I believe in setting goals. So what if your buddy fucked so many girls, how about you get 1 girl of high quality that makes him cry. You ever see those ugly older guys with those hot babes? Set your goals high, BUT work for them. Don’t just shoot for a 10 your first few times. That would be like my 15yr brother trying to warm up with 225lb bench with me, it is just plain non-sense and he would get hurt. You will get hurt. Work with 6’s for awhile or the Cute girls, then once you can handle them you jump to a new school of fish! It is really just a big fun’ol game that sucks 50+% of the time, but you will get there, just takes time. Try writing out what you want on a piece of an index card and keep it in your pockets at all times so everytime you pull out your phone you look at your goal? Best of luck my man!