Hello,
I’m 19 years old, 20 in January. I’m originally from Minnesota, but I’m going to school at Eastern
Michigan University in Ypsilanti, Michigan, where I’m a sophomore majoring in Computer Aided
Drafting & Design (With emphasis in Mechanical Engineering).
A little bit about myself, well, I didn’t really come out of my shell til my senior year in high
school. Prior to that, I was ‘the weird kid’. I’m not afraid to admit it, because I feel like I’ve
far out grown that stigma. Especially considering how I spent my summer, which more or less
included: Partying, Cliff Jumping, Partying, Skateboarding and More Partying. There’s many details
I think it would be best if I didn’t share with the forum. All and all, I had a crazy and awesome
summer with experiences and stories that will last me a lifetime.
Coming back to college was a real pain. Not because of classes and work and all that jazz. I knew
it was coming and I was beginning to be all partied out. I was definitely ready to slow down and
focus on academics. The real pain came from my relationship with a girl.
We started dating the previous year, meeting in freshman orientation. We hung out quite often
until it became official that we were dating, which happened to be September 11th, 2007.
Well, she shows up at my apartment, unannounced on September 10th, 2008, and at 11:15pm (Yes, 45
minutes away from our 1 year anniversary) breaks my heart, and leaves me sitting there with a
perfect ring for an anniversary present.
I didn’t see her for several weeks after, although I knew it was bound to happen. I’m friends with
a guy and his girlfriend, and when we used to have guy time, our girlfriends ended up hanging out,
so they ended up becoming fast friends almost instantly. The only thing is, he will end up calling me to hang out and his girlfriend will call my ex to hang out, without telling the other, so on many cases it is the four of us, a
couple and the recently broken up couple. Kinda awkward. Scratch that. It can be very awkward.
While we were dating, we said if we did break up we wanted to remain friends, which I am standing
by, so I’m not being a jerk or anything to her.
What really throws me off though, is the level of nice she is being to me. We were talking about
how my apartment complex is the only one on campus that charges on their washing machines, and she
offered to do all of my laundry for me, as she can get it done for free. The next day she picked
it up, and the day after that I had a basket of neatly folded clothes. Another time, she offered
to pick me up from class (as I have to walk a mile too and from school every day), and when we got
back to my place to casually hang out for a bit, she proceeded to start cleaning a bit of my
apartment.
All of our mutual friends say she wants me back. I’m sticking with she wants to remain good
friends and she feels bad how hard the break up hit me, so she’s being extra nice. Plus I don’t
want to assume she wants me back and just get hurt again. An ending note: If she doesn’t want me
back, I don’t want her too. It’s her life and I just want her to be happy, whatever decision it
is.
Anyways, recently, a friend of mine, who happens to go by pherophreak on these forums told me about pheromones and told me about this website and some of his experiences, which I’m sure he posted here first. Well, after browsing around for a bit, I decided to register and check some of the products out.
The two items I’m really looking at trying out at the moment (as I’m a poor college student with minimal spending cash) are Ammo and Instant Honesty, both at the suggestion of my friend PheroPhreak, the latter of which I would like to get a straight answer from my ex on how she feels about me. Of course I’d like to try many of the other products, but in due time I hope.
Well, that’s my intro. A fair amount longer than I expected it to be, but hey, pretty informative.
-Regards,
Adam