I’m a 28 yr old female in Texas, and am just interested in finding out more about how to start out with using pheromones.
I’m overweight, but not shy by any means… I want to be respected by the men I work with for being a strong outgoing person and not a sissy little girl, but at the same time I also want to be seen as a woman, ideally one with some sort of sex appeal. I just feel unbalanced in my workplace, like my job sucks away my femininity. I’m looking to balance that need for femininity with strength and confidence.
Hey there Insatiable, welcome to the forums! The best place to get started is to go into the women’s tips section and read some of the “sticky threads” that are at the top. These are threads that the moderators found to have plenty of good information or advice in them.
We can also give you some advice on where to start, but we’ll need some more information from you first. Like what kind of personality do you have, shy or outgoing? What were you hoping for phero’s to do for you? Where did you plan on using your phero’s and whom were you hoping to affect with them? These kind of answers will make sure our advice is suited to your needs, as well as qualify you for a $25 gift certificate. So let’s hear some more from ya! Cheers for now!
Well, I consider myself a confident person and am very sociable with lots of friends (but few close ones.) Generally, I have an equal amount of male and female friends. I am no stranger to feeling sexy and seductive…it has worked well for me in the past to exude “sex”, but in the past year or so I’ve fallen away from that sexual confidence. I know it’s still there, because it’s not satisfied! I just feel like I need a little boost to get that sexual confidence back to work towards getting back to my peak again. I am looking to attract general attention from men, whether or not it means anything, just to get the ball rolling again. Ideally, I’d like men to fall over drooling on themselves over me (who wouldn’t?) But in the meantime, I’ll take flirtation, eye contact, and just being noticed as a woman. I hope to use pheromones at work to see what type of responses I get…
Thanks for the suggestions. I took a look at the Women’s Forum and found lots of useful information! I’m considering Instant Sexiness A for starters, but one concern I have is about the level of androgens present in all of these compounds. I understand that androgens are a major factor in ovulation and are a major component in sexual attraction during that time, but I am actually medicated for overproduction of androgens (which is why I’m probably a hornball all the time) and taking birth control to level out my hormones. So what I’m wondering is are the androsterols present in the spray formulations literally absorbed into the skin in addition to diffusing in the air? I might need to be careful with which formulations I use if this is the case.
I was also looking at Lust After Me (which isn’t available right now)—I don’t see a major problem with copulins since they’re just a mix of fatty acids and don’t directly affect androgen levels in females, but I was still unsure of the level of other androgen-containing components in the mix and if those components are absorbed into the skin.
I’d assume that by suspending the particles in an oil base and that the skin is a lipoidal barrier, that there actually is some absorption through the skin akin to some hormone replacement therapies, but this kind of concerns me since there is no data on the ordering sites about blood level dose response curves to each of these products.
So in a nutshell, I’d like to try some of these products and will definitely have to experiment…my androgens are already high enough so any products that will attract attention without imbalancing my own body would be ideal (though I’m not sure they exist.)
You mention you’re on anti-androgen medication? I’m assuming you’re talking about PCOS? If you want to PM me you are welcome to (since this is a personal subject) or I can give you tips and hints here?
As for your TG…you say he is slightly shy? If that is the case, I’d suggest maybe pick IS/b rather than IS/a… IS/a is great, I love it, but since you are already quite confident, if you boost that even more you may come across as too alpha and dominant for your TG… IS/b is a softer very feminine, kittenish sexiness, and it also brings out the protectiveness type instinct in guys…they get to be the man and feel all protective
Also…good social phero’s should not be underestimated! One of the best ones I think is IH.
IH is great in that it helps increase the quality of communication. It’ll make you and the person you’re talking to feel more comfortable and it gives a sense of closeness to the conversation. It’s not the choice for quick chats though…IH tends to make conversations last longer too, and it’s great for relationships.
Finally…Instant Shine….It’s a fabulous all-rounder that does exactly what it says on the bottle….it makes you shine! It will boost your mood and confidence and gives you a happy, youthful and sociable vibe. It’s great to use on its own as well as in a combo. It makes people want to be around you
Hope that helped… If you have any questions pop by the ladies forum (there are NO stupid questions, believe me…and we were all noobs once!) or drop me a PM
Instant sexiness A would for this need perfectly. Its a sexy strong attractive mix that will help you maintain that balance. IMO IS/B which is also very good pushes to far toward the softer submissive side.
Ishine for a charismatic warm uplifting vibe would work well with it.
Products are in a alcohol base. The mone molecules generally diffuse off the body but yes a small amount of alcohol can be absorbed in the body. No more then you would get with any other perfume. There is no indication that the mones absorb as well. There are very few controlled studies on this. LAM is a mix of anol and copulins. The copulins will not effect you adversely. Anol has minimal or no androgenic activity. Instant sexiness, IO IH Ishine all should be fine for you to use as well. The advanced products you would have to be more careful with because some do contain male mones in them.
You would probably need to watch products containing anone arone A1 and
Dehydroepiandrosterone most which are in mens products. Some womens products can contain small amounts of them though.
Your best course of action would be to ask your doctor. Androtics can not give medical advice here on the forum. There are some ladies here who have the same issue as you and successfully use mones. Check the womens tips and tricks section for more info.
