Hi there walc.
No worries about the English.Youll get good practice here on the forums(^_^)Can understand about being shy and difficult to trust people.I used to be the same way,i avoided talking to people and hanging around them because i didnt feel like i could trust them or confide in them.Like they were all just people i knew instead of being my friends but i changed a bit after finding some people who i could really call my friends.
Pheremones will definitely help you set the vibe and mood but you will still have to make the effort to change yourself to fit the vibe but it will definitely make it easier.Woudnt worry too much about the sex,pheromones dont remove free will so they would have to be pretty comfortable with you anyway.should definitely read the thread below so you have an expectation of what to expect with the effects.Could do some research on conversation and pua like david deangelo or leil lowndes like pagodeiro said also to make conversation easier.
What pheromones can do and what they cant Updated
(What pheromones can and can't do: realistic expectations for newcomers)
In terms of what product would fit you best,the socials would probably work out well for you since you want bonding and trust.Instant honesty will probably be a good product for you as it makes people feel closer and bonded like they have known each other for a long time.Paired with instant shine which makes you and the people around you feel happier,would definitely help you be able to bond with people more.Sex and attraction wise,ammo would probably be enough as tuth comes across a bit strong and detracts from the closenesss unless your in a relationship.All the best and hope things work out well for you.Im sure youll fit in here since everyone is helpful and friendly.Should definitely check out the stickies like pagodeiro said.Ive listed a few below to get you started.
An Introduction to Mones; Names, Size, Strength, Use, Effects & Length of