I was in a doctor’s queue, and there was this cute woman next to me. Got to see her on her own without her mum and tried to make small talk, to get her email… turns out she didn’t have one in this day and age, then blurted out she has a bf…
Wasn’t wearing pheros actually.
All he’s saying is attractive women play “hard to get” and guys gotta understand it’s all a “test” to see how guys will respond.
Usually when women behave in this manner, guys get all clingy and never leave them alone.
An example would be
If you call and she doesn’t answer.
She says she’s too busy to hang out with you
Even lots of my friends have done this. Women tell guys to call them & when they do, they’re taken straight to their voice mail. Women don’t answer because
She may be busy
Or she’s just seeing if you leave a voice mail & what you say, or how many more times you will call afterwards.
One friend of mine called a girl at 1pm eastern time a while back and she didn’t answer, and that girl told me days later that he called another 6 times in the next 4 hours. I knew that was a big mistake. All that told her was..
He’s clingy and doesn’t have a life of his own.
Women are used to guys obsessing over them. Women LOVE guys who are always “busy”. You don’t have to be busy but seem like it to her.
If you talk to her on the phone, keep an interesting conversation to no more than 5 minutes. After that, you END the call by saying “Alright it’s been fun, but I gotta go. I got some stuff I need to get done.”
The women would think “Wow, a guy is getting off the phone with me to do other stuff?? I like this!”
I have pages more to say but realize I’m going a bit off topic.. lol
There is that famous David Deangelo comeback like “well, do you have electricity?” for example…
That’s also an example of a “neg” for all those out there who aren’t familiar with the term. You’re not out to be nasty, just somewhat humorous and slightly sarcastic. (That, to me, is what is meant by the term “cocky” in “C&F.” Fun. You can also be “jerk cocky” if you want, but remember you will reap what you sow. Decide what kind of people you want to be around/deal with. One who responds to “fun” or one that responds to “jerk.”)
In my job I’m on call 24/7 not a doctor BTW…
It’s amazing how woman as soon as they realize I’m not available at their beck and call all of a sudden make themselves free when I let them know “I’ve got tuesday off this week , then I’m away for 4 days”. Must be the supply and demand laws , you know the you always want what you can’t have thingy…
Oh boy, some of you guys really need to get over the “don’t want to approach the girl” mentality.
Yeah, I’m a shyish dude but since I adopted the “I’m a catch , you’re lucky to be with me” attitude , I don’t have any problem with meeting or dating woman. The example I was putting across was meant to say , let her know you are busy and do some of the chasing. Frankly, I don’t want a woman that does the “perform like a circus and I may be interested in you”. Guys, get out of your comfort zone and whats the worst that can happen? a No. Guess what, there are millions of woman out there , grow some balls and learn that you are “the man” , if she doesn’t understand or respect that, you need to find another woman to shower your affection on.
“shakes head, moves on and wishes you luck…”
Simply an AMAZING thread. A lot of great information pieced in by various people. So what are your final thoughts on TMM, SteveO? Do share more field reports! =)