I was reading some old posts about being overweight and producing less 'none and what not thinking of how to try and balance that out for me… When i thought of my wife who is skinny, (i am not) wondering what would be best for her when i thought what if she is just attracted to more 'nol as apposed to 'none cause she is skinny. Kinda like when you wear a lot of 'none and some girls like it and some don’t, maybe the ones that didn’t like it would like 'nol or 'rone more if they didn’t produce that a lot themselves. I always thought it was how the pheromones reacted to my body chemistry, but maybe certain people just like certain pheromones better cause of their body chemistry. So if you are wearing a lot of Ammo and a friend is wearing a lot of instant female magic and say target 1 wasn’t into the friend just you it would be interenting to switch pheromones the next day and see if target 1 is still interested in you or now like your friend. Any thoughts.
I think absolutely that once you know that someone seems to prefer one pheromone sig over another that you should play that as a strength. I’m more in Gone with the Wind’s camp that experience is more defining of what attracts a person than physical character, but I see a role there too.
so i wonder if it is the persons body chemistry preference or reaction to yours when u where or both. I have no idea what i would prefer from a girl so if one was wearing instant sexiness a and one was wearing b which would i prefer or would it be based on the girls body chemistry and make me react differently. ok my head hurts now lol
I think it’s a combo of body chemistry and personality. More to the point - I believe body chemistry affects personality.
It would be very interesting if it was possible to get an idea of a person’s natural pheremonal signature and compare it against their personality – Do naturally chatty people produce more alpha-nols then your average joe? etc etc etc.
good point.
The pheromone is a signal of genetic makeup, overall health, and current/very recent hormonal activity. How much these factors are determined by or determinitive of our personalities is a subject that the nurture v nature folks will be arguing for a long time.
So let’s take the “will I be more attracted to a natural IS/a or IS/b type woman/” question. We can assume that they communicate equivalent evolutionally (sic) desirable traits so that leaves it to our makeup to determine if we prefer one “type” woman over the other.
When we add synthetic pheros we are essentially highlighting one (or more) aspects of our natural signature. If I use -none that’s going to register with people in all sorts of ways and for all sorts of reasons. One of those reasons could be that a woman is near ovulation and -none is particularly attractive to her at that time (chemistry). Another reaction might be to associate my strong -none signal with a past boyfriend who was a bodybuilder and whether that is attractive or not is going to depend on how she feels about him (experience).
When you really think about this it turns out to be a good thing that pheromones are a small part of what and how we communicate.
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i have to reply to this!!!
my experience is that my mood on any given day affects my chemistry.
just like they say anger can acidify your bloodstream temporarily (something to that point) your chemistry has to be affected by your mood.
so what comes first,the chicken or the egg?
some people say that body chemistry affects your mood.
granted i can see how they would come to this conclusion because eventually it does.
but BEFORE your chemistry affects your mood (thus personality)
there are the non-chemical factors that affect your mood…then your body chemistry…and then back to your mood (either changing it or re-inforcing it).
like good or bad news.
how someone behaves around you,inspiring good/bad thoughts.
you know what im saying.
so its for this reason that i will always have several separate molecules or mixes to play with, because on one day a particular mix can exaggerate my awesome day and i feel like a rockstar, and the next day i purposely try the same mix for the same end but my mood/chemistry is not the same and a different mix feels better and gets better reactions.
now is the other person going to prefer another signature because they have a natural preference, or is what they prefer based on their mood/chemistry that day?
my opinion is that if you personally are rockin’ your mix, that will be preffered by the other person as opposed that person “needing” to whiff a certain pheromone to feel better/uplifted.
say you are wearing a-nol and feel congruent but your thinking 'none might put that person in a more “loving” mood.
chances are that your choice to wear a-nol was unknowingly perfect to you naturally producing a fair amount of 'none naturally.
i guess i think we intuite what will work using our mood as a tool to know what we dont have a PHD to discover.
does anyone else resonate with this?
feelin’ flakey here…
That’s a great way of putting it. Pheromones are just one small part of the way you present yourself to the world. They can make you feel good in the same way just the right shirt makes you feel good and they make others feel good about you in the same way that your tone of voice does. It doesn’t really matter WHY the shirt or voice tone works, it only matters that it does.