There was a time when I didn’t believe in the power of pheromones, but that all changed when I read so many accounts about all the good they’d done for people.
Enter a week ago, when I purchased a bottle of Instant Gentleman, a bottle of Instant Jerk, and an order that arrived with free samples of Turn up the Heat and Instant Shine.
I tried a combo first which had no effects. The following day, 1 spray of Instant Gentleman, no effect. The next day 2 sprays of Instant Jerk, no effect. Today, 2 sprays of Turn up the Heat with no effect. Each time I used my own cologne to cover the scent. I’ve had a few girls check me out but that happens pheromones or no pheromones. Meanwhile, each day, I’ve been on crowded buses, crowded subways, in stores, restaraunts, and in small quarters with female friends and coworkers. I have had nothing in the way of hits that is out of the ordinary in any way.
At this point, I am ready to give up and just stop believing that these things work at all. However, I am still convinced by all the positive results I see posted on these boards. What am I doing wrong?
Dude, I’m sorry to hear that. Particularly with the IJ which is meant to have dramatic effects. I didn’t have any hits from my first try of TUTH, maybe one but I’m not really so sure. But I felt the effects on myself - I didn’t get any headaches or anything, I have to say. Maybe a week later, I went to a party and tried my first combo 2:3:4 TUTH:IG:IO - I didn’t get any sort of dramatic hits… oh wait a minute, I got a possible DIHL actually. But the basic level of social functioning was lifted for me, in a way that is not easy to describe in words. Subsequently, I’ve had a couple of missions getting full-blown DIHLs and IOIs, and also blow-outs where nothing happens. I am still a noob myself.
Like exercise, dieting, or studying, pheromone usage benefits from consistency. Wear one product in increasing dosages for a week.
So don’t do combos, or rotate the product. If you’re going to try Instant Jerk, stick with it for a week. It’s strange how it takes a moment to learn the pheromone vibe, then takes a little longer still, to be able to focus on that energy specifically enough to act on it.
And the headaches may stem from overloading your brain. For some people, spraying large amounts can make them tired, etc…as long as you aren’t dying I guess.
Hey again Reality, that sounds kinda twilight zonish doesn’t it. LOL
Let me say right up front everybody here wants you to have as much fun with pheromones as the rest of us do. We get a little frustrated when guys (or gals) don’t get results so if any of this sounds like criticism just know that it isn’t…many of us have been right where you are now.
I’m going to point you in the direction of some threads that people have worked hard to write that are there to help newbies. Please take some time and read them if you haven’t already done so.
Now put everything up except for the IG. Tommorrow for work put on 2 sprays. Be yourself, flirty, jerkish, whatever. Wear for 3 work days straight. Don’t add anything. Then DON"T wear pheromones for 2 days. If you don’t see anything different then cycle through with 4 sprays for 3 days and nothing for 2. If still nothing cycle through the steps with Ishine. You might also try Snooks OD experiment of going to a mall foodcourt and taking your IJ with you…you’ll read about how to do it in his post I listed above.
You might also tell us what you are expecting a “hit” to look like so we can help with your expectations.
IMO, IJ works only when you are up and close with a person. Ammo is the best product for creating attraction from a distance.
And, I would suggest starting out with 1 spray of IJ to the neck. 2 sprays would be overdoing it for most people.
There is a similar thing I have found recently. I have been mixing it up a fair bit with the combos myself (with A314 as constant), I have to admit, but I have got what I like to call “momentum” at the minute. So I feel pretty pleased about getting hits, which leads to more hits. A process that feels like magic, but is probably modulated by all sorts of things such as confidence boosting, which makes for a positive feedback loop. I have always been fairly confident anyway. And once I get hits from a phero or combo I know what to expect, and somehow can get more of it; I must be giving out very subtle nonverbal signals too, it’s the only thing I can think of.