I’m not sure actually how things are going with me and my target girl. I have been reading a bit of the game, and I have read some of David Deangelo’s book, so I am using that a bit, though I haven’t had a chance to hang out with my target yet, well designatetdly hang out, we have at some events we were both at, but we haven’t gotten together for the purpose of hanging out. Well anyways, I invited her to hang out this saturday, but she had a open house for her friends who were moving. She could have hung out in the morning if she lived closer, but it’s to much hassle to drive and get her, then take her back for the open house- she lives an hour away, so distance has to be worked in. Anyways, my parents were going to the same thing, and they said they could bring her back afterwards, but she told me her sister had a card making workshop nobody was showing up at, and she was going to be mad if my target didn’t go to it. SHe really insists she isn’t making up excuses- and I never asked if she was.
I did ask if she was okay with hanging out- because I’m not asking her on a date yet, just to hang out- probably same thing, but it makes her more comfortable, and she is sorta attached to another guy, so I don’t want to look like I’m taking her away from him- though she doesn’t do anything with him.
Anyways, she also could have hung out on sunday, but her mom said she can’t sunday, it’s after church, and they have some family stuff. Anyways, she mentioned she does feel a little weird, never having a guy friend before. i am trying to make her feel like we want to just be friends. Which I do want to be friends, and if it never goes farther I am fine. Anyways, I wanted to use a bit of what I learned from reading the game and david dangello’s book, so I just said, “well just remember it’s not a date, we are just hanging out. If I decide your good enough to like I’ll ask you on a date. I still have to get over your shortness, hahaha” she’s short, so sometimes I bug her, not much, but enough to keep it fresh.
Anyways, she hasn’t answered back, but does it look like my game is good? I also told her possibly next saturday we could try again, it’s hard to tell if she actually is making up excuses, or if she truly is really busy.
Oh an update on my phero’s I was at a church activity with her, and so I moved into using just Instant Female Magic and Instant Openness. I didn’t notice any repulsion, and she actually stayed to hang around with me when all others left, though there was an awkward silent moment, but I managed to start talking about a new shirt I ripped when playing football with some friends, so we did start to talk, but I didn’t notice the Instant Openness helping much. But she didn’t seem to want to run away, which I attribute to not putting on any other pheros but IFM. Does this look like it’s working now? every time before she would avoid me if I wore Ammo.
anyways, thanks guys for any replies.
