Nothing to do with age, everything to do with 2 bad marriages and a number of crappy relationships under my belt! 
word !!! 
Me thinks it comes with how painful each ending is. but I feel for ya, I’ve been through that.
My last one scared me pretty bad, so I quit for a while. It got to the point that it wasn’t worth the pain.
You are two marriages ahead of me, but I have had my number of bad relationships.
Suck it up buddy! They helped make you who you are today and built character.
Mark - are you SURE you can handle all those women by yourself? Guess its true what they say. Some things are bigger in Texas…
And more plentiful too. Me likes! 
I am just too trusting and honest.
His hands are not present, in the picture, and all the ladies are smiling. 
:p:cool:
Ohh Woofie - if you look like your picture - then you are my kinda guy.
Yes, where ARE Marks hands? No doubt reaching into his pocket for another quick spray of Instant Shine…
Nope! No Instant Shine, I was wearing one of the newer pheros from the unmentionable place. And my hands were on the shoulders of the girl on the right and the one in the middle. The blonde girl on the left just kinda joined in.
Sorry - had to do the ol’
HAND CHECK!!! LOL
Pheros from an unmentionable place? I hope you mean another store - not natural pheros… Remember that thread a few months ago?
Yep. there had been a couple of those threads. And yeah, they came from the place that we can’t talk about right now. I sure hope they are able to resolve everything and we can start talking about them again soon.
Pheronoob said:
When I read this I wanted to cry or maybe I am cryingsorry I don’t get the same effects from Instant Sexiness A as everybody elsethis is the second time I’ve worn it and each time I’ve been reduced to tears over just general sh@t regarding husbands.
I’ve been reading your journal Pheronoob and your story is almost my story, no kids involved in mine, but my H is your H’s twin borther. What you wrote above says it all, he is not happy inside himself and I have spent 7 and a half years trying everything I could to make him happy~help him find what ever it was he is looking for. He hasn’t touched me in 6 and a half of those years. I finally realized last month that it is never going to happen. He is never going to find what makes him happy long term, because he is looking for it from the outside and he is never going to want me as a husband should want his wifeit has always been too easy for him to move on~~I’m his sixth wife, he was my first everything. I realized it was killing my soul to be wth him. I ended it and he is at our home packing his belonging right now.
Pheronoob, as you well know being with a man that does not want to be intimate with you erodes your self confidence. I was to a point where I could not even look people in the eye, I felt so worthless. Having him go has been a big boost to my self esteem and others are starting to notice. I even stepped outside my comfort zone and applied for a job that better suits me. My application was accepted and I tested for the position this morning~~I feel good about how well I did.
I love your journal, I wish you the very best, you will come through it with more of everything good life has to offer and if you ever just want to talk one on one PM me. Our stories really are very much alike.
Fall
Fallinglight - thank you so much for your post. He is on his sixth? Ouch!
I am so glad you had the courage to split. Its great that you are looking at a new job that will help you be the person you are supposed to be - and offer a distraction during your period of transition.
I believe it or not, was my Hs first. He had never been with a woman until the age of 32.
Looking back, i realize that suconciously he thought he was too good to share himself with women who did not meet his tough standards. Hey, today I still dont.
Sounds like yours is the same way. You are so brave to end it. I know it was hard, but dont you feel stronger already?
There are quite a few women here like us - when we share our stories we realize we really are not alone. Sometimes i really think men like that want to isolate us so we are just for them and nobody else.
I’m looking to reading your journal too… Also, yes we should PM and compare notes!
Ummm, did i miss something? Actually i was referring a thread from here - i have never been to a competitors site yet. I think habib started it… Something about sperm? Tee hee - now i am embarrassed…
Nope, you didn’t miss anything. I was saying that I remember those threads, but that the unmentionable place I was referring to was not a body part, it was another store.
Maybe it was I that wasn’t quick enough to catch on to what you were talking about. 
And fallinglight, I’m gonna say that I feel for you, but that I’m glad you had the courage to end it and walk away.
I think guys like your ex and phernoobs are pretty miserable inside and feel that if they can bring everybody around them down too, then they can believe that there’s nothing wrong with them, and that’s just how life is.
It’s the same with losers: They try to bring those around them down to their level, so they don’t have to confront their failures and can blame society.
Mark you are right about the losers. I’m sure you know guys like that and dont strike up friendships with them.
My H does not have ONE friend he sees socially. He hangs out at work, or makes light convo with my friends Hs. Other than that, I think he expects people to come to him. ???
People like us realize you have to make some overtures even if you are not 100% percent compatible with a prospective friend or date.
Thats why the pheromones are so great. It makes it easier for us to approach and get to know people. Kinda smooths out the akwardness that happens at first.
I have had more fun and been more relaxed socially (even with people i know already) since using the pheromones.
I did get my H to try. It seemed to work for him. But he refused to believe it. What a dud.
Time to move on - need a new job and H III … jk
I just typed a huuuge thing which is now in cyberspace. I hate this laptop.
Sooooo. I was a bored mommy today.
My kids go bowling on tue nights. No parents. Kids 9-14. Bowling alley supervises. They always go with a group of friends. I ALWAYS drive. so I sprayed the seats of the van with Spaceland - just for grins.
Then I made a concoction for my boyz with sample guy smell from macys - with a little A314 kick. My daughter got MX235 (one boy said it smelled like cookie dough, the other said peaches and cream) - and a spritz o’ shine. Her cover scent is always Lovespell from victorias secret.
After i picked up the 3 friends the atmosphere in the car was near hysteria! Yay. what fun. Wonder what fun happened tonight.
My H just went to pick them up in the Spaceland-soaked vehicle.
Hmmm next week TG gets back. Hope he still wants to go out. What to wear?
Im hoping to get some of the new woodymaker. Its been a while since i have seen real hard wood. not that fake laminate stuff i usually get.
lol! you’re so bad! 
But hey, good luck on your mission! The new mix does sound promising!
What are you trying to kill him?
oh wait maybe you are…
Awww its okay. It would take much more for him to crack a smile… He actually was fairly friendly when he got home. I think it was the Dove ice cream bars he bought.
He did nearly die for real last summer. If that didnt kill him- nothing will. It wouldnt be at my hand anywyay - his life insurance policy isnt much.