I’m new to this forum, spent the whole evening reading threads and wow… This community is very supportive!
Anyways i was reading up on oxytocin on some forums and started googling it’s veracity and BAM! At the top of the results is a link to pherotalk, and the rest is history
I’m a small business owner in the small industry. I’m 27, male and Asian and sometimes my age works against me as my clients (often middle aged people) do not think the company, (being led by a “young person”) can deliver quality products.
I’m trying out A314 and Instant Shine to see if it can help in
making people more receptive to me and my opinions
be perceived more as a leader
bringing personal relations to the next level
keeping my fingers crossed. I’m a bit of a skeptic, but if they work, i’ll be more than enthused to try out more products!
A314 and Shine will help you in business, it will help you be percieved ,more as a leader, but make sure to read the link in my signature on congruence. About your personal relations, are you shy or outgoing, personality-wise? That will help us…
You’ve found the right place for pheromones.
They seem to work very well in the business environment and you should be no exception.
A few things first … ask yourself the questions that you think your potential customers are wondering about you.
DO you offer a quality product ?
CAN you provide the degree of service they expect ?
Once you’ve convinced yourself of the answers, then begin to try the products you’ve chosen on for size -paying attention to self effects.
If you detect more confidence in yourself or a more ‘likeable’ aura around yourself then begin to meld the two together. Step INTO the self medication - so to speak - and begin to think of ways you can integrate pheromones into your work life.
You can also comb thru some of the threads & posts here to get a handle on how others are using them in their work life and their social life.
These products work like a champ on several levels.
You’ll be fine just pay attention to yourself & your customers and it’ll work out. Soon you’ll realize you are your own economic recovery stimulant.
Thanks for the link Robbie, I am more of an introvert, a homely person who avoids crowds. I need a considerable amount of time to warm up to strangers before going crazy on them
Hi SCoupe, i’m from the media industry. The company is quality oriented, products improve every time as my team reviews and refines the processes, utilizes technologies to improve future products. In fact, my last product (a television drama series) received nearly 20 nominations. So i guess i’m a little insecure. Dislike the dirty look that some of my clients give me… you know the “omg you’re so young! can i entrust a big budget project to you” kind of look.
Hi, again. For these products to be their most effective, you will want to be that alpha male. Besides the A314, you really want to look at Instant Shine, as it can help your confidence levels. Instant Gentleman is similar to A314, but without the standoffishness that somes with A314. I/G will make you appear to be older, which can really help you in goals as well.
I would also consider looking at Instant Honesty, which encourages deep conversations. You want to test and learn these products solo to find your sweet spot for each and then you can wear them together for great effect.
Read the sticky threads in the Men’s section for tips on how to spot hits and other tips on usage.
There are other great threads in the Men’s sticky section, there is a lot of terrific information if you take the time to absorb it all.
You didn’t really say whether you plan to use these products for dating or a relationship, but pheromones can be used effectively in your personal life too, if you’re interested. And there’s a lot of great advice and suggestions in that area in these forums as well.
Oh yes! I plan to use to improve my personal relations. For example, i’m currently being friend zoned (Detests being treated like a neutered best male friend) and would like to break out from that area. After some reading, i concur to order TUTH, Instant Openness and Instant Gentleman; after i get to test out A314 and Instant Shine. I’m now aware of the congruency issues and believe these products will help extend my qualities.
You’re a smart man! Sometimes the best solution is to start with one product and migrate to another which takes you higher up the chain. But wait for Tisha before you purchase anything, she’s the gift certificate fairy. She’ll be along shortly to make suggestions of her own and to throw down that GC. Always worth waiting to see what Tisha sez…
Hi back @ you bud. Would like to offer a lil more humble advice, but 1st I want to rename you. By the power vested in me (which exists only between my own two ears) I hereby christen you ‘MATT’. Why ? MATT stands a little bit taller than matthie.
Understand I’m not bashing your choice of a screen name, it means what it means to you and that’s all that matters really & I realize my own chosen moniker is a lil silly & cryptic in itself. I’m just offering an opportunity for MATT to begin to stand more upright & more confident in your own mind. Make sense ?
Soooo, let me toss a portion of your response post back to you & maybe take a look @ it together.
1- You acknowledge that you pay attention to quality.
Rewrites, reviews & refining say that you care about that
2- Is your product good enough ?
'*my last product (a television drama series) received *nearly
20 nominations.’
*I don’t think I need to add to that. Your peers have already spoken.
Androtics helps create stars … in other words, the use of the products helps each individual star shine a little brighter in some way. I’m doubting that you are gonna be much different.
With your approval we’ll dive a little deeper & get to what may turn out to be the root of this lil evil.
You’re homely huh ? Just this one time, I’m gonna let you look behind the curtain but ONLY if you promise to forget what you see & hear. DO NOT tell anyone else on this forum but … when I look in the mirror to scrape the hairs off my face in the morning, I see homely too. Yep, there it is I’m out. What’s confusing tho is the ‘looks’ of some of the women I hang with socially and thru work.
Fact is I’m going out with an absolutely gorgeous redhead (the holy grail) this weekend. The lady is an 8.5 to 9 on any guy’s scale. Then there’s a tight bod, short little brunette (8.5) who’s button cute, long silky hair who’s just an absolute ball to be around. Several times a week I’ll be with the 10. The girl who can stroll any catwalk anywhere on this green earth and STAND OUT. OMG the legs, they just run all the way to her eyeballs. You know the one, every vertical red blooded male & a whole lotta women would LOVE to make the cut with. & I faithfully promise that those words ARE NOT an exaggeration by any description. She’s both social & work.
HOW does that happen Matt ? Could be that just maybe they’re interested in a few more facets & not just pretty boy. ALL of them are ‘pre-pheromone’ but who have had a little confusion thrown their way via a pheromonal signature change. One that was slow, sure, focused and layered.
So let’s compare ourselves to Brad Pitt. Good lookin guy … absolutely. I had a pretty rock once upon a time. Liked it a lot but it just sorta sat there and when all was said & done it was still - - - - just a rock.
My real point with all this is to suggest that all that REALLY needs to be accomplished here is a slight shift between your ears. It’s plausible that those ‘omg, you’re so young’ looks you think you’re getting may be saying ‘damn, how does such a young guy crank out such great work’. So, I’m gonna re-direct you back to my original suggestion of testing the A314 & I-Shine on yourself before exposing others. Robbie’s suggestion of some I-Gentleman is a good one as well. Get to know them. Get to know how they affect you & rest assured they will essentially have the same effect on those you come in contact with. The two you initially mentioned should give YOU and others the feeling of a likeable, lighthearted authority figure. One who CAN be entrusted to give ‘em what they want and will spend their $$$$ wisely.
Once you’ve convinced yourself that these products can help you both personally & professionally with those traits … step INTO it - own it - become the manifestation of it in the physical. Reek of it.
Keep yourself grounded and on target and, as I’ve said before, you’ll be fine. Hope there was something here that helps you in some small way but I’m shooting for help in a BIG way.
SO grasshoppa, get on that pony & let’s get this ish crunk up.
My name is Tisha and I am the hostess and phero adviser here in PT. Welcome aboard.
Fabulous advice from the members, I think A314 and Ishine will be perfect for work.
There are no homely people on pherotalk so from this day forward your a success handsome interesting individual.
Socially I am torn on what to suggest for you. defiantly IH but I am jumping back and forth between ammo and IG. Are the girls your interested in attracting only Asian girls or are you here in the USA and looking for general female attention ? You didnt mention your location.
Thanks!