Welcome to this forum and don’t worry this forum is easy to use. If you have questions about it, just ask.
Please tell us where you are from. How old is your partner? What’s your personallity like? And what about his? How long have you been together? Are there issues to solve between you two (communication, trust, etc)?
Regarding gay interactions, I can’t be of much help, but I suggest you have a look at Hankbuddy’s and Zedster’s journal. They are two very good journals by gay users. Maybe one of them will drop by to give you advice as well. Some other users have knowledge on the subject too.
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