So many tests So little time - My journal

Ok, so I received my first oder several weeks ago and I have been preaching a nightclub combination that I use of 4 sprays Ammo, 3 sprays Turn Up The Heat 2X and 3 sprays Instant Female Magic, that I found to be my sweet spot ever since I started using them and have been getting hits.

I had to post my latest experience though.

I went to my usual Thursday night haunt last night (Thanksgiving) with my pheros applied, and sat in my usual spot. It was kind of slow when I got there (10:00 PM) but I figured it would probably pick up.

I’m there for about 10 minutes and this girl passes by me going to the bar. While she’s at the bar I notice her looking over at me, and after she gets her drink she come over and says hi. She’s probably 26 or 27 years old and looks kind of familiar, but I couldn’t place her at first.

It turns out that I had used my Smile line on her a couple of months before, and again about a month ago, which you can find in Kopo’s posting on: art of approaching women

Anyway, the first time I tried the smile line, she half heartedly smiled, and when I started back toward her a little later she turned away. So I figured that was that and kept walking.

The second time I tried the smile routine (without having remembered her from the month before) she says you always tell me that, I just don’t smile much, and said it in somewhat of a f***k you tone, so I leave.

So anyway, now I realize who she is, and am a little surprised that she’s come over to me, but hey, it’s all good.

She ends up hanging with me for most of the night, even though early on she got a migraine, which of course I massage her head and neck a bit trying to help her get rid of it. She is the type to play with her hair, so at one point I say hey I wanna play too, and start running my hand through her hair and playing with it, which she kind of leans into a bit.

During the night there are a couple of girls in their early 20’s who come over and stand like 2 feet away from me, even though there was probably 15 feet of free space and they could have put some distance between us. They are dancing to the music and bump into me a couple of times and when I look over they both smile at me. A guy behind me is tapping my back, pointing at them and telling me to go for it, but I’m pretty content with the other girl and blow it off.

When my girl decides to leave, she gives me a hug and I give her a peck on the forehead. I probably could have gone for a real kiss and got it, and had it not been for her migraine, probably even more. But, I’ve got a date with her tomorrow night, and figured I’d be a gentleman…tonight!

I’ll come back Sunday and tell how Saturday went.

Never hurts to be a gentleman. I’d say you probably coulda done some lip lockin for sure :slight_smile:

Wow, thats a great report! I didn’t know that people still go to clubs at thanksgiving night.
Can’t wait to go in like … 1 and 1/2 years… LOL

Yep, holidays are actually great nights for clubbing. Girls that are single and go out on holidays are usually feeling a little lonely, and maybe a bit depressed. It’s a great night for meeting them. And, a lot of the ones that are attached stay home with their partners. All in all, Thanksgiving and Christmas are great nights for meeting women, and of course Valentines Day goes without saying.

I agree that I probably could have taken things further with the girl from last night, but after my failed pickup attempts from a couple of months ago, I figured I would show her what a great guy I am and that I wasn’t just looking to get laid. I’m not much of a one-night-stand kind of guy these days…to old for that now…and been there done that, to many times.

Valentine’s Day also has the anti holiday crowd out which can be even better if love isn’t to your liking.

Finally! The avatars are working for me. So as you can see, this is me…yea over there on the left… and I am far from being a young stud, but my phero mix sure gets me the results of being one :smiley:

good report old stud!!!

All right! Brilliant story that truly underscores the value of patience. I’m going to hijack for just a minute to reinforce this:Just because you don’t see an immediate positive response from someone to your pheros doesn’t mean the person is not responding.
Some people are accomplished at repressing any visible response. Some people are artless in “covering” their response, others are very creative. How many would have considered the half-hearted smile (first meeting) or the “you always tell me that” (second meeting) to be HITS?

(If Patience is a virtue, then I am a very virtuous fella – sometimes. :cool: )


Heya Mark, although the two girls who danced into you were also clearly hits, I think you’re definitely right in evaluating the “third time’s the charm” girl as higher value.

Hope you have a great night!

Markl, That’s just it - They weren’t hits. I got those rejections BEFORE getting my pheros!

But you are exactly right, patience is a virtue, and especially so with pheros. I have found that sometimes it takes a little time for a girl to actually accept that she is feeling something and respond. This is especially true for people that already know you, and are now trying to figure out and cope with what’s going on in their head.

And, if a target does not want to be targeted, they may try to cover or refuse to respond anything they may be feeling.

Well, that’s a hippogryph of a different color! My mistake. As I look at the situation now, I’m flipping between two views of the sequence of events:

  • The pheros accomplished a total reversal: two ‘rejections’ turned around on end to a date once the pheros were ‘on’
  • The pheros triggered a threshhold: the two ‘rejections’ were really ‘covered hits’ and the pheros then put the dynamic over the top.
    I can’t even guess which is true, not being there/seeing that. But my hypothesis would be the second case.

Why? My experiences so far tell me this: the more powerfully someone is attracted to you, the more heroically they will try to cover their response.

I’m toying with the idea of some pheros as “risk signals” … indicating that it’s ‘okay’ (lowered risk) to

  • be physically close (Instant Shine)
  • be verbally open (Alphanol)
  • be conspicuously aroused (-none)
    *]be comforted/comfortable (EST, A1)

Hey MarkL, I’m gonna agree with you and go with your second hypothosis. This club is somewhat of a meat market and I’m sure that I wasn’t the first one to approach her on either night. But, I am willing to bet that I was the most gracefull and respectfull.

It probably didn’t hurt that if she had been back to the club since the second rejection, that she would have seen several girls around me on any given night. I have some really hot and young friends that hang with me, and that’s always good for getting other women to pay attention.

Think it’s probably along the lines of them thinking: this guy must have something going for him, cause he’s got all these women around him, I’m gonna have to get to know him :smiley:

OK, It’s Sunday and I’m back with a big smile to share my results of last nights date with the girl from Thursday night:

Wore the same phero mix, why try to fix something that’s not broken, right?

I got her to come by my place, instead of picking her up. You know, told her that until she got to know me better that she may not want me knowing where she lives, cause I could be a stalker. That got a little laugh, but also got here to realize that it probably was safer for her. And, insured that we would be coming back to my place later. Yea, a little devious I know.

We went to dinner and had some nice innocent flirtation going, and lots of eye contact. After dinner we planned on going to the nighclub where we had met, as we both frequent the club anyway. but, it was still early and decided that we’d come back to my place and listen to a bit of music for awhile. We both love music and I have some pretty rare cuts that I had told her about. Obviously the main intention was to get her feeling comfortable being at my place though.

So anyway, about an hour later, I had burned a CD for her and we decide that it’s late enough to hit the club. It’s a country western club and would offer a great chance of some close together two-stepping.

End of night now and after a lot of touchy-feely dancing and getting close, its time to leave. As we’re driving back to my place I’m debating on a David D take away, or inviting her in. Turns out that she had already made the decision and when we got to my place and I’d walked around to open the car door for here, she headed straight to my door.

Well, it’s 2:00 PM Sunday now and she’s just left, so all-in-all I would have to say that things went pretty well :smiley: :wink: :smiley:

ya got laid I pray!

great work mark. now ive nominated you to help me

ya dig?

hey, what’s your take on pherlure? i have noticed some hits, and now that im gonna have the a314 & IS at m disposal, i want your thoughts.

i know I read from (catlord i think) that pherlure works better as a mix. good thing is i have PLENTY pherlure, and unlike most peeps, I plan to use each and every drop of it.

i know for sure it works because my girl has softened up to me like i haven’t seen in years, because the last few years she’s been a down right nasty b!tch with her attitude. now its like she’s scrambling after me, and i am able to have my way domestically. only thing is we haven’t had sex in months. and im not even stressing it much

cslim, yep even got the name right, cause I was one to welcome you.

I have seen mixed reviews on Pherlure, works for some and not for others. But, since it does seem to be working for you, by all means stick with it.

Since you’ve been together for awhile, and you’re in your 30’s, I would suggest Turn Up The Heat to heat things up in the bedroom. Your natural None production isn’t what it was when you were 18, and if it’s been that long since you’ve been intimate, I’d definitely go with a bottle.

As to the IS and A314, the IS will probably have her enjoying time spent with you a bit more, although it’s not intended as a sexual mix. The A314 will give off an alpha male aura, and I’m concerned that it might clash with her personality and have her avoiding you, nullifying any net gain from the IS.

I might give Instant Female Magic a shot. I use it anytime I wear my phero’s and at least for me, it seems to loosen women up a bit and make them more comfortable around me.

Of course the only way to see how she will react is to experiement and look for reactions.

If she goes back into bitch mode, pick up a bottle of Instant Jerk and kick her around a bit. You want to have her really pissed at you, get yourself a bottle of Dirty, or better yet, head over to love-scents and get a bottle of EOW, apply liberally, and let her think you’re screwing around on her. :roll_eyes: :open_mouth:

But really, best of luck with your girl, and start a thread to let us know how the pheros are working for you.

thx bro.

as far as work goes, although i see plenty girls there, i am afraid i can’t ‘legitimately’ get close enough to them toget a ‘hit’

what would you recommend i do to make an excuse to get near?
i can’t just wait for a happy hour friday

on the flip side, im amped that we have our holiday party at the westin on dec 15th it’s from 7-12pm, i will look to most def get loose on that occasion. i’m a dog i feel. i feel i need to get my last hoorahs out b4 i settle down and close the books on experiencing other women. i feel i have one good year left to get laid as much as possible b4 i call it a wrap, and i will say it damn sure isnt as easy as it used to be.

maybe i should invite one of the girls at work to starbucks for lunch. that may be a great idea, because i can email them wgile we are at work then play it from there, plus my buddy is like me, he has a girl but he is flirting with a few others at the job, and they all have friends that are freaks like them so i can always make it a two on two

love to read your thoughts tho. u remind me of my buddy bill, you guys look similar and although he’s 52 now, he has the heart and character of a late 20’s guy, has sex with any girl he get get a shot with and some younger ones DIG the older guy.

i am 33 but i literally look about 23, so i have an advantage im looking to capitalize on, only i am seeking the best methods using pheromones as the catlyst

I’m tooooo excited!!! My latest order finally shipped today, meaning I’ll have it just in time to start playing on Thursday night…Ladies night at my favorite club :smiley:

I got sooo excited that I had to go back to the store and put in another order … Wanted to wait till tomorrow or whenver for the new product releases… but saw there was only one Chemical Romance Pack left, so I HAD to snag it, then went on to pick up the P104 mixes, and some Instant Shine and Instant Openness.

Now I’m looking forward to coming back and ramping up my journal postings :smiley:

This report is all that. Props dude.

The package arrived today and when I opened the box I swear the girls must have laced it with Spaceland and Instant Shine, cause the feeling that came over me was AWESOME!!! :smiley: :smiley:

I started tearing through the bubble wrap and found sooooo many extra goodies that I was dumbfounded! :confused: :smiley: Gotta love those girls!!!

Looks like I’m gonna be busy testing for months!!!

And SteveO, if you happen to see this post, the girls love me too, and here’s the note that I got to prove it :stuck_out_tongue:

http://democomputer.com/forum_images/note.jpg

I am SO jealous :angry: :stuck_out_tongue:. Hope I get one next time, too. Better still, I hope to get Jasmin’s siggi as well. Sort of buy 2 get 1 free. :smiley:

Okay, so you got a couple of goodies…but how much did you invest in Androtics to get those freebie??? $100, $200, $300???..nah j/k, congrats on your order dude.