And!so what…age is only a number. Its not like he is young enough to be your son. Noob, babe, Don’t you feel young, vibrant and hot!..well then, expect that even the younger guys are gonna pick up on that.
BTW…one of my TG’s is eleven years younger than myself, and he actually tells me that I am sexier than any younger woman he has dated…trust me the boy loves himself some djac
Noob sweety, as long as you don’t make your age an issue believe me it won’t even cross his mind
go get ya self a man or at least some action or both…hehehe
Ok so I have been on a sort of divorce advice website - pouring my heart out to some women who are nice enough to listen to all the gory details. guess what? they think h is an ass - just out for himself. time to move on. ok - so i may make light of it here - but it really is devastating even if i have know for over 10 years. we are still in the same house until our finances are sorted.
Anyhoo. so i mentioned my friend who asked me out for drinks when he gets back from being away. as long as he doesnt change his mind.
i am thinking i need to come up with the perfect combo for the um.. tryst.
any thoughts? stevo made those new mixes avail so one of those? ummm my new fave mx274? this dude really responds to instant honesty - so a few million squirts? some instant opemness?
cover scent? i usually wear pink sugar.
should i wear pink sugar on one wrist and chocolate lovers on the other and flirtatiously ask him which he prefers?
ok i am obsessing. especially if he forgets or changes his mind. i have prolly like three weeks until this comes down so…
three weeks of hyperventilation is not going to be good for my blood oxygen ratio. plus i have consumed like three barrels of red wine in the last week. can you spell obsession? my best friend can only take so much of me going over the whole thing over and over…
crap. someone flagellate miss jane with her own beef jerky just to shut her up.
p83? mx274? mx235? aaaaaaaaaahhhhhh! ANYONE??? HELP???
Hahahaha. You are so funny Phernoob. Isn’t obsessing just exhilarating? It’s like junior high all over again.
You are doing everything right far as I can tell. Pouring out your heartache to the divorce website people is perfect. Getting your mind off your dork soon-to-be-ex (DSTBE) and on to a younger, and clearly more interested model is perfect.
IMO, your private life is no longer DSTBE’s concern. I’d try to give him exactly as much time and thought as he deserves, very little. (Of course that is really hard to do in practice. I know, seriously, I know*.*)
What are your goals for your meeting with cute guy? Do you want sex that night or just dinner? That makes a big difference in which pheromones to wear.
Thanks for your comments. I sense that you are quite a bit younger than me, but you seem much wiser!
OMG this is so complicated. I have not posted many details bc i was afraid that my H would be on here too as he bought a couple of products.
Also, there is little anonimity in this world anymore with the internet.
Cute guy, sex? Maybe. I have known him quite a while now. He is the most amazing person I have ever met. It started out as hero-worship because of what he does for a living. Then I saw him do what he does. He is sooooo talented. When we saw each other we would just talk a little, but it seemed like we had tons in common.
Now, I see him once a week for “professional” reasons (um, think kids coach). So there is the parent/coach relationship. Except he started to tell me really personal details about himself. We also have almost identical personalities and have some of the same life situations happening at the same time. Most of our convos are like - “OMG me too!”.
So when he came out and asked me about my situation I was surprised. We were running late into practice, so I assumed the drinks invite was just to have a friendly chat not on his clock so to speak. Not a romantic thing. Now i see here that people think it could be intended that way.
So, hmm the person I have hero-worshipped from afar could be interested in me? Hmmmmmmm. That is mind-blowing.
So after that long monologue… Is is about sex? IDK. I guess I would have to find out what he is thinking first. He IS very sexy…
The only advice I would offer is to go very cautiously until any divorce is final. Things can get messy - especially with the kids. You do not want to give your husband any ammo - I mean the legal kind.
A lot of divorce lawyers are now tracking web usage … usually the wife’s looking for girlfriends/porn - but who knows …
I know of one divorce where it was definitely the husband’s fault - long term drug problems - and wife had gotten into a relationship - purely emotional - with a professional colleague. So at divorce time even though the husband pointed out the relationship, both wife and her “friend” were able to make sworn statements that there had been no hanky panky - they were purely friends up to that point.
They married within a year of the divorce and everyone was happy for them. Except maybe the ex-husband.
WTF!!! Sorry phernoob, but the guys just a piece of shit. That’s just not something you say to anybody that you care about. I know you have the kids to think about, but if I were with someone (Regardless of whether it were a marriage or just living together) and they said that to me, I would have told them to get the fuck out.
On a less extreme note, you could have told him that he hasn’t been giving you much of a reason to show him how awesome you really are!
YAY!!! I’m really happy for you and hope you have the courage to follow through. Nobody deserves to live an unhappy life, or be with someone who doesn’t appreciate them.
EXCEPT YOUR ASSHOLE HUBBY!!!
Yep! He’s definitely interested, and he’s shown that he has high morals and ethics by asking if you’re planning on following through with the divore, before he invited you out.
As far as him being younger, when I was 21 years old I was head over heels in love with a girl that was 29. I’ve dated women younger, older and in between. Age is just a number. Don’t sell yourself short!
Now on to the gorilla sounds. Ain’t gonna happen! I managed to chase stalker girl away by not returning any of her text messages or phone calls. I think she finally got the idea and I haven’t seen her or heard from her in a couple of weeks.
But, as to Minor Girl from my journal entry on last Saturday Night (My avatar pic), we’ve talked a few times on the phone and probably had 50 or more text messages back and forth since Sunday!
Hey phernoob, I thought I told you a long time ago that you ain’t a noob anymore and were gonna have to change your username! And, since you never bothered to do so, I took the liberty of changing it for you!
OMG you guys this is getting scary. I thought the guy was offering friendship - maybe someone to bounce his problems with girls off since we have so much in common.. Ok, I WAS wearing a really short skirt - like a white pleated thingy.
You know, this dude could forget all about me while on his bus trip. Regardless, I still cannot stay in my M. Gotta get a full time job, then pay off our enormous debts incurred because i was stupid enough to quit my career to raise my kids (but i can say i raised them by myself). Then i can get out. This friend may or may not be around. Chances are he will prolly find a girl his own age. I dont have crystal balls and wont worry about that now.
Hey - i still wanna be a noob! I still ask lots of questions about amounts, combos and diffusion. Tisha and kitten are my best sources of info.
Mark. What you have going with Minor Girl sounds linteresting. Is she really a minor? Does she wear one of those hats with a light on it? Do you wear a gorilla suit for her?
Wow - this could be the kinky plot of our first team phero-porno project.
We could call it “Minor Offense”. Or, “Down the Shaft”.
Don’t really know what I have going on with Minor Girl at this point! Yes she really is a minor, just turned 20 years old on Monday. She doesn’t wear a lighted hat and I nope I don’t wear gorilla suits or make gorilla sounds around her.
I posted in my journal that we sort of had a date last Saturday (We met at my usual nightclub), then she ended up pretty much blowing me off and making out with another guy.
The next day she texts me to say that she had a great time, then texts again a little later to ask if I wanted to go to another club that night and I told her no that I was just gonna stay home and be a lazy bum. Damn if I was gonna get dropped in the friendship zone all that easily. Since then we’ve talked several times on the phone and probably sent at least 50 text messages back and forth.
Mark? She made out with ANOTHER guy? Not you? That disturbs me tremendously. Something WRONG there dude.
Oh, BTW - what IS making out anyway? I forgot.
Yep! But I will say that before she ended up making out with the other guy, her friend had stuck her tongue down my throat. Yeah strange I know. The friend later ended up with some other guy too, and I ended up all by my lonesome!
OMG Mark. I have to admit I have been there, done that at the same age. I was a nightclub DJ. In one night, I made out with both owners (brothers) the manager, and the other DJ Jim. I was 20.. Sounds like kinda the same thing. Shit, that was 4 guys in one night! Wow - if I could turn back time…
Then DJ Jim asked me to leave the DJ booth for 10 minutes because his girlfriend was blowing him in there. Duh, and then I made out with him after she left.
Now that I am older, that does not appeal. But hey Mark - if the others wont say it - I will. Ya gotta have some fun. Sorta go with the flow kinda thing. What are you going to do until you meet HER. Sit home watching the olympics?
At least you are getting out there - better than what I am doing. Do it for both of us. Then i want details.
Hey. Do ya think my TG liked my thigh-high white pleated skirt? Did he really ask me out, or does he just like me because we have so much in common?
TG obviously likes you. You’ve been so long in a bad relationship that you aren’t allowing yourslef to see it. By asking if you’re still planning on the divorce, then asking you to meet for drinks is a pretty dead on indicator to me. If he was only asking because of commonality and seeing you as a friend, he would have asked you for drinks first and held off on that question to ask later.
And yes, I would guess that he liked the frilly little white skirt.
As to going with the flow and having fun, I couldn’t agree more. I’ve never made out with 4 women in a day though. The best I can offer is to say that my bests would have to be sex with 2 girls in the same day, 3 different girls in a week, one threesome, and doing it once in a hotel room with another couple doing the same in the other bed.
Wow Mark - you are waaaay ahead of me. Sex with 2 different girls in the same DAY??? When I got REALLY lucky, I had sex with 2 guys in the same YEAR!
I bow to your greatness… Teach me oh master… I am grasshopper…
Hey I’m the same way too. I just find the relationships to be fewer and farer between, cause I learned that it’s better to be alone than in the wrong relationship.
And, I never said you would have, I said you could have.
What age do we get to to achieve this kind of wisdom. Yea, i would rather be alone than be in a bad relationship. but i figure, the relationship im in right now, i AM alone.
Funny. i have confronted him, done interventions, issued ultimatums, nothing. he still manages to turn it around so i am in the wrong. too sensitive.
alone would be better. no snoring to listen to at 2am…
Since then we’ve talked several times on the phone and probably sent at least 50 text messages back and forth.
Yeah strange I know. The friend later ended up with some other guy too, and I ended up all by my lonesome! 