I joined this site over a year ago..I had bought a whole bunch of products and went mone crazy. Not sure what made me do it, but AD clinched my interest the most. I looked at other manufacturers, but AD seemed the one for me. They had variety and shit too. Alot of others got very scammy feedback all over the internet. Probably exactly cause of this forum, and the amount of people who believed in the pheroeffect, I got IS, and true to lable it seemed to do what it was sposed to do, soon after I got IO, IH, IJ, TUTH, A314, and IFM after experiencing the IS..Was hooked to the idea at least.
I usually work in a highschool for kids with multiple types of physical and mental disabilities. I figured maybe a pheromone concoction would help me handle the more aggressive and sometimes diagnosed psychotic ones more favorably. Maybe an intimidating phero mix would help? Or maybe one that made them like me more..They’d be less inclined to tear the room up or throw chairs and tables and more inclined to listen to what I have to say, theoretically, right? Also, as a sub, my steady employment more or less depends on having good social skills and good work performance, that way I can get call backs, good reviews and the golden “long term assignment”, that is when someone gets sick or as is usually the case, injured, and is out for a prolonged period of time. I often work in random schools all over 5 boroughs, with random people and random students with random needs.
I guess this would be a retrospective mostly. I haven’t restocked in a while..I tend to use sparingly. The one I probably use the most is instant shine. The least would be a tie between TUTH, IJ and A314, mostly because I wear the products at work. I work in the special ed field, and I can say that the pheroeffect is very real. Everytime I wore IJ my day became a real friggen hassle. Kids would get overtly uncooperative, insubordinate, aggressive and on some occasions even violently combative.
When I first started using them I was relatively unexperienced with the more dangerous subtleties of my work life. E.g, psychotically aggressive mentally handicapped people I was assigned to work with. I’d call my job basically the classroom bouncer. I’ve worked all over the NY area as a substitute para. And thats basically what I do..Keep order in the classroom. Most of my coworkers are generally larger guys, a good deal of them fit the bouncer type and many of them actually moonlight in that regard, so as someone who’s not above 6’ and usually soft spoken with a very kind and relaxed demeanor, what do you do to convince a kid who’s nonverbal that it would be a bad idea to bash your head in when your not looking?
But its not just mentally handicapped, I often find work in special ed schools for kids with severe behavioral and emotional (and often legal) problems as well..All in all, I’ve worked with basically every kind of child there is. Happily, experience has taught me confidence wins the day. How do you control a child when your scared of how that kid might react to commands etc..They smell fear! And pheromones too.
I remember vividly this one kid who would grab my wrists alot, he’d just smell my hands where I’d put my daily mix. It was funny cause he wouldn’t do it when I wasn’t wearing it or just regular cologne. I never dared to wear TUTH at work but for once as a ‘test’, it made the kids act up so I wouldn’t ever wear it, especially since I’ve had a problem with MR girls hit on me if not actually sexually molest me on a handful of occasions. My female coworkers routinely would comment “they have good tastes”. I’m also have a nickname as the hot para.
I bought the a314 to help with my classroom authority figure vibe. “I’m not here to be your buddy so you better listen to me”. I don’t normally use it..Not sure why lately though. Used it on a friend date with these 3 girls I just met, had great effects, self effect included. I usually become alot more formal, use honorifics in my speech like sir and the like..Not in an ass kissing way, but certainly give off this oddly hypermasculine macho polite vibe. Kids have asked me if I was in the military while wearing it. It does its thing at work..But with the kids I work with generally, it only has a niche application. Probably cause of incongruence or something. I’m a very laid back and hard to get a rise out of guy in general. Even pretty lax in the disciplinarian sense..And the behaviorally and emotionally disturbed kids I would work with are usually uncomfortable with authority figures anyway. It’d lead to confrontations and what I would hesitantly call confusion..I’d get these looks. Like they we’re following my cues, ALOT..And my cues aren’t always the most fitting to a classroom environment where teachers need to conduct lessons. I’d have to be very careful.
I worked in this very violent grade school, first day the whole class of twelve (ages 6-9) and even the one girl in it erupted into a whole class fight. Ridiculousness. Wearing a314 would help sometimes, but only if your into the follow through, the no nonsense no playing around thing, yelling alot I don’t take no kind of crap ever. Its not really my MO. Its weird, kids would get very confrontational, probably acting out because of intimidation or something. I’d get confused looks too..Like I was someone different.
Not only that, the hot elementary school teachers I’ve worked with were intimidated by it. I can be very reserved at best, distant and mysterious…I remember the class I had a long term assignment at, this hot coworker asked me to do her a favor, it was something stupid and simple, I was surprised with the temerity and hesitation she approached me with. It totally kills my laid back vibe, replaces it with this intense, serious one. Its all me though, not something completely unnatural, but these things certainly do seem to enhance certain moods and traits of mine.
I use IS the most. Usually cause of its social and self effects. Depends on the work environment. With my mix, I can usually make a mind blowing first impression in most schools. I’ll tailor it to the schools vibe too. Violent kids no a314, impulse control kids can’t be around IH..And never never NEVER IJ. That shit should be illegal. I sprayed it around my one friend the other day, he was a big responder, I’ve noticed it with him before, he actually tried to punch me. Was being an asshole the whole night to everyone. lol, then I sprayed him with IH and IO and fixed him. Definitely not placebo neither, he didn’t even know what I sprayed him with. The whole night was more mellow afterwards.
I sprayed another friend with IO, the night was great. Afterwards, on being sprayed with IS, he immediately commented without knowing what I sprayed him with that he felt more confident. It really sold me more than I already was…I recommend to every to spray some friends down and look in the mirror so to speak at what your wearing everyday, the effects are very noticable, even on yourself..You’d figure they’d be diminished with everyday use, but on other people they still work on you. You really notice.
I’ll often put a little IO under my nose to combat my own reservations. IS just to get attention on wrists. IH too so people aren’t so intimidated by my naturally “I really don’t give a shit” unknowable vibe. IJ goes under the nose too for self effect, never anywhere else. I barely use the IFM..I worry cause people say it stinks. Smells like alcohol to me, but I don’t want to get known as the smelly guy. Yesterday, on reading forums where people use many more sprays then myself (.5-2 sprays tops of everything is what I use), I decided to really max out the pheros before class. See what happens..
6 IH, 6 IS, 6 IO, 4 TUTH, 2 IFM to the back of the neck, 2 a314, and fuck it, I even put on the jerk. To math class I went. I had the strut going man..This powerful walking to music walk. I normally have a hypermasculine way about me anyway, but dude, this was redic. Getting on my college campus some guy I don’t know but have walked by occasionally said hi, shook my hand, asked if I was in a class with him. It was funny. Maybe he’s noticed me? Hit? Probably. I’m usually not very approachable when I’m in a rush, look like I’m gonna beat someone up.
In math class, I happen to be virtually sorrounded by women. There’s only one guy in my immediate vicinity. I’m pretty sure he steals some of my thunder from the pheros. Congruence is important..If he acts the way I smell, no doubt pheros can work against you, sorta. But consider it just bigging up your competitors. I’ve noticed this many times. I think sometimes chicks can pick it up like its coming from someone else. Especially if your loading on strong pheros and coming off mild to people.
Anyway, hits? One, the fact I got the harem effect. I’m sorrounded by women in that math class. The only class that got the distinction of having a first and also phero impression, my experiment..I laid off the pheros on my other classes, at least at first, to see if i could notice a difference. Second, this one girl is always touching me. Girls (and the few guys have moved into my zone) in the class in general always are with the pheros. For me, this is unusual, I kinda give off a very don’t touch vibe. Its actually a little shocking for me sometimes, women almost never touch me casually. Always on the hand or shoulder…Not sexual, but affectionate or asking for help. I ran into this girl one day in the halls, gave her a hug, made for some very awkward yet mutual conversation, what seemed to go through her mind “Hi, I have no idea why I’m talking to you, but I noticed you, yeah, what are you doing here? to bad I’m at work in the media center”.
These things are certainly subtle..I like the social ones the most. I wanna invest in a set of new ones that I don’t already have, the putatives maybe..And maybe expand on the sexual ones. I got sex appeal I guess, but I want something will make chicks wanna reach out and touch, get aggressive..I’m not good at approaching girls, I always feel more comfortable with them talking to me first. Gonna start experimenting with the a314 again and the jerk, IFM too. I think I might under use those ones.