Hello keenan888 & nice to have you as a member of Pherotalk 
Hmm, good to have a female member on board
Good that you decided to joined this forum Ok i seen that you are skeptical about pheros here, it’s understandable for someone who try something new for the first time there, well my advice give the pheros here a try & check what kind of results it will give you & if you find the results match to what you desire then you will change your thinking from being skeptical to a believer
What i can say about Instant Openness is it effects can make you into a chatterbox easy to say it will make you chat non stop with the people you are talking with & they too will react the same thing too And for Instant Honesty it is good for deeper convervation like you will say some stuff that are not supposed to say & it also affect the person that you talk to. They too will say something that you don’t even know. That is the effect of Instant Honesty.
I would suggest Instant Sexiness A to make yourself attractive to guys. This is highly recommended by another experienced user here Kitten And she also recommend Instant Honesty too**** You can look for her in her posts here or she might drop by to your intro there. And Lady Tisha AKA Tisha23 will be the one issuing you the $15GC soon when she visit your intro.
Here is a link about what pheros can do if you want to know more> What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated
I hope i was able to help you there. See you