Please help!
I am a 32 year old who looks like a 25 year old and is considered “hot” by most girls in their early 20s. I have no problem picking up women, with or without chemical help. I have little experience with pheromones (I’ve bought a few straight mone products in the past, as well as a waste of a bottle of Pherlure) mostly just out of curiosity.
I am in a crumbling relationship and have recently fallen for a new girl in my office who has a live in boyfriend. We are very flirty and I get the feeling that the only reason we’re not dating is because it would screw up her living situation. Recently, she’s been consistently confiding in me with her realtionship problems and I took that as a bigger sign of hopefully mutual feelings.
I don’t want to take a chance of messing up my job if I’m wrong about her sharing the same feelings, but I do want to push this past the boundries of our bad relationships into a relationship with each other. To say that I’m crazy about her would be an understatement. She fills my every waking thought. I decided to enlist some help, and I ordered a bottle of instant gentleman and a bottle of instant jerk. The products arrived yesterday along with free samples of turn up the heat and instant shine.
I decided to try my first mixture and arbitrarily mixed 1 part turn up the heat with 6 parts instant gentleman, 4 parts instant jerk, and a spray of instant shine to top it off. I took the mone mixture and mixed 50-50 with my favorite cologne (Paco Rabanne).
I brought the mixture to work and put it on at 8:45 so that it would be set by 9:00 when I saw her. I didn’t want to overdo it, so I put one drop on my wrist, rubbed my wrists together, then rubbed them on my neck. We went outside at 9:00 a.m. to talk for ten minutes like we normally do. I didn’t notice any more or less flirting on her part, and I didn’t notice any change in her behavior.
When I got back to my desk, I emailed her (we typically email each other all day), but she wrote back that she is happy to report that she fixed all her relationship problems last night. I can’t help but feel like a bit of a fool now, wondering if my mixture turned her off, wondering if the mixture had no effect at all and I’ve been reading too much into this all along. Meanwhile, I’ve noticed no effects on any other women in the office. Not that I care about anyone else here, but is it possible that I’m not wearing enough? Is it a bad mix? Should I put on some more? What did I do wrong, and what can I do to win this wonderful girl’s heart?
Thanks in advance for your advice…