Errmmmm…true, here’s also another way to look at it. One time, I got involved with this individual. We’ll just say something happened and I was sure I did not want to continue to have an intimate relationship with him.
So I struggled violently to get out. Resorting to slapping, kicking elbowing. I finally broke free and kicked him out. I was SURE I didn’t want to continue. He left huffing and puffing. Then I made a mix another day, sprayed myself with it and within minutes I had to call him and apologize because I was SOOO aroused.
I played the male role of sweet talking and apologizing to get some. We got involved and I felt it was really sweet and intimate. After I washed it off I felt lame, because that was so out of character for me.
Could it work on same sex? I agree, with Mark, no, unless they were on your mind already. Could it lessen war and inspire forgiveness and compassion? Maybe. After I was involved with that guy, we never talked again. But I don’t hate him or feel any resentments like you promised me yada yada. (Pheromone use in the military)