To Go question

A lot of questions, I know, but can’t help myself!

What would be the best To Go scent to perhaps say… gain more empathy from a male and/or have him to the point where he wants to protect you and take care of you?

I am sounding more pathetic by the minute…

justonce

Well Dang Girl this is a hard one LOL :smiley: Where is Jasmin when I need her :stuck_out_tongue:

Let me see, Of course the man in question would have to have some of those attributes to begin with because pheromones just enhance whats already there and will not change him.

TAH which is in Instant sexiness B and MX135 seems to make my husband more attentive. He seems to take charge more when I wear it and do more sweet things that are helpful.

Instant Honesty makes him have deeper more intimate conversations. It really is amazing because my hubby will be sitting there on the couch sometimes with this grumpy look and of course I will ask him whats wrong. I get the standard husband anwser. “Nothing”. :stuck_out_tongue: Then he continues being grumpy. I will go in and spray on some IH and within 10 minutes he will be spilling his guts about whatever it is thats bugging him. Once he is done the grumpiness is usually gone and I dont have to sit on the couch next to him wondering about what crawled up his a$$ and died and if I did something to piss him off.

Dont get me wrong though he isnt a grumpy gus all the time. :wink:

Empathy

I cant seem to get any closer to empathy though then the above two. I define it as someone feeling the same way you do without being told. Is that what your talking about ? Maybe one of the other ladies will have some ideas.

Tisha

Good try, Tisha.

I think the closest thing would be est, but I don’t think it’s available as a consumer-level product.

EST would be a good one but your right its not a consumer and it dosnt come in a to-go bottle.

Have you been exposed to EST GW ? If so how does it make you feel ? Not what effects you see but what you feel.

Tisha

LOL. I know my desires are really out there but do absolutely realize that people are not going to change. Thank you so much. That really was helpful. I love the example of your husband. It sounds too good to be true!

You could say I am looking for him to have that warm, fuzzy feeling - like if we are talking and I get up to leave he won’t want me to leave. And he will be hoping nothing happens to me on the way home. Lol. I also want him to keep thinking about me when I do leave. Personally, I think it does exist to a small degree already but clearly is being suppressed for personal and professional reasons. Can I assume if these pheromones clearly show a difference in the behavior I am looking for that he really did feel that way to begin with?

This is going to be too much fun. I can hardly stand it. Bring on that darn coupon so I can order. Bet if I were wearing some pheromones I would have had him bewitched through cyberspace and had the coupon yesterday! In all fairness, it has not even been 48 hours.

Ahh ok GW is right then EST gives the warm squishies. You may want to try Meo-EST because that one is cheeper and said to be the cuddle pheromone. Cant say I have seen any cuddles with it but I am still testing it. Of course these are advanced products so you would have to get approval and be sure to report results.

If you want him to think about you after you leave the room Instant sexiness A or B can acheive that as well as MX135.

You can but let me give you a little tip. It took me about a week to a week and a half to see results from my husband. This post will help you understand a little why sometimes it takes longer. Plus a person close to you knows your pheromone signature and can become confused for a brief period by the change. They get used to it though.

After a few days of wearing them I did notice my husband was looking at me funny. Sort of like I had a boob growing out my head or something. Aroused and confused and then suddenly wham he started to respond.

So take your time and dont get discouraged. Some people will see it right away.

Tisha

I’ll spray some on my wife and let you know the results on me.

However, it is often easier for me to observe behavioral changes in others than in myself.

Also, my personal pheromone testing may have left me kind of immune. Often I don’t get the self-effects I noticed when I first started.

Oh no, really? Is that common? I was looking forward to how these made me feel, as well as others.

Uh oh. I only see this person about once a week. Wah. There are people (i’m not your girlfriend, dude) that seem to get reactions on the first try. I’ll just have to hope I’m one of them!

Yes, this is common. Most pheromone users get self effects which dissappear after a time.

I just remembered I was going to run the test. I told my wife I wanted to spray something on her and she asked “What is it?” I said, “an estrogen breakdown product often found in the urine of pregnant women.”

She got a long-suffering look on her face and said, “OK, you can spray it on me.” I think she was expecting a more romantic answer.

:slight_smile:

50 mcg to the neck area. I’ll watch for results this evening.

If the self affects disappear over time then why does it still work on others? I would think it wouldn’t work on anyone.

Excellent question. I don’t know the answer. Perhaps it’s because when a person sprays something on him/her self, he is closer to it for a longer time than anyone else is.

That’s what I was thinking. Theoretically it shouldn’t have an affect on someone you are around every day while wearing it.

Now I am having doubts… time for some more serious reading.

I got to admit I am still waiting for the self effects of certain things to wear off but they havnt yet. Still get that confident sexy feeling I always got from wearing instant sexiness A and I still feel happy as hell when I have shine on.

I think the self effects are still there but you become accustomed to them so you dont consiously think about it.

Then there are some people like gegogi who never got any of the self effects. Cant explain that one LOL

Tisha

No real results to report, as I feared.

However, there is quite a body of tests from males and females wearing EST on the forum, available by search.