner convictions largely control your thinking. Always think with your emotions. If it doesn’t feel good you are heading away from that which you seek to create. Many people think about the days chores, but few actually think. There is a difference in keeping your mind busy with the trivial and deep thought. Do you really think?
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Your beliefs are contagious! If you believe yourself to be successful those around you will also. The race is won before it has begun. Many community members ask how to gain confidence and its believing completely in oneself. You are NOT faking it when you believe. You might be on a course to discover ten-thousand ways not to do something, just like Edison said when making the light-bulb. Conviction is all that you are about!
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We create our circumstances. The Power of thought is the most important element of this all. What we think is what we create. If you think other than positive outcomes for your life, you will get exactly what you are thinking about. Set goals and everyday you should be striving to achieve those goals.
How to think your way to what you want out of life!
I must emphasize these are not my ideas, but I have incorporated them into my life and therefore they are very much my ideas. I hope that makes sense to you .
So what do you really WANT in life? Not what do you think you can get out of life, but what you really, really want. Ask yourself this everyday.
Here are some of the things I do. I’ve fantasized or imagined exactly what I want my life to be. I detail every aspect of my life, every thing I want it to become. I write it down in my journal as if I am already living the life of my dreams and am grateful that I am living the life of my dreams. These are the core elements of my being, my strongest inner convictions.
Ask yourself what do you really want. I do mean what you really want. In this exercise give it your all and visualize yourself in exactly the life you want without limitation or lack. You can have anything in the entire world that is possible in the laws of nature. Let yourself imagine far and wide now, no holding back .
Eckhart Tolle wrote an entire book on the “Power of Now!” Let’s take this a bit further and focus entirely on the predominant mental state of now. This morning I was on my way to the doctor for a “now” monthly visit, rather than a quarterly. When I get on the road, inevitably I get behind a very slow driver. It just seems to happen that way, or does it? Actually my mind-set is focused on getting behind a slow driver and hence its exactly what I have created for myself. Therefore it causes my mind to stress over the situation that I have created.
In essence I am creating my own rock (blockage) in the stream of water (free flowing energy), therefore pushing back on the stream (negative reactions). I am therefore entirely focusing on the predominant mental state of now (the negative flow of energy) and reacting with more negative. The negative charged energy is attracting negative charged energy.
To change this mind-set instead of my focusing on slow drivers, I should be focusing on the continual uninterrupted steady stream of the flow of source. The power of now in this very moment, this very instance is all that matters anyway. Take a breath Steve, and pay close attention to what my thoughts are. This energy that I am creating in my mind, is it getting me closer to the life I really want? Whatever the direction you are heading you have the helm. You are the captain of your ship, so I say to you, steer it away from the rocks. Steer it in the direction you want to go!
Like water in a tiny mountain stream the rock does not block my course, rather it redirects the flow of energy to a smoother easier descent down the stream bed. My tiny stream (of thought) picks up trickles of other tiny streams (Attraction) and grow in size and strength soon rushing rapids down the mountain. My tiny mountain stream soon carves out great canyons and no rocks get in its way. My tiny mountain stream is the Great Colorado river! What is yours?
The wise man at the foot of the mountain knows that before he climbs the mountain he must first “think” his way to the top. He must plan out his route in his mind and understand that the course will continue to change every step of his journey. Do not let the current good stop you from taking the better course. Now please pay attention here as this is tantamount to one of the most powerful things I will ever write: A thought is only as good as the full effort of that of whom thinks it. You can not sit on the bottom of the mountain praying your way to the top. And from the void came a thought and so it came to be.
The very first exercise I would encourage you to take upon yourself to complete, as mentioned in the previous post, is to decide what you really want. Some people call this the big picture, goals, lifetime achievement, growth. Whatever you may choose to call it you must first define it to exactly as you would like it without any limitations on the exercise. Do not let your current state dictate to you how your ultimate dream is conceived and therefore perceived in your mind. Remember also that this is for you and you alone. We are material beings in a material world, although it is my belief that we are a spiritual being too. My faith and understanding in GOD does not limit my wanting, yet in fact, it enables me to want even more for myself.
I break my Big Picture down into individual areas for myself and then write it out exactly as I want it. For instance I would define what exactly I mean for myself for good health. I come up with an actual definition of what good health means in my dictionary. The dictionary of Steve, only visible to Steve. It doesn’t matter if to me good health means eating only pizza everyday, as long as to me it is thoroughly defined. I used pizza as an example, but you MUST keep within the laws of nature. We know that if you only ate pizza it would not create good health. Please stay within the laws of nature when creating.
From there I write out what my PERFECT day using my SteveO dictionary to define what good health is to me. What would I do that day, how would I live that day, what would happen that day. I write it all in the current state and as if I am living that day right now, and again without any limitation.
Now I have a big picture defined and written out so I know exactly what to expect on my perfect day of health. If something in my life should change so that my perfect day would take on a new form, new information, a new development in science, whatever it is I adjust and re-write it. This serves two purposes. It strengthens my resolve and also keeps me focused on the big picture.
From here. and this is the key here, I focus on my big picture, every second of every minute. Everything I do I ask myself will this take me closer or further away from my big picture. If I eat this hot dog, instead of waiting 17 minutes to get my pizza delivered, will I be closer to eating pizza everyday for my health? I think you know the answer.
You are putting yourself into the vibrational frequency of your ultimate self. You are gravitating towards success. A success minded person will always attract success minded people. Whenever you are in a situation you do not want to be in you must truly refocus yourself to get yourself where you want to be. We are exactly where we created ourselves to be.
You create either what you want or what you don’t want. Focus completely on what you want and you will get it. Consider what I mentioned above about the wise man at the bottom of the mountain. He sees himself (his big picture) on top of that mountain. He defines what he sees and writes it down (makes a route map) and knows to get to the top of the mountain he needs to climb. He knows that if he sits on the bottom of the mountain and burns his boots he will not succeed climbing the mountain. At that moment he asked himself if I burn my boots will it get me closer to my big picture or push me away?
The wise man starts to climb the mountain and half way up with his route map he comes across an unmapped new route that is paved. This new route is not on his map, so he adjusts his map and takes the better in place of the good. At the end of the day the very steps he has taken led him to a definitive, organized step closer to be on top of the mountain. Everything he has done this day has taken him closer to his ultimate goal, to be on top of the mountain.
Start everyday with your route map to the top of your mountain. If something better comes along, do not let the current good prevent you from seeing it. Define your perfect day and set out everyday to take a clear, organized step towards it. Everything you do must be focused on achieving your perfect day. At the beginning of each day remind yourself what you want to be.
I want to be healthy
I want to be strong
I want to be …
Organize your thoughts to get you there. Spend time in the morning before your day begins reading your big picture and organizing the days tasks to get you there. Most importantly spend time thinking how to get there.
Carl Jung: “Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves.”
Very inspiring post Steve. Almost got Deja Vu reading it; slow drivers are the litmus test for me when it becomes to how conscious I am of my shadow projections. If I remember correctly Eckhart refers to the Jungian shadow as the “pain body” in A New Earth. I think your post ties in beautifully with the following passage by Eckhart:
Haven’t actually read Tolle’s A New Earth yet but its on my reading list. I really liked his Power of Now. Its a fascinating concept of Tolle’s, you generously provided. I look forward to reading this book.
I’m glad I could inspire you
A few years ago I came to a turning point in my life. It was when I was weighing the decision on whether to leave my career in the space program and strike out on my own as a writer. I no longer enjoyed the space work because it had become so political, and friends told me I was a great writer and should get published. I love to write - but could I make a living at it?
I did go down to a small river and sat beside it for a long time, thinking and praying. Insofar as I got any answer, I suppose I could say it was, “Look around. What do you see?”
Trees, shrubs, the river, the rocks in the river, birds, butterflies, leaves and twigs floating downstream.
“Focus. What do you see?”
The biggest things were the rocks. Substantial, stable…and stuck right where they were, only getting worn down over time by the water running over them.
That’s me right now. I hate it. I don’t want to be like that.
The next thing I noticed was the stream itself, and the leaves floating on it. They were going somewhere! That appealed more, until I realized that the stream - and what it carried - was controlled by gravity and the channel it was in. It had to follow the path of least resistance, always going lower and lower down.
I don’t want to be like that, either.
“What do you want, then?”
Just then a bright yellow butterfly fluttered right by my head, across the river, up and over the trees on the far bank.
LIKE THAT! I WANT TO BE LIKE THAT! I WANT TO FLY!!!
“Then…fly.”
I went home, discussed logistics and finances with my husband, then went on a leave of absence, knowing there was a layoff coming.
I wrote.
I got laid off.
I wrote some more.
It took awhile, and some determination, but I’m now an author with several best-selling ebooks, a number of award nominations, a film project in the works, and 9 books out currently, with more on the way. I am in no wise rich - not yet. But I’m happier in my work than I’ve been in years. That’s not to say that life hasn’t thrown me some really whopper curve balls in recent years - heck, in the last year. But I’m slowly climbing the totem pole of writers and I’m like that butterfly. I’m delicate; I still get battered by wild winds. But sooner or later, I’ll be a little sparrow. Then a pigeon; a hawk; an eagle.
Soon I’ll be flying high.
What is it that you want? I will repeat this theme over and over again and again as many times as it takes. I ask myself every minute of every day what is it that I want. I continually reassess what I want in life and I go for it.
Why some of you might ask? Isn’t it counter-productive to continuously ask yourself what it is that you want rather than focusing on obtaining what you want? Its a valid question and I appreciate it being asked. As I take my journey through life every day I learn about the world I live in. I was raised by a conservative family as a Catholic. My mother and father deeply religious and very loving and protective. Like most modern interpretations of religion though, we were raised to be humble and charitable. Family values were very important to my parents. These same family values also translated to less is more. We shouldn’t be greedy and should share what we had. We were raised to get what we wanted in life to fight for what was right and to go after what we liked. On that same accord we also knew the value of the dollar. While we never wanted really anything, there were times when basic necessities took precedence over fun and games. Times were not always easy and sometimes we struggled.
So what exactly does this have to do with continually reassessing what I want? My point is that many things my parents taught me were wrong! It doesn’t make them bad, its just what they were taught. We need to continue to asses our lives to never settle for the current good when there is better to be had. Satisfaction cannot, nor should it be ever had.
In order for you to get out of your life’s path everything you want you have to believe in yourself that you can do whatever you want to do, within the laws of nature. There are no limits to what you can do and therefore you should not limit yourself of what you want. Sure its nice to be humble about what you have and you should always share, but if you make an agreement with abundance their is no such thing as lack.
You cannot work with both abundance and lack at the same time. You either work with one or the other, but not both. Its like walking into a dark room; how do you get rid of the dark? You turn on the light. If you don’t want to work with the dark in the room you get rid of the dark by illuminating the room.
If you want something you must absolutely unequivocally believe it is yours as soon as you put the thought out into the ether of the universe. Ask and believe/prepare as if you already have it.
Think of it this way if you will. You walk into the worlds biggest store of your most favorite stuff. Lets say for this example its electronics. You have a credit card with unlimited dollars on it. You can afford to buy everything in the store. So you start to walk around and you see the worlds most powerful stereo, but before you buy it you realize there is only one to be had and there is someone else looking at it. In your mind you start to contemplate how would you get it home in your small car, would it actually fit in the house? What would your neighbors think if you turned it all the way up? You start to wonder about the interest rate on that credit card too. Well you better look at something smaller as there are probably hidden fees involved. Essentially you walk out with a new CD, and more than likely it will be scratched and you’ll need to return to the store again after getting all the way home.
Same scenario, except this time its my way of thinking and point by point we will go through how I would overcome every potential negative thought that crept into the mind preventing me with limits in an unlimited world.
- So you start to walk around and you see the worlds most powerful stereo, but before you buy it you realize there is only one to be had and there is someone else looking at it. In my world there is no lack. I start a conversation with the other person and we become friends since we both have such alike tastes in audio equipment. I know that as soon as one is gone another fills its place.
- In your mind you start to contemplate how would you get it home in your small car, would it actually fit in the house? I know exactly where this amazing new system would fit and look just perfect in my house. Car schmar, these guys are coming along and setting it up while me and my new friend grab a beer.
- What would your neighbors think if you turned it all the way up? I cannot wait to have a party so my neighbors can enjoy some terrific tunes as well. I love sharing with friends.
- You start to wonder about the interest rate on that credit card too. The universe will provide whatever I need and if you noticed I already mentioned I can afford anything in the store. I’m also getting a new MacBook Pro, Ipod, TV, PS3, all kinds of goodies.
I think the picture becomes clear here! The thing is I never set any limitations but the mind starts to add in all types of doubts and limits and guess what? It’s not your fault. You have been programmed all through life to understand the value of the dollar. How are you going to afford that? Who’s going to pay for it? You can’t afford that? The many faces of lack and they all start in your mind.
I tell you this my friend. You can have whatever you want, anything in the world you want, but you must believe you already have it when you put the thought out there.
A little trick I do when I want something is to prepare for whatever it is that I want. If I want a new TV the first thing I do is take measurements of the new TV I want and where it is going to go. Then I start to prepare, Who am I giving the old TV to. I firmly believe in giving to charities. I make room for whatever it is I am adding to my life and believe I will have it. If you want a house start house shopping. Start to prepare yourself. Asses a moving company, check boxes, new furniture. Get ready to have a new house in other words.
The supply is unlimited and if you believe so it shall be.
Hello How are you doing today Well my name is Brenda and i will like to have a talk with you if you don’t mind Well let me give you my yahoo id so that you can E-mail so that we can talk or Buzz me well this is my yahoo id (Brenda1z4u@yahoo.com) Well i will like you to buzz me okay and please i will be waiting for you IM okay take care and God bless you…???
I’m going to start my travel journal in here with hopefully what promises to be an epic journey.
Does anyone else notice that when traveling women just look so much better? Not sure why but so far pretty much every chick that has walked past me is adorable or super hot. I’d do them all. What can I say I’m a regular perv and I promise you all I will have some serious reports while I am traveling.
I’ll be leaving today and arriving tomorrow at 2:50 pm for a full 24 hour journey. My destination tomorrow will bring me to exotic lands not explored by most Westerners. Many of these locales were isolated and cut off by government rule. I’ll post tips of where I am in here, so be sure to read often as John will be running some contests on tomorrow’s webcast. If you can guess where I am you might win something.
On the other hand, I’ll be showing up in some of the spots I have read about on here. Perhaps you might be able to spot me and watch me in action as I attempt to seduce every woman I meet.
Life is good
Captains Log, stardate SG2115
An away team of myself, me and I are circling the planetary anomoly known as Memphis TN. The species here are hostile and I’ve had to kill at least three of them.
Here comes another Memphis hottie, I must impregnate her to save the species and repopulate the planet. I’m wearing A314 and my travel buddy MX149. A blast from the past, but the effects on travel have always been great. Breezed through security after they stripped searched me and emptied the entire contents on my bag.
Seems like all the hotties have been arriving and I’m leaving. Lets hope I can put sin in the first stop. Although its only 50 minutes before I fly over the big wet spot.