Confession time. Originally I wasn’t going to post this out of sheer embarrassment and fear of insulting or reproving responses, but it is too confusing to try and update my reports without you knowing the situation. So please be gentle on me.
My target is my psychiatrist (oh god) . :o As I have said many times, he is not a romantic target but I thought attracting him that way would be the easiest to achieve what I wanted, certainly easier than bringing meatloaf and apple pie to the session. What I want is to simply to gain more control over the situation. We have VERY few doctors where I am. He is the only one left for me, and he at times has been extremely hard to work with. I realize I am not suppose to have control in there, but that’s part of my problem. Lol. Another part of this could be transference, but that is actually a good thing to work out. My theory is that if I have him interested he will be more human and empathetic which will help improve the therapy. He will NOT get romantic. If I thought he would, I wouldn’t do this. Boundaries are extremely important to him, as they should be. But as crazy as this all sounds, my experiment seems to be working. Last week was great. I know I said it was sexy (well it was) but it has helped. He was sooo much more attentive and it made things go much smoother. Usually, he is mean one session and just tolerable the next. Well, yesterday was the 2nd session in a row of sweetness. That has NEVER happened before. In fact, I was late. The office was closed and it was 5 minutes before the appointment was to be over and he saw me anyway! There is NO WAY that would ever have happened otherwise. Basically, I am getting the compassion out of him that I need to open up, and he is much more in tune to what I am saying. It’s like the difference between a doctor with a good bedside manner and one without.
That being said, I wore 5 sprays of Instant Honesty - 2 neck/1 each wrist/1 chest and then added 3 sprays of TAH.
The results were, I am pleased to say, even better. He saw me when he should have kicked me out AND was very nice and compassionate without acting in any way inappropriate whatsoever. He basically just did what he was supposed to do. What I really liked was that he realized what happened last time with the staring and obviously did something about it. He made it a point to not move from his desk and kept looking down and writing as I was leaving. It was so funny! And it gave me a lot of respect for him.
My intent is not to torture this poor guy, so I will be very careful what I wear. Where better to use Honesty and have deep conversation than in a shrink’s office? Maybe they should start passing out bottles of pheromones with their diplomas.
The End.
PS - I’ll take advice but please don’t yell at me!
I know what you mean about wanting someone to be more empathetic and kinder I’ve longed for that alot all my life cause so many people been so rough or harsh or insensitive with me. I’m so happy for you that you’re getting more compassion out of him and it helps you feel better It really is hard to feel comfortable opening up with someone when they’re not compassionate and sensitive to feelings for me it always makes me feel nervous and I kinda go into a shell and can get really uncomfortable.
Its so nice to see things going well for you with instant honesty I used it for first time right after reading your thread its been really good for me too
I hope things go really well for you, thanks so much for making such good and helpful posts and thanks for getting me started with instant honesty
Why are you embarressed ? If the mones are getting the results you want I say go for it. I think it would be kinda fun to test on him. Psychiatrists are so in control all the time I think it would be a major hoot to see him lose it once in a while. Plus it can really help confirm your mixes.
So is he hot or what Well hell you know I was gonna ask that
He is probably home analyzing himself right now.
HMMM… why do I keep staring at justonce?
HMMM… why did I let her get away with being late?
Its good for him
Use MX138 next time and IH
Then try IH and EST
OH goddess this guy will be the perfect test subject.
In fact, I used my last little iddy biddy spritzes for my important A list man date LAST Friday evening.
And I didn’t even really make the connection until now. Tee Hee.
OK, I used about a couple of spritzes to the back of my neck (where he nuzzles…) and on the crown of my head so it affects HIM and I refrain from spilling my guts.
Well, it was our 4th date and it’s not like we haven’t already had some great conversations, but this time of his own volition he told me ALL about his divorce and what precipitate it.
Now I know a STRONG influence in his having done so.
And he commented on how great I smelled when he was sniffing behind my ear.
Now mind you, I DO wear an excellent perfume (Channel #5), however, I imagined even at the time that PART of what he was responding to was da mones I was wearing.
I cackled over your note. Thank you, and pardon our brief commercial interruption. I got VERY busy with my former job. So glad I am no longer there. Had different beau for about 4 mths. We had a really good break up, and I’m running low on my pheros, so I thought, hey, I have to go check in and post! Et voila! Here I am.
No worries, Bella, he IS already lusting after me, however, I am working on developing the relationship somewhat first, hence my using pheros like Instant Honesty first BEFORE I use LAM! LOVE your avatar, btw!
Hello people! How is everything going? Sorry for the delayed responses!
Desert rose:
Awww. Thanks. So glad I was of some help and that you like it! Time to get more soon! Any more responses?
Tisha:
Oh my word Tisha! Who needs to do crunches when you can laugh those abs right into shape?
I think he is hot. My friend said he looks like he was run through a meat grinder. What does she know?
Analyzing himself - ROFL. I was picturing the same thing. Probably analyzed himself for the entire week following. It was obvious he thought about it because of the changes he made at the next visit. Lol. I should tell him how attractive he is when he is being aloof!
Better believe it is good for him! He’ll be thanking me for it later. And yes, I agree. There is NO better test subject. It truly does not get more interesting than this. I should write a book.
Now for tomorrow’s attack mix. You suggested Instant Honesty and MX138. What do you think that would do? I was thinking Instant Honesty and EST. What would be the difference between the two combinations? Also, since he was trying hard to be more aloof when I left, which would be the better mix to knock him off guard again? (evil snicker…with a snort for emphasis)
Oh yeah try the IH and EST (snort) I wish I could go with you LOL
This is what I get from MX138
MX138 is what I like to call the girl next door mix. Its warm, sweet, It attracts, has a sexy undertone. I notice a adoring quality about it. Almost like people develope a crush on you.
IH is off course deep, it induces conversation of a more intimate nature and it also makes people feel close to you.
How they would both react with EST I am not sure but it will be big fun to find out LOL
That snort of yours makes you sound like you are up to no good. I know an evil laugh when I read one. It’s okay though. I am up for a big adventure, though if it is that good I may have to charge a fee for the report.
hi justonce,
It really did help alot I been using instant honesty all week now too
I went for a new computer on the weekend and wore instant honesty they were so nice too she was showing me pictures she took on the computer of her family and some trips they took and everything, it was amazing everyone was so nice and they forgot to close at normal time too, lol!! the whole atmosphere was nice and warm and friendly and I got really nice service for sure too
I’m using instant honesty all the time now along with female magic the effects are sooo good
I hope things are going really well for you, your posts have been really helpful to me I been using instant honesty with my closest friend its been really nice since adding instant honesty, after reading your posts I just knew that was the one to put on, its really helped us get closer again we’ve been having deeper talks and shes been softer with me and more caring, its really helping alot, thanks
I hope things keep going well for you Thanks for sharing such helpful information, rep points for you
Thank you so much for your kind words. I am so glad you got the Honesty and are having such good results. You results with your closest friend are the exact results I get with my doctor, getting closer and definitely the softer and caring qualities. It really is amazing.
Lately I have been wondering if my posts somehow turn others off. Perhaps I shouldn’t post about my psychiatrist experiences but it is the only one I have to report on and is important to me. My gosh, if people can post here about their intimate sexual encounters than my posts should not be a big deal. There are many other uses I have planned but for now this is it. We’ll see. Perhaps I can IM you when I have new info.
So again, thanks for your response. It feels good to know I have helped!
hi justonce,
awww thanks for the reps
I found your results so much like mine with my friend too, its been so helpful to me
awww, I don’t think your posts could turn anyone off I find them really nice to read I know what you mean with not having others to report on I’m kinda same way right now, well other than shopping, lol!! my friends so important to me shes only real close friend I ever had. We’ve talked about everything and told each other so much stuff we would never tell anyone else I was so sad when she was getting less caring and more distant I was scared she was going away cause of so much going on in her life. Its helped me so much using these and things are so much nicer and adding instant honesty and reading your story helps so much. Last time I was out with her we talked alot and laughed too she’s been alot softer and more caring we’ve been able to really talk alot more about things its been so nice
Your posts have really helped, they’re easy for me to relate to Feel free to pm me anytime I’d love to hear how things are going with your doctor and I could tell you more about how things are going with my friend too, its really helped me alot with her brought things back to a more caring softer level, I wasn’t as sure of how instant honesty worked till I read your posts for some reason I thought it was something to wear to church or something so things can be good and honest, well sorta, lol!! Once I read about your experiences with it I knew right away I had to try it and it works so good!!! Thanks for sharing such good and helpful reports
I hope things go really well for you with your doctor, I’m looking forward to hearing how things go, thanks again so much for getting me started with instant honesty, its really helping me
I just ran across this again and it’s not like I didn’t read it before, but this got me thinking as I have a new beau, one who is 32, MUCH younger than my usual 50s y.o. men. Ah, chock FULL of testosterone, by which I mean, more PURSUING sexually and romantically. It’s extremely nice.
So, with that, your post got me thinking… It might be REALLY REALLY good for MEN who are after women to wear IH. BECAUSE of precisely what you just said
Women then FEEL that we are more intimate, and then, ahem, you CAN get more intimate with her physically because we feel you have bothered to connect with US uniquely individually,and not just as Model x3z700000a who comes with the right equipment. In fact, I think some of that sentiment was expressed in the recent poll as well.
Man, yes, I’m even going to say it, so, even if what you want is just a one night stand (disappointed sigh, exhale), wearing IH will help you achieve that. Of course, you’ll really hurt her emotionally because she will have opened up to you only to find that THAT was indeed all you wanted.
I prefer that casual sex we be clear up front that THAT is what it is because then I have not revealed ANY of my soft underbelly.
I haven’t worn any pheros yet with my new beau because we already have fire works and I don’t want us to spontaneously combust. I’m thinking with him, IH and EST. If I add cops whatsoever, we’ll never get out the front door!
EXACTLY!! I am an old (mid-40s) married guy (20+ years) and this is the conclusion I came to even before I was married. But it is hard to convince the young guys of this. They see 'none as a more direct route to where they want to go. But that only gets you sexual excitement - which is not bad of course. But the Instant Honesty helps create that feeling of intimacy which in turn helps create a much more fertile ground for emotional and sexual excitement/fulfillment.
I also use this just to help connect with female friends with no romantic intentions (as I am married). I think it definitely helps. I find myself being included in conversations and thoughts that these women may not normally share with most guys. It makes better friends and helps create a huge web of connections I can rely on when needed.
Once again I am married so this is not an issue. But there is nothing wrong with a continuous seduction of your wife.
Oye, YES! True, we DO respond in an excited manner to I imagine it’s the Nons, like men do with us ladies over Cops.
HOWEVER, to actually yield it up, really yield it not just let’s boogie, then we ladies need to FEEL connected with.
AMEN to that! I’m a widow, so, I can say ABSO FUCKING LUTELY! I completely believe in romance and seduction and fabulousity in marriage. CHEERS for you and some rep points, man!
You are so sweet and THANK YOU. I LOVE the WOOF comment. The character Alistair - in “As Time Goes By” which is probably still utterly my favorite tv show - used to say that. It was so cute and dear with just the right touch of risque appreciation.
Man, if I wore pheromones, I mean cops, the poor man would lose it.
He’s really sweet and pursuing and calls me all the time, and I think that THAT has to do with his testosterone level vs the 50 yrs I usually date and love in many ways (GREAT convos, ah, more controlled in some ways), but WOW, I have SO been missing out by not dating more younger men. Now, I am MUCH more open to that.
He’s coming by to help me work on my yard tomorrow. I’m not kidding. And yes, I’m blushing.
Yard work? So that’s what we’re calling it now. Well, if he needs a hand? just call Ink or Tisha…they’ll send over “Chubby” and “Willy” to help out.
Thanks April! I was just thinking of changing it too!..buuuut since you said you love it…think I’ll hang onto it a little longer!
I was thinkin’ biker chick with a cigar and maybe a little body art, ya know?..somethin’ a little different. My alter ego?