Hi, Everyone!
I am intrigued. I came across this site today and would really like some feedback.
I struggle with a chronic and sometimes disabling health condition. By firing the medical community and turning to nutritional support, I am once again living a real life, although I am still rather fragile (and may always be).
Partially due to the health issues, and partially due to birth control pills in my teens and twenties, my libido has been killed. (Research now shows that the birth control pills destroy something that allows the libido to work properly, and they say it can never be recovered. Why the $%&#$ haven’t they made that known, or put it on a warning label for The Pill?) I’m not willing to accept that it’s gone forever, but it’s been gone for about 16 years now, even though I had a very strong drive before all these problems appeared.
Along with that, I’ve also lost my self-confidence. My brain no longer functions in an organized, logical manner - I’m not stupid, but most of the time I can’t prove that, not even to myself, because I’m living in a fog or can’t access most of my memory. I used to be known for my always-happy persona, but that part of me rarely shows up anymore. Once a person who loved parties, introducing myself to strangers without giving it a second thought, now I am a wallflower who is much more comfortable staying at home.
Please give me some suggestions on what (if any) pheromones might help me. I’m realistic enough not to expect miracles, but I still hold hope for such! (By the way, I’m blood type A.)
I can’t wait to hear your suggestions. Many thanks for your honest input and assistance!