My name is Naomi aka yellowdog and I’m here because of a recommendation from one of my girlfriends. I’ve recently gained a little weight and I’m starting to feel less confident about myself. I’m not really shy but I can be self-conscious around people I don’t know and that leads to be being either very quiet or very awkward. I have a really attractive girlfriend that I go out with a lot and she attracts men like a moth to a flame. Whenever I’m not around her I tend to attract more attention and I think it’s because i feel insecure around her. I also just don’t feel sexy anymore. I feel very blah. I work in the education sector and I think of myself as a warm and loving person but I want to be more like a sex kitten. Not a cutesy girl. Does anyone have any suggestions for pheromones I should try out to help bring this out of me and make me feel more confident or at least give an air of confidence? Also, I work in DC, which is full of very confident and boisterous people. I’ve always admired people like Angelina Jolie because she seems to have that quiet confidence where she’s not loud but her precense says a lot! I know a pheromone won’t make me be like Angelina Jolie but maybe it can bring my inner Angelina out, so I’m not so shy? My girlfriend let me try her Instant Openness but it didn’t seem to work for me. It only lasted for 5 minutes. Maybe I didn’t use enough? Or maybe it wasn’t strong enough?
Aww, you should always feel beautiful because lots of guys love curves. Having a healthy outlook inside and outside always adds to a woman’s beauty. In fact one of the first things I notice about any woman is her smile. It just warms my cold, cold heart when a woman has one of those radiant loving smiles. It really embraces me and adds value to her as a person first and foremost.
Now I’ll be the first to admit I’m pretty vain about looks too. I like my girls to be waif thin and model type looks and it always blows people away when I arrive with the hottest women to be found anywhere. The reason I bring this up is because if you look at my picture I’m overweight, not the best looking guy on the block but every woman I have ever dated absolutely loves being with me. They all say its my internal workings that drive them mad. Besides the fact I can lick my eyebrows and was pretty blessed in other ways if you know what I mean . It didn’t just happen though. As I started to get rejected by women a long while back I started to eat more. As I ate more I started to get rejected by more women.
It wasn’t easy to change my life but I did. I internalized what I wanted out of life. Then I wrote my goals and aspirations down as what my perfect day would be like. Then I broke that down into every aspect of that perfect day and what those perfect aspects would be like. From there I broke those down and soon enough I had a step by step road map to exactly what I wanted out of life. Now the interesting thing that has tremendously helped me achieve success is everything I do, every step I take I first ask myself is this going to take me closer or further from my perfect day? If the answer is further away (and sometimes it is) I do what I can to avoid it. Sure I make mistakes but in doing so I readjust my heading so that even after the mistake I’m still going in the right direction.
The key to everything is you are only as beautiful as you feel that you are so start feeling beautiful.
The Angelina Jolie vibe is going to be Isexi A. I would probably get some copulins too which will only amp up the sexiness vibe. Androtics no longer carries them but there are a couple favorites the ladies have. Here is a thread that discusses copulin products and where to buy: Your favorite copulins products, Androtics and other
I’m so glad you joined the forum and am glad you had the courage to come out with the truth. Its a huge step you’ve just taken and I applaud your efforts. I know with that kind of determination you just shown its all cake from here. Good luck and we are all here to help. I think you’ll notice your story repeated many times throughout the forum. Great minds think alike . You’ve shown you have a great mind!
You have heard from Steve… so essentially nothing more needs to be said
but still let me add… its all in the mind not waist line when u feel sexy in the mind, the world will see you as sexy…
would wait to hear about your experiences in the forum once you have got instant sexiness A. take a look at instant shine too… good for the carefree confidence vibe..
I just purchased instant sexiness a and instant shine. I also checked out the thread that @steve suggested and I purchased temptress and desire me. Hopefully those two paired with instant sexiness will help a lot.
Also, I’m working on it. I used to be an athlete in HS and I was very athletic in college but upon graduation I’ve stopped working out as much. I had a very stressful and time consuming job that prevented me from working out as much as I would have liked and then I ended up injuring myself which stopped me from working out completely for a few months. I’m starting to get back into the groove of things and I’ve changed careers as well so I’m hoping that I can start to put my best foot forward again and stop being so self conscious. sigh I’m a work in progress but I’m trying. Thank you two for your help!
You are blessed to have the man himself go into your post as he doesn’t usually do intros and took the time out to let you know you have to believe in yourself and with hard work amazing things can happen.
We are all here to help you on your new journey.
You have some excellent tools to work with and even more so amazing guides
. It didn’t just happen though. As I started to get rejected by women a long while back I started to eat more. As I ate more I started to get rejected by more women.
. You’ve shown you have a great mind!