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Speaking of Machiavelli, here’s an amusing passage from the New Yorker’s profile (not online) of Robert Greene:
Greene is not a libertine. Drawing upon a list of the nine seducer types in his book (the Coquette, the Charmer, the Dandy, the Natural, etc.), he is, as he told me, “a reformed Rake.” (Reformed rakes live in a constant danger or recidivism.) He lives with his girlfriend, Anna Biller, a filmaker and old-Hollywood fetishist, on whom he practiced some of the tactics suggested in “The Art of Seduction.” Having seen her around Santa Monica, he got himself invited to a party at her house, where he slipped away to study her record collection. Afterward, he invited her to a Dubussy opera that he knew would appeal to her. Still, the victim resisted. So he asked her to his thirty-seventh birthday party. He also invited seven other attractive women, friends who, at his bidding, did little to dispel the impression that they might be sleeping with him. It worked. He and Biller have been together for ten years.
A move straight out of gc’s playbook?
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below is from GC
So how much did the “canned conversational macro” stuff taught in The Game and the like actually help you?
A LOT. To quantify – before, my rate was about 2-3 women per year on average, w/ looks in the 7 range (I don’t hit on women that I think are less than 6.5). I got into this stuff late last year and implemented it in a big way from January to August. In 8 months I slept with 10 women w/ avg ratings of maybe 7-8, which is roughly a 5 fold increase.
The Game, by the way, is not the book that helped that much. The Game is to seduction as, say, Michio Kaku’s Hyperspace is to physics. It is a popularization, not a technical manual. Erik von Markovik’s book, though, the Mystery Method book is the real deal.
http://www.mysterymethod.net/
Erik von Markovik is a modern day Michael Faraday.
Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia Mic…Michael_Faraday
Some historians of science refer to him as the best experimentalist in the history of science. It was largely due to his efforts that electricity became viable for use in technology.
Despite his excellence as an experimentalist, his mathematical ability did not extend so far as trigonometry or any but the simplest algebra. However, his experimental work was consolidated by the able James Clerk Maxwell, who developed his equations which lie at the base of all modern theories of electromagnetic phenomena. Faraday, nevertheless, possessed the gift of the ability to present his ideas in clear and simple language.
I don’t say that lightly. Markovik is a fucking genius, a scientist of the first rank, someone who has the acuity to recognize and abstract patterns in the world that are the raw material for science. Everyone saw balls rolling down planes, but only Galileo figured out that F=ma rather than F=mv, because he systematically varied the parameters and abstracted the important concepts:
http://galileo.rice.edu/lib/ stud…ined_plane.html
The only way to really gain information about the world is through repeated experiment, and von Markovik’s career as a magician allowed him to observe the social dynamics of thousands of groups from a special perspective. There are very few jobs that allow you to go up to dozens of groups of people with a built-in conversation starter that allows you to relate to them as an equal. As Markovik wasn’t serving them something or trying to sell them something, boom, he could frequently establish rapport while nevertheless having the fallback of professional distance in case rapport was not established. Moreover, he had the perception to catalog and organize what he was seeing around him.
The guy has done more for sociology than a decade of useless Harvard professors. What he has done is nothing less than lay the foundation for a true quantitative sociology, the statistical analysis of human social dynamics.
(Btw, the only thing I can think of which is similar to being a club magician in allowing you to initiate encounters with a fallback excuse is dog-walking; plenty of single guys are notorious for walking dogs in Central Park as conversation starters.)
gc
One more point – I did work for this. The thing about seduction, though, is that it guarantees that if you work you will get what you want. For someone of my disposition that is huge. Seduction does to social interactions what generating functions do for number theory – by a process of abstraction they transform problems which previously required inspiration into problems that admit a systematic approach. Von Markovik has turned the art of flirtation with its thousand ineffable variables and million apparently contradictory data points into the science of seduction.
To demonstrate the science, the ultimate would be a quantitative demonstration of increased success rate. But it’s not clear what the appropriate denominator is (i.e. # of successes can be divided by money, time, or number of attempts). There’s no question that I had many more attempts this year, but I had very similar time and money expenditures.
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