This is something I’ve learnt and I thought I’d share. To some this may be common sense obvious but for others, myself included, this has been some what a recent realization. It’s about qualification, and it’s something I’ve always done naturally but not enough. I’ve never had to do enough of it before, but at present I’m at the start of an exclusive relationship, potentially long-term, and the reason it didn’t happen a week or two sooner was because of the girl feeling under-qualified.
I’ve ‘studied’ the Mystery Method and other PUA material but don’t really follow it, too rigid. Well I do follow it, because really it’s just a backwards rationalisation of how we all behave in courtship, but I no longer follow it consciously. I’m grateful for the attitude and mindset PUA material has instilled in me, so I’m at least able to be seen as a man, but I’ve found my way without the routines or techniques. However, one component of the Mystery Method I will definitely be following in future is ‘qualification’ or A3.
A3 is where you demonstrate what you find genuinely attractive in the other person, showing why you like her as an individual. Mystery says this phase is “crucial”, and I think for those of us who use pheromones even more “crucial”, I’m referring specifically to the attraction mixes which contain Anone, like Ammo. Ammo will give you a huge boost to how attractive you are to the opposite sex, but I feel you will have to do more qualifying at the start of a relationship or the girl will feel under-qualified.
A girl feeling under-qualified isn’t someone who feels that you are too good for her. It isn’t a feeling that is unique to low self esteem woman or self-perceived ugly woman. It’s not a: “Why would you be interested in an old, hag like me?” It’s more a “What do you find more attractive about me, than her sat across the room? What have I got that the rest of them haven’t”. Anone itself can give of a bit of a player vibe and I feel when wearing it, qualification is more important for this reason. A girl needs to know if and why you are prepared to stick around. Because of Androstenone’s attractive, yet promiscuous qualities you must qualify. Once you have qualified, and I hope people do it genuinely, you will have a very happy girl who will feel very special that you picked her from the crowd and chose to be with her. I’m also very happy myself because she’s a great girl. ![]()
PS. A secondary reason why wearing a product like Ammo may require extra qualification is because of the attraction and value it creates. People may feel less deserving of the more attractive pheromone you than the pheromone-less you.
I hope this can be of some help to a few of you guys. ![]()