"Venting" my Adventures

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Women's Journals
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in a girly mood yesterday so i wore 3 sprays IS/A to work

nothing else.

mondays are pretty much regulars.
anyone new is either a guy, or a couple.

chicks come in pods closer to the weekends.

IS/A made for a great evening.

tips were better than average.

more of the customers wanted to speak with me as opposed to their company (not in place of girlfriends. i dont encourage rude behaviour)

i like to test the putatives and odd mixes on weekends where there is a bigger crowd, but its nice to know the established mixes like IS/A and B , MX134 , MX135 , Instant Shine , IH , IO, ect. still work their magic on an average day.

again confirms TAL is better for tips.

:roll_eyes:

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so i have established that
EST 112.5 mu
P86 25-37.5 mu
TAL or IS/A
Beta-nol

is excellent for tips.

TAH
A-nol
P83

is NOT excellent for tips.

excellent for fun and loving atmosphere,but not good for work.

think i will use a mixture of my money-magnet tonight, if i feel frisky i may throw in a wildcard…

:cool:

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well we have also established that i am a big liar,LOL

i no sooner decide what i will wear, and i walk out the door to go to work and in my driveway is an envelope with new mixes in it…

wore 2 sprays MX274

thats it.

work went smoothly.

alot of comradery (?) but thats usually there to some extent anyway.

alot of sharing… beer tasting type sharing… this was to an unusual extent.

good mood lasted till close.

encouraged my drinking, if that makes sense?
i dont usually drink heavily and wanted to alot last night.
thats unusual.

liking MX274 so far, but i think more is in order next time.

i also spritzed a couple of coasters to place on crowded tables.

noticed more rounds were ordered unusually by some and others quit drinking all together…

maybe it exaggerates the state?

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Lor - you are doing some great reporting. Great idea on using the coasters. Interesting results.

Now if only I owned a bar … lol.

Reps baby.

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It’s so cool that you use a quantifiable measure (tips) in these reports!

46

wore only 1 spray P104 on the way into work last night.

noticed people being smartasses.
alot.

i am in a bar, and this happens to some extent, so i blew alot of it off.

couple hours later, another spray.

people are irritating me.

increased conversation, a little competing for my attention which does not happen.
most of the time conversation is proper and enjoyed…but last night people were interrupting eachother-
from across the room-
to talk to me.

this wasnt flattery, it was rude.

i kept swinging in the directions of the voices and getting really irritated that people werent more considerate of one another.

there was alot of “you snooze- you lose” going on.

there is alot to like about this molecule, and i think i would have down-right enjoyed the hell out of it if i were on the otherside of the bar.

working and playing = fun , but only if i have control of the bar.
P104 in my opinion is not something i would use by itself.

tips were borderline fair.
i wasnt happy with alot of the tipping,
it seems those that did not get the attention they were looking for decided to teach me a lesson,
and those that got the attention rewarded me heavily for it.

im considering using P104 and TAL tonight.

notice i chose the word consider :roll_eyes:

i think TAL will slap P104 and call him Sally;
might add EST if tips need a boost.

im at a point where im thinking of creating a tip-mix
or
what i may end up calling “money-magnet”

so far im thinking

P86
EST
TAL
IH

or

P86
EST
IS/A (some TAH is good. love the vibe.)

possibly P83
and/or P79

there would definately need changes in “money magnet” for him vs her,

i would almost tip anything to the guy wearing 'rone.

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wore quite a coctail last night-

2 sprays IS/A

2 sprays P86 @12.5mu

1 spray P104 @12.5mu

2 sprays IH X2

EST @ 125mu

night was just okay with everyone sharing stories.
its a very socially animated bar with one television that remains OFF.

everything bothered me tonight, and i think i was trying to soften my irritation with bar-related stuff by using everything i knew to be upbeat.

didnt work for me.

those around me for the most part were very happy/satisfied.

noticed a few people being very protective of me, all male.
age differences varied, so i definalty couldnt pin that down.

almost to the point of being surveiled, i have never really felt important there but these guys had me thinking i had a secret password and had to be kept alive for this reason
:confused:

tips were only adequate.

i think i will keep it simple from now on, being spray-happy isnt for me.

maintaining the synergy of the mixes means using few, and that keeps the integrity of the experiment intact.

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it occured to me that that the last few nights have been blah because i was comming down with something.

turns out its probably the flu, and i will find out for sure this afternoon.

i gave it the weekend to decide whether i was going to mention friday nite or not, it was very strange for me and there are very few here i would be interested in getting feedback from on this very weird particular nite…

anyhoo, i decided for the few that actually follow my journal, its safe to mention.

where do i start…

wore IS/B to work.
started with 2 sprays, added 2 later on.
IHX2 aprox 2 sprays

i know i said no more TAH dominant mixes at work,
but tonight i just wanted to get the night overwith so i was less money-oriented and more feel-good oriented.

wasnt feeling good, so much of the night was irritating (hard to have patience with buzzed people when you are sick and NOT buzzed as well).

began to get anxiety attack ( upper respiratory illness trigger them for me) and having gone through the drill, i knew to take 10 minutes out to hydrate and relax, and then go back to work because distraction really does work wonders.

after taking my 10 minutes out,

i began to feel a bit introverted , passive , and decided to just let go of the evening. wasnt opposed to leaving, but most of the night was over and i wasnt ready to give up my tips .

TAH was a good choice im thinking at this point.

we have a 70’s station that plays, we put it on towards the end of the evening, well,

  1. because its funny
  2. people recognize the songs and start singing
  3. its disco, and that brings out the clowns
  4. its funny what can i say

suddenly a song comes on and i ask one of my fellow employees:
“um do you notice anything strange right now? listen.”

friend:
“yeah you changed the station. its rock now”
me:
“i never changed the station”
friend:
“wtf”

turns out it was the song i used on my ringtone,
when my dad was passing away i heard this song while i was trying to get to him.

i leave this alone as an oddity and decide i need to do dishes, this way i dont have to talk to anyone.

first i look at the clock
it says 12:12
now i get goosebumps, my dad died on dec 12 , a few years ago.

i leave that alone and start the dishes.

as i am thinking of dad… and he was funny so im slowly getting out of my bad mood … my employee friend sneaks up behind me and grabs my shoulders.
im still doing dishes and he starts singing “barbera-ann” by the beachboys at me.
i look at him and ask him “WTH made you pick that song?”
he said “see, i can rock to any genre”

beachboys were my dad’s fave band and i was forced to listen to them relentlessly most my life.

odd night.
i guess pheromones may or may not have played a part here.

i chose a mix i swore i wouldnt wear at the bar again while working.

im never really mediating or “slowing down” when i wear pheromones, so these experiences i have usually happen only when im slowing down on purpose.

i think my choices kept me in a groove that i would have naturally tried to snap out of while working.

i dont know.
whatever,right?

i think im going to start using these mixes while contemplating.

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or dad has a message for you.

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dad was always a comforting guy.

prolly trying to calm me down :wink:

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I think it was the forum member R0N who used IH to deepen his meditation. Between the receptivity/potential softening/inwardness of IS/B and the depth/emotional clarity of IH, you had your receivers tuned for incoming messages. Then your vulnerability, coming down with something, may have created the opening (and the impetus) for him to make contact.

My dad gets in touch through his song, too. Isn’t it sweetness itself when they do that?

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that was a spot-on break-down.

i think it was an eye-opener and now i am at a new level of spotting hits

a new level of spotting alot of things …

53

wore straight beta-nol, EST, and cops to the bar last night.

application was right on the forearm/wrist, so that my cloud is at face level as often as they want a beer.

got some very strange behaviour from people i know well and with pheromones i have used many times before.

whats different this time?

well, i upped the cops to see if it made a difference (yeah, they were up there)
used betanol instead of IH which i happen to love, but decided to experiment a little with unbuffered serious stuff :roll_eyes:

boys were behaving like boys.

literally.

usually quiet but social guys were throwing coasters repeatedly, teasing and playing games like they were underaged drinkers.

alot of this was directed at me personally,not as much with each other.

they were loud.
they were laughing.

it wasnt typical “im drunk so im an ass” behaviour;

it was “i feel like a little kid but im also respectful so i will pick up my mess”

tips were good.

over all i like this combo enough to repeat it on days when i dont feel creative.

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last night was a real eye opener for me.

obvious im a fan of pheromone usage so i know that they have benefits, but last night was definitive in how i must apply to affect tips.

heres what:

wore a significant amount of

betanol
copulins
EST

as a rule the bar fills up and then people fill out the floor at tables and hightops.
if there is a party of people, they will sit in the booths in the back.
this isnt a large bar, but its big enough that if your on the floor and in a booth, you usually have to come up to the bar for another drink.

we dont make it out onto the floor much.

anyhoo,
bar is full and there is also a good sized party in the booths in the back.
maybe 14.

anyone at the bar lastnight tipped, and for the most part, tipped heavily.
a 10$ tip on a 12$ bill, and she was only one of three !

a hightop with 4 people drink for aprox 2/3 hours.
bill was 47$
they left 4$, which is not typical of them.

needless to say, those in hospitality know that we dont forget you.

ever.

your face is burned in our minds,
like the guy who tips 20$ for 2 beers,
we will never forget the ones that dont tip at all (or less than 10% anyway).

the people at the booths stayed for 3/4 hours.
the bill was split into “couples”.

the ones that came to the bar to pay their bill tipped well.

the ones we came out to serve at the booths, and then leave their bills (3 different couples)
hardly tipped.
one didnt tip at all.

being curious and somewhat ballsey, i inquired as to whether they had a good time.
it was their first visit.

i heard things like " this is the best bar ever, we have never been to a real pub before"
“we had so much fun!”
“we want to be put on the mailing list!”
“why do you close so early? we dont want to leave!”

then,
one little voice inquires from the group,
" why would you ask if we had a good time? ha! we are the loudest laughing group here! "
i showed her one of the “less than 10%” tickets and in horror an additional 6$ was applied to another person’s tip.

the common denominator in all the situations was that a more than 5 minute contact with me provided a decent tip.
even the one adding to someone else’s tip talked with me one on one.

those that had very little exposure/no exposure at all left very little.

to someone reading, this may seem a loose-fitting conclusion.

i have to say i am thoroughly convinced, and this one combination seems to be golden so far.

im thinking of adding P86 to it, as well as maybe some TAL.

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forgot to mention something interesting-

saw Tommy Fever and of course i carry my arsenal with me everywhere , so needless to say he had “victim” written all over him.

i asked why he was only in for a few beers (you know, why not hang out and do some experimenting with this stuff?)

he says he gots places to go
(this usually translates that he is going bar-hopping and hoping to bump into someone special or he’s meeting someone special. Fever dont sit “idle”)

so ::spritz:: with the MX272

once on the forearm/hand, once on handmissedhitshirtandnowonpants

LOL

so Fever now REEKS.

holy moley,
i cant stop smiling.
we talk about the smiling issue, he agrees its a smiley mix…
almost to a fault.
uplifting.

as one caught in the cloud, its a keeper.

now im not sure if i should try it myself (its a guys mix,no?)

but i can see many probable hits in its future.

the force is strong with this one …

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Ya know Lor - I am not sure that it is a “Guy’s Mix” per se. It does not say “For Guys” like a lot of the Guy Specific stuff does …

That Renny has said is that it seems to help foster “cooperation” and possibly an upbeat attitude. You and Johnny Fever are talking about happy people.

Maybe if you do wear it with one of your good mixes you could see if it helps get people to cooperate with leaving better tips …

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psssssht,
i am sooooo on top of that.

i may even wait for a friday night to play that card.

i cant wait.

if nothing else, i know i’ll be in a good mood.
maybe even a little randy…
might have to wake that SO of mine up…

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Snort - sounds like he might wake up to see you looking something like the cat in your avatar … lol. :stuck_out_tongue:

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have you used it yet, bosshank?

i will probably try it out on friday nite, thursday we have our 1 year anniversary at the bar and i plan to go sexxay all the way.

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okay its monday nite.

I will wear

betanol - love how it brings people out. might even add IO to hair.

EST - the niceness quality is very important to me. i even get a slight enlightened/knowing feeling from it.

P86 -wild card

TAL - i think im smoother in action and in gab. the response is quality over quantity; i think they want to tip more.

i feel super-frisky today, which is too bad because its only monday nite and i feel like gabbin’.

i also feel like im in for some major change going on in my life.
im feeling very positive about doing more things i love, and less things that “have” to be done…

i mean, laundry has to be done.
but it feels like im spending less time doing it, and more time enjoying my backyard, the kids ,my SO,the cats, ect.