I’ve recently met a girl who I think is absolutely awesome. The only problem is that her pheromones either aren’t the right type or aren’t strong enough to turn me on. As a result, I’m constantly in danger of cheating on her when I come across people with stronger pheromones than her.
(I know, I know, not a good excuse, but seriously… I’ve been a slave to my sense of smell for as long as I remember… it took me 12 years to get over one woman I dated, and that was only when I met someone with similar pheromones, but stronger. Think of it as kind of a lock and key deal - only someone with that signature will make me fall heavy and hard in love with them).
Out of the people I’ve dated in the past, if I put them on a scale from 0-10, it’d go something like this:
Girl A - dated on and off for 5 years, took 12 years to get over - 8.0
Girl B - dated on and off for 3 years - unknown
Girl C - dated for 9 months - 6.0
Girl D* - together for 6 years, married for 2 - 2.0
Girl E** - together for 4 months - 10.0**
Girl F - couple of dates - 7.0
Girl G - dating for 2 months now - 3.0
- Girl D (my ex-wife) was an experiment - I deliberately went against type, trying to find someone I’d be happy with who didn’t set off my internal sense of “WOW!”. I was never happy though - I just didn’t know how to get out of the relationship cleanly.
** Unfortunately, my realtionship with Girl E (a totally enticing woman), both of us deeply loving the other, fell to pieces repeatedly because she feels she can’t trust me, and she has a lot of bad experiences with guys like that in her past. Apparently my pheromones trigger something in her that excites her, but makes her feel that she can’t trust me (probably the past experience).
So Girl G - a fantastic person, who in a very rational and intellectual way is the perfect match for me (smart, funny, educated, stable, outgoing, slight kinky streak, spontaneous, very talented, amazing lover) - unfortunately doesn’t have the chemistry needed for me to fall for her. I care for her a hell of a lot, but I’m still hooked on girl E (if I’d never met E, I’d probably still be stuck on girl A).
I really want to be with Girl G, and I’m willing to try anything I can to make it work. It seems that the girls I get hooked on are natural redheads, with straight red hair, not many freckles (not sure if that narrows it down much).
My question is this: is there any specific pheromone mix that I can get a hold of which will mimic the pheromone signature of A and E, so that I can get the same pheromonal connection with G that I did with the others?
I feel a little like I’m gaming the system here a bit, but frankly, I think it’s worth doing. I’d much rather pick someone to be with using my head rather than my heart, but unless the pheromones are there, I just don’t form that bond. My only other option is to find another girl with a similar mix who I can be with - but they’re really really ultra hard to come by. (And frankly, which girl is going to let you sniff her hair on your first date?)
Any advice?
Thanks,
Si
ps. Yeah, I know, this sounds a bit weird, but I am pretty sensitive to pheromones. I react differently to certain signatures, but I can smell them all pretty accurately. A party trick I’ve picked up along the way is being able to tell a woman when they’re going to get their next period - accurate to about +/- a day by sniffing their scalp (the scent gets stronger and muskier, and then changes nature, then dies off after… with practice, you can get pretty good at this). Or, alternatively, if they’re pregnant (the scent turns sweet, or goes away completely, depending on the woman. From limited data, it appears that going sweet is the norm, and going away is different).
Odd, but true 
pps. I wonder how many guys cheat on girls because the girl they’re with doesn’t match the pheromones they’re keyed on, but the girls they end up cheating on her with do???
