I’m a complete pheromone newbie, and eagrely awaiting my first order (Instant Openness, Turn up the heat, Instant Shine, Instant Female Magic, Instant Honesty, all TO GO sizes, to get me started).
One thing I’ve been wondering, reading the forum, is how people know you’re the wearer, if you’re out in public? I guess if you go and stand/sit near someone they’ll know it’s you, but at a busy club or other social gathering, is it common for people to feel the effects of the pheromone, but not know who they’re feeling drawn to, or even end up drawn to the wrong person? Especially if, as I’ve read, some of these products take 5+ minutes of proximity to have an effect?
Some people can zero in on the source, but usually you are only using pheromones to enhance what you have behavior-wise. Yes, they will probably “help” anyone nearby. I did that once at a convention. I loaded up with some IOpenness and just stood around some groups of people (including hanging near a “pro” PUA to observe) and just watched stuff unfold.
I think if you move around a bit, and come back to people after a while, they may “remember” how good they felt around you before… Pheromones are part of a dating “process.” They’ll need time to work, and possibly multiple encounters. IMO
Depends somewhat on which pheromone mix you are wearing. Androstenone, in particular (found in TuTH and Ammunition) is very directional - it grabs peoples’ attention and provided it’s not too busy and smokey people will know that it is you. It helps if you act in a way that is congruent with the vibe you are projecting pheromonically. If you don’t, you may find that somebody who is will ‘steal’ your hits (benefit in your place).
I would not worry too much about this at first - just start wearing the products in a bunch of different social situations, interact with a bunch of people and pay attention to anything that seems slightly unusual.
I agree; I really wouldn’t worry about that aspect of it. I see that concern expressed a lot (though not so much on this forum) and I do believe that others around you share the benefits of whatever pheromones you’re wearing, but that’s a good thing. If you introduce a heated, sexual vibe in the club, won’t you benefit from that as much as anyone else, especially if you’re at the center of it? Assuming you behave congruently with it, that is.
I’ve noticed on several occasions that my husband (who doesn’t yet wear pheromones, though I’ve just ordered some A314 for him) has benefited socially and professionally when he’s been out in public with phero-wearing me.
The late Paul Wellstone had a saying, “when we all do better, we all do better” - this applies to pheromones, too. When you wear pheromones, you’re making a positive contribution everywhere you go. Spread the love, baby.
Carrie is very right. One more thing to add is that sometimes you see stolen hits work with negative reactions also.
I once went to a jazz club with a group of people. One was speaking quite loudly during the performance - he was charismatic and had a bit of an intimidating vibe. Waitress came over but, instead of shushing him, she spoke to the girl a couple of seats away who (very obviously) hadn’t said a word.
I think with 'mones you can see reactions like that. People might get irritated by high 'none but if they can’t put their finger on who is to blame, may channel their emotions on whoever is least likely to put up a fight. Gem might have a story about this…
I don’t mean to hijack your thread, but I have a related question for anyone who can answer it.
Has anyone tried applying pheromones solely to objects? I’ve read Ail mention that she sprays Spaceland on the couch before a friendly get together. But have any of you tried only spraying on objects?
For example, what if I sprayed TUTH (or P79, or some other “sexually enticing” pheromone) on my bed? And only used friendly/social vibe pheromones when I went out, so when I got back to my place, the “mood” would automatically get sexual. It may not be coming from me, per se, but wouldn’t it have the same effect on a woman?
(This is similar to Spoons question because it is as though you are taking advantage of the pheromones sprayed on the object; except, in this case, the object won’t feel bad that you stole it’s thunder )
Ok, First of all, me too don’t mean to hijack this thread either. But since you asked, Smooth, I wud like to share this. A Pheromone Reviewer on the website did mention on this method and confirmed that this is one of the effective way to have results. He suggested that pheromones to be sprayed on bed / pillows. I haven’t tried this method bcoz I don’t have a bed! Ha! Ha! Just kidding! According to one of the website which I browsed a few months ago, it was suggested to spray some pheromones on the office desk and on the computer screen! Sounds strange right? But,wait! Try to touch your computer screen now. Do you feel the slight heat? The temperature of the screen is about the same as our body heat, thus I believed it is another way to release the pheromones around you!
You can try it and observe the reaction of people around you and do post your results ok!
Greetings and salutations Spoons, Welcome to the forum and to new adventures.
I’m going to give a slightly different answer. This has been discussed elsewhere and labeled the “Social Hook Up” theory.
Basically the theory is that humans have a sharp and very directional sense of smell. If you follow the “less is more” principal and don’t over douse yourself, the directional sense of smell will pin point you in a crowd. On the other hand if you pour tons of pheromones on yourself and create this huge engulfing defuse cloud of pheromones, you will create this confusing mass of pheromones that can’t be located and everyone will benefit due to the confusion.
“Object” applications has been discussed elsewhere on this forum and on “that other fourm.” I’ve done lawn chairs, uhpolstered chairs (where people will be sitting), bathrobes (where someone would be wearing it), etc. And I have seen other posts about pillows, coats/clothing (“accidently” left behind at someone’s place), and resumes/applications (credit Gegogi at LS for that one).
As for “Success,” I think it helped a bit on one wearable gift I gave someone a couple years ago… Otherwise not sure.
^^Mohammad, that’s reassuring, and what you say about the computer screen is interesting! I’ll have to try these things out, I’ll post back.
Mtnjim is right about the amount you use. And I’ll also keep that in mind if I spray my bed/pillows.
Spoon, I forgot to mention is that sometimes even when I use a very small amount and I’m in the vicinity of another guy, a girl sometimes may think the pheromones are coming from the other guy. For example, if I am behind this guy, and the girl is in front of him, it will seem like it is coming from him. When I move around him and go talk to the girl, she will get confused and realize it was me - it usually is very funny when this happens. In these types of situations where you think it can be mistaken, you may just want to try moving around. I’m not sure if you’re familiar with seduction/game terminology, but AMOG’ing is a lot easier when you are wearing pheromones (although I rarely do it).
