If i get a girl to become interested in me and we begin to date i would probably toss some products away. Because if she finds out what ive been using she’ll feel like she was a test subject or something..So if i stop using pheromones will she become less interested in me???
Don’t tell her you’re using pheromones, hide them as you were to hide treasures or where you hide your porn stash.
If you want to transfer the treasures you should send them all t to Taibo (but keep the porn stash) ![]()
Your right dude, what IF she finds out that YOU’RE USING PHEROMONES!!! She might lose ALL interest in you man. She will feel like a test subject, used and abused. You should DEFINITELY get rid of them ASAP! So just put them in a box and wrap them up, then send me a pm and I will tell the proper shipping location for them. Keep the porn stash, I have enough already. Thanks
Depends on the nature of the relationship, and how she responds to you without the artificial pheromone signature. Who says you have to toss anything? Hide them in plain sight - department store fragrance bottles, get creative.
I’ve given this topic some thought. I’m just having fun with the pheromones and seeing what they can do. I’m hoping to experience lots of casual fun with women.
But when I’m ready to find a serious relationship then I will ditch the pheromones and find a women who likes my natural pheromone signature (unfortunately they are kind of rare but they do exist.)
Ok. in a more serious note. I don’t think you should ditch your pheros. There are many married guys in the forum (boss and renny) and others in LTRs (Steve). The same is true in the female camp of this forum. The way I think about pheros is the same way ladies think about cosmetics. They are beauty enhancers designed to improve attraction.
If ladies are not ditching their beauty enhancing tools , why should you? Now, i guess the questions is more moral than “cosmetic”. What if she figures out that you got “help” to attract her? Unless she was not wearing make-up, earings, necklace, mini-skirt and all those beautiful things they use to attract us, then you were just doing your share and sounds fair-play to me.
You also can ask yourself: What if she learns about pheros, starts using them and as a result sex and intimacy with her keeps getting better, all the time?
I guess, myself, I wont ditch them if I find a gf (which I am not looking for in the next three years, my goal is similar to that of metaltree). I will not discuss them in a relationship unless it really has the potential of becoming a serious LTR. The way I will do it would be by giving her one of the ladies favorites and ask her to spray herself with it and notice effects.
Anyhow, guys, this is to ahead in the game for me. Let’s keep working on the hits, metaltree lets get those series of one night stands and then, only then, worry about this.
Pheroman: Do you already got the gf?
In anycase, if none of these reflections help, I will stay in line with my first post. I will send mine to Taibo. However, I have no porn stach, I prefer live action in my bedroom; but to make-up for that I might include my game notes from the field
. However, however, don’t expect them to come to your door any time soon.
Or you could show them to her, turn her on to them, and both have fun playing with pheros!
You might be shocked. I had this same fear, that I would be a big let down without my pheromones. I was wrong. Even if a person has only known you with pheromones on, even if it is for a year plus, interact with them pheromone free and you will be pleasantly surprised with what happens. In my case, testing the pheromone free waters was the most fun I had with the person I was most worried about. Everyone is different, try it out. You also have to be at peace with your pheromone use. Logically, you can say that in today’s society, which demands high personal hygiene, humans aren’t allowed to flaunt their nature odors without reprimand. I can’t go to work after not bathing for 3 weeks. That is reason enough for me to feel morally and ethically safe using pheromones, if someone isn’t cool with that, screw 'em.
If you stop using pheromone enhacements your gonads will dry up, turn to dust, and blow away. OK, maybe not. But if stop your natural pheromones every inch of your skin will dry up, turn to dust, and blow away. Pheromones are as natural and pure as the driven snow. The difference is that now you are learning to use them.
I don’t hide any of this or lie about it. But I am very discreet. All anybody has ever asked is ‘what is that cologne’ and I make up some crazy name. (That reminds me…I was going to start a thread…)
I have a 4 foot long mixing bench full of pheros and colognes and EOs and a stack of cigar boxes with pippettes, funnels, etc. But I haven’t let any of the women I bring home into my office. Yet.
Of course by that time they would have objected to the Kama Sutra and Tantric sex volumes on the bookshelf and the erotic prints on the wall. Haven’t had any objections yet.
If a woman accuses you of trying to ‘take advantage’ of her with pheros, ask her what what is that perfume she has on, or what shade is the lipstick she is wearing. Who’s trying to take advantage of who here?
Seriously, if she can not deal with facts that I enjoy perfumes and good food and cigars and fast cars and sex, well then, she’s just not the woman for me.
Don’t worry about it fellas. Women are like buses. There’ll be another one come along in little while.
OoohYahhh
I agree with what everyone is saying and think it’s a waste of money and good times to just throw your pheromones out. Idk where I’d be without mine. Lol, jk I can live without em, but they are so fun to play with. Obviously someone hasn’t gotten addicted yet ![]()
If you used pheromones for Openness, Honesty, Status and Arousal. She already perceive you in a way and that should not change so easily. When she talks to you on MSN or on the phone, she’s talking to the man she loves, without the effect of pheromones. I bet she gets aroused and all just by thinking of you. She maybe unconsciously feel things toward you because of your pheromones, but since she felt that way for some time now she probably consciously feels the same things by looking at you even if you’d have no scent at all.
I’m maybe not a pheromones veteran, but I think that some people got used to theirs and forgot that human interaction is not all about pheromones like for animals. If you stop using pheromones it should be like if your girlfriend stopped using her perfume.
Like Vangelis said it’s an enhancer, in my opinion you should not depend on it so much, but you might want to keep them somewhere for special dates, to make new friends, job interviews or whatever…lol
Of course, if you feel guilty using them with your girlfriend, you should stop I guess.
Probably not unless you’re all creepy about it. However many have noticed their nads shrink–sometimes as small as marbles or peas–if they suddenly go cold turkey, so let yourself down easy, allowing time for your body to recover.
You are so full of shit! What are you doin’? Drinkin’ this stuff? Injecting it through the ear?
You know there is always somebody gullible enough to actually believe that. And they’ll be quoting you as an authority for the next 20 years.
My comment about drying up and blowing away was completely absurd. I hope everyone knows that. Don’t believe a word that I say.
Gegogi on the other hand, you could believe one word. Maybe two. I just wouldn’t believe two words in a row.
OoohYahhh
What iare ‘nads’?
Your wadnuts. Mojo bag. Family jewels. A corruption/abbreviation of the word “gonads.” Used in a sentence: " “That dude has big nads.”
I stopped using mones once for a whole week. It was a miserable week, but the contrast is so profound makes you wonder how you ever survived without them.
There’ll never be a day where I walk out of my home without wearing pheros! (except on weekends!!) Got to love it while its available!
lol!
erk, I think she’d be more forgiving about the pheros than the porn stash!
Sillykitty has an excellent suggestion!! Maybe ask her to join the forum as well and we could suggest her products that she might like!
Stopping the use of pheros may make you turn into a pumpkin after midnight!!!![]()
Amen to that!
In the short time I’ve been using pheromones I’ve had two (short) relationships that ended the minute I stopped using pheromones around them for a few days. I also discovered that these were women that I really didn’t want to invest my time and energy after if they weren’t interested in the ‘real’ me. On the flipside, because of pheromones my life is so much richer than I ever thought it could be. I’ve met amazing people and have felt confident enough to interact with them as equals. These are people who like me whether I am wearing pheros or not (although I get to be much more the life of the party with them).
I’ve begun thinking of pheros as being like paints on a palette. Depending on what color I want to project that day or how I’d like people to interact wtih me, it depends on what I’m wearing. For work, Akuto scented Instant Gentleman all the way. Maybe with some Instant Shine or Instant Openness, etc.