A Black Man's Daily Nightclub Adventures

Field Reports & Anecdotal Experience Men's Journals
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I think it’s definitely worth a few tries at less sprays. I mean OD, ghosting and coming out too strong are three different things. It’s good that you don’t OD at 8 sprays, but not all girls enjoy being in the presence of a sexed-up kingkong with his dick hanging out in a virtual way. You don’t necessarily want guys to look forawrd to knocking your lights out either.

I think this is just too strong, especially for that age group of ladies.

But it’s just my opinion. If you look back, you’ve had no luck with 8, 5 and 6 sprays. And you even got into a fight. Try lower doses first.

For party settings and bars, MX297 can be a killer too :slight_smile:. Solo first. If you have it. Chick magnet extraordinaire even though it’s not overtly sexual. But the old saying says that making her laugh and having a good time is half the way there…

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Gym Report:

  • Saturday March 12th 2016

  • 4 sprays of jerk rubbed all over neck and upper chest.

  • I went to the other big university in my city to lift some weights.

  • This gym is known in the city for having the most hot girls.

  • This was around 4PM.

  • There was not that many girls in the gym today.

  • No girl approached me directly

  • I received signs of interest from 4-5 girls but nothing blatant or crazy.

  • Actually one girl i guess was blatant since at one point she kept doing her exercises very close to me but she had no ass and I did not find myself attracted to her even though i bet most guys would find her hot.

  • This short indian/arab guy lightly bumped into me as I walked into the change room; I was slightly pissed off but let it go since i’m trying to avoid confrontations given what happened last night.

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Saturday March 12th 2016:

Summary:

  • If someone was to review my near 24 years on this planet, one thing is certain, they would agree I’ve had a hell of an interesting life and tonight is a perfect example of that.

  • A night of weirdness, mistakes and another near fight.

Backround Info:

  • I did not jerk off last night. This might seem like an odd thing to mention but I usually masturbate every day and I’ve noticed a pattern in the past that when I dont jerk off it usually negatively affects my results with girls with or without mones.

  • I showered right before applying the mones.

The Mix:

  • At 1 AM I applied 5 sprays of jerk rubbed all over my neck and upper chest.

The Location:

  • CB nightclub exit. I rarely actually go inside the club in this place, I just wait at the exit as I’ve found its easier to meet girls that way.

  • I arrived at the club at 1:36 AM

The Results:

  • I was approached directly twice and several other interesting things happened.

  • First, as she was walking by me this hot tall blonde girl looked directly at me and made a comment i could not hear, I gave her a dismissive look and ignored her.

  • I get a lot of girls making random comments to me when I visit this club and I know from experience that these girls are just wasting my time and have no genuine interest in me which is why i dismissed this tall blonde so harshly.

  • After this, a brunette who barely passed my standards came and stood directly in front of me facing me but of course like always happens with jerk she is not making eye contact. Almost every time i wear jerk in a club I will get a girl who does this, they stand directly in front of me facing me but dont make eye contact;its so weird.

  • So this girl is standing there doing this and she seems drunk. Usually when a girl does this ill look at her a bit and see if she makes eye contact and if she doesnt i just ignore her completelly but tonight I was like fuck it if this girl wants to be akward like this then ill just keep looking at her. So i just kept looking at her as shes standing there facing me not looking at me. I’m not sure how it ended but i think after a few min i got bored of this weird standoff so i looked away and ignored her and she left shortly after that. so weird.

  • Later on this old white guy comes up to me and I dont remember what he wanted initially but I remember it arrived at a point where he was trying to shake my hand and I refused. I had seen this guy earlier in the night and he smelled like drugs and gave me a weird look so I wanted nothing to do with him.

  • So he’s standing there trying to shake my hand and i look him directly in the eyes and refuse and harshly say “i dont want anything to do with you” and i continue to look him dead in the eyes in silence. There is this group of girls right beside us and they are witnessing the whole thing.

  • The old guy’s friend starts to drag him away as he sees I’m not going to shake his friends hand. This is where i think I made a mistake, as he walks away i continue to stare at him and he stares back so we are now in this staring contest. Looking back I should not have done this but at the time I think my mindset was I did not want the girls see me back down which is why i did it.

  • So we are basically just staring at each other and then the girls who where there look at me with disappointment and leave. As soon as the girls left I instantly realized i was making a mistake and that by acknowledging this guy I was looking bad to the ladies around.

  • So i turn away from the old guy and ignore him as he continues to yell nonsense like “i just wanted to shake your hand” and “come outside lets talk”. So he continue to stand there about 10 feet away from me yelling this as I’m now ignoring him. Eventually he decides to leave.

  • A few min later these 2 hot girls come and place themselves directly next to me. A few min after that the old guy comes back and again starts yelling the same nonsense…“dont give me this shiet I just wanted to talk to u”…I was not going to make the same mistake so I ignored him completely and never even looked at him…Then it got interesting.

  • So as I’m ignoring him the old guy continues yelling his nonsense like a crazy person…the 2 hot girls next to me suprisingly start defending me…I hear them yelling " he doesn’t care" and “just go home” after the old guys again yelled “i just wanted to talk to u”.

  • Eventually the hotter of the 2 girls literally came and stood directly in front of me almost like she was shielding me and told the old guy to leave. I immediately told her “I dont know him” to make sure she did not think I knew this crazy old guy.

  • After this the old guy left. The girl then turned to me and engaged me in conversation telling me how crazy the guy was. I was pretty rattled and confused so my brain was not working so the conversation quickly died and she politely excused herself.

  • The weird thing is she made 2 comments that I found interesting. Speaking about the old guy she said “it’s not like he’s going to hit me” and then when she excused herself she again speaking of the old guy said “well, I’m here waiting for my ride if he comes back” basically like she was saying she would protect me again if the old guy came back.

  • I found this weird because It’s like she doesn’t think I’m capable of protecting myself or something. I dont know but i found those comments weird. My gut feeling is this girl liked me and used the whole situation with the old guy as a way to start a conversation with me but still those 2 comments made me think.

  • Later on the old guy again came back and even though these 2 girls had left by then I continued to completely ignore him. This seemed to infuriate him even more as he started banging on the club exit door like a crazy person.

-The interesting thing is not once did this guy take a step towards me, he just stood 10 feet away throwing a tantrum like a fucking 5 year old, looking back it’s actually funny how crazy he was behaving for a man who appeared at least 50 years old. I’m pretty sure he never came towards me because he was smaller and he knew he could not take me in a fight.

  • After the crazy old guy left this cute brunette approached me and said “why do u look so sad”. This is a red flag comment that I know from experience means the girl is wasting my time and has no real interest in me. I’ve had girls make comments like that so many times and never not once has it lead to anything between me and the girl.

  • Usually when a girl makes a comment like that my rule is I ignore her completely but tonight I stupidly responded and engaged this girl in conversation that of course went nowhere.

Lessons To Remember Going Forward:

The lessons below are written in a format like I’m talking to myself.

  • ignore any girl who makes any of the following comments: “why are u not dancing?” “are u ok?” “why do u look so sad/mad” “high five” “why are u just standing there?” “smile”…any of these are red flags and 99% of the time a girl who says any of these is being an attention whore and wasting your time and you should ignore her completelly and act like she doesnt exist.

  • If a guy is being hostile (like the old guy tonight) but he is not in your personal space and thus does not pose a physical threat to you then ignore him completely and act like he doesnt exist. If you stare at him or engage him in any way this just makes you look immature to the girls around and turns them off.

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I think you are right man. But its weird I think I’m addicted to the jerk heavy mixes because at least i know for sure something interesting will always happen when I’m wearing them.

But u are right I should test lower doses.

Also, never heard of mx297 but ill try it when i place my next order

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Thanks for the suggestion man. I’ll definitely look into this.

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Monday March 14th 2016:

Background info:

  • I did not jerk off last night.

  • I took a shower before applying the mones

  • Earlier today while on campus I noticed a slightly unusually high amount of interest from girls even without mones so it seems that there was some leftover from previous application.

  • Earlier today I had my first negative reaction from a friend. As i walked around campus I saw one of my friends but he avoided eye contact and had an annoyed look on his face. This guy is 19 years old and black.

Tonight’s Mix:

  • At 1:15 AM I applied around 5 sprays of jerk to neck and upper chest. I say “around 5” because I’m not sure exactly since my bottle is running out.

The Location:

HDS Bar , a dark loud and super busy bar with small dancefloor

The Results:

  • If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 7%

  • No girl approached me directly

  • I was personally in a weird mood and I think my whole routine of positioning myself with very arrogant/cocky body language that usually works to my advantage might have come off try hard tonight.

  • No unusual/crazy sign of interest

  • I did not get ghosted since I still received some signs of interest from 5-7 girls

  • I made a big tactical mistake tonight. Even though i got there at 1:40 AM which is 35 min before close, the place was still insanely busy. But i still managed to find a great spot to position myself. But then after about 20 min I stupidly moved thinking that the place was about to die down so I would easily be able to find another spot. But when i returned my spot was taken and the bar remained super busy until it closed so for the remaining 20 min I was kind of awkwardly walking around looking for a new spot but never really found another good one.

  • One weird interaction happened when this tall blonde came up to me, bent down and started pulling something under my right foot, i look down and see her pulling a $10 bill from under my foot, she hands me the $10 bill, gives me a bitchy/annoyed look and walks away without saying anything…so weird…this is why I think im addicted to jerk heavy mixes…no matter what happens something weird and unexpected always happens when i wear these jerk heavy mixes. At least I got a free $10 tonight since that money was not mine since I never carry cash at night.

  • As far as guys go, this tall muscular British or Australian white guy who was clearly drunk and high was hanging around me at one point. I observed him interact with other guys with a weird overly friendly but also kind of aggressive vibe like playfully slapping these guys in the face, banging on the table like a crazy person and at one point slapping this tall blonde’s ass hard as he walked behind her. But nothing happened with me, I basically ignored him and when he tried talking to me I gave him short polite answers and then would just ignore him.

  • I also want to note that tonight the bouncers gave me a hard time before letting me in. I’ve been coming to this place for 2.5 years and have never had any issues with bouncers but tonight they where saying i looked too young on my id and asked me if i had a different picture id. they finally let me in after i showed them my credit card with the same name as on the id…very weird…one of them was new as I’d never seen him there before but the other guy has been there since i started coming 2.5 years ago so not sure if it was due to the jerk heavy mix.

  • I’m basically out of jerk and the new order i placed earlier today will probably not arrive until Friday so looks like I’ll be forced to finally try other mixes.

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Wednesday March 17th

Summary:

Why are so many guys talking to me? + 4 pathetic french attention whores + another near fight.

Background Info:

  • I did not jerk off last night

  • I took a shower right before applying the mones

  • I got my weekly haircut earlier today and I’m looking really good

The mix:

  • 4 sprays of jerk rubbed all over neck and upper chest

The Environment:

  • CWB Nightclub exit from 1:30 AM to 3AM

The Results With girls:

  • If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 10%

  • No girl who had any legitimate interest in me approached me

  • The most interesting interaction of the night was when these 2 girls walked by me while being accompanied by these 2 guys. They where basically about to leave the club with these 2 guys then the 2 girls saw me and proceeded to abandon the 2 guys by giving them some lame excuse about having to wait for their friends.

  • So these 2 girls abandon the 2 guys and go back inside the club. These 2 poor guys decide to wait for the girls outside and they stand there waiting at the exit for around 30 min before giving up and leaving. About 5 minutes after these 2 guys left the 2 girls come back and are now with 2 other girls so there is 4 of them.

  • The 4 of them come and position themselves directly in front of me. They are so close had i reached out my arm i would have made contact. I instantly recognize from experience that these girls are the worst kind of attention whores and none of them have any legitimate interest in me. They where all speaking french and french is my first language and judging by what they where saying there was no doubt in my mind they where the worst most pathetic kind of attention whores.

  • So I proceed to completely ignore them literally acting like they are not there even as they stare at me. These girls proceed to awkwardly stay there talking while I ignore them. After a few min one of them made a last ditch effort to get my attention by pointing at me and saying to one of the other girls “are you going to take him home?”

  • I continued to ignore them completely knowing full well that a girl who actually wanted to take me home would never be so obvious about it. After this I guess they realized nothing they could do would get me to acknowledge their existence so they left.

  • Earlier in the night right when I first got there I had one other girl make a random comment to me while with her group of friends. It was clear she was being an attention whore so I gave a very brief response then ignored her completely.

  • Besides these attention whores I cannot remember any other clear sign of interest from any girl.

The Near Fight:

  • Right after the french attention whores left, this tall white guy approaches me and here’s what happens:

Tall white guy: comes and stands very close to me

Me: completely ignore him acting like he doesn’t even exist

A few minutes later

Tall white guy: random comment that I dont remember what he said

Me: completely ignore him acting like he doesn’t even exist

Tall white guy: touches me on the arm or chest I dont remember

Me: dont touch me man

Tall White Guy: gets mad and says "What!!!? I was just making a joke, you think you’re better then me?!!!

Me: completely ignore him acting like he doesn’t even exist

Tall white guy: gets even more mad and continues yelling “you think you’re fucking better then me!!!?”

Me: fearing he might sucker punch me since he is in my personal space, I turn and face him and say “I dont care, dont touch me!!!”

Tall white guy: “you think you’re fucking better then me!!!?”

Me: I start to lose my cool and say " Yes I do, what are you going to do about it?"

Tall white guy: “you think you’re fucking better then me!!!? , come outside”

Me: I’m standing right here

Tall white guy: “that’s right you’re scared of me you wont come outside”

Me: face him completely face to face, and say “do I look scared?!!”

Tall white guy: “come outside!!!?”

After this the bouncers came and kicked the guy out. Thankfully they took my side instantly even with the jerk heavy mix since they know me from coming there so much and always being super polite and chill.

I’m not sure if this near fight is my fault since the guy came to me and I did nothing but tell him not to touch me which is my right. Perhaps when I said “yes I’m better then you” thats when I was in the wrong.

So in the past 4 night I’ve been out there I’ve been in one actual fight and 2 near fights.

Other Results With Guys:

  • so many guys kept coming near me tonight and making random comments. Guys would come and stand right next to me for no reason the same way girls stand next to me for no reason when they want my attention. It was very weird. Guys where being fucking attention whores tonight wanting me to acknowledge them.

  • This old guy (45+) who I had a hostile interaction with in the past came and just stood right next to me while he was with his girlfriend. I looked at him directly and faced him with my body language in case he attacked me but when we made eye contact he would look away but still stand there.

  • It was clear he was super drunk and fucked up. Eventually this other black guy came and was talking with his girlfriend and this old guy goes directly into the black guys face giving him very hostile body language and eye contact.

-The black guy is like “why are you looking at me like that?”…this is all happening right besides me so I turn and say “dont worry about him man, this old guy is always starting problems”. The old guy’s girlfriend immediately drags him away after this. By the way, just so its clear I’m not talking about the old guy from the near fight last Saturday. This is another old guy.

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Ok, fights? Near fights? Too much IJ. Congrats for keeping your cool on that one.

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Thursday March 17th:

I did jerk off last night.

I did NOT shower before going out

Location = CWB nightclub exit from 1:35 AM to 3:00 AM

The Mix = 5 sprays of jerk rubbed all over neck + upper chest

The Results With Girls:

  • If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 10%

  • No girl I liked approached me directly

  • Had 2-3 fat girls trying hard to get my attention. This always really annoys me since it seems crazy to me that a fat girl would think I would be interested. I mean are they fucking crazy, I’m in shape and have a borderline male model face and they are fat why the fuck do they think I’d be interested.

  • I know black guys have a bad reputation of liking fat white girls but I always find it so insulting when fat girls come after me. Not all black guys are like that. Me and my other good looking black friends always joke about how annoying and insulting it is when these fat white girls are following us around in clubs.

  • I was in a weird mood today. I guess it’s because of all the fights I’ve been getting into. Also, the place was insanely packed due to st patrick’s day and that did not help with my mood. I also made a tactical mistake by getting to the club too early tonight. I started to get tired after a while since I was there standing for so long.

  • I had the usual girls showing interest by coming and standing really close to me for no reason but none of them approached me and I was not in the mood to even consider making the first move so nothing happened. I would say 5-7 hot girls did this tonight.

  • No blatant or unusual sign of interest. I’ve had much better nights without mones and with different mixes.

  • Here’s on memorable interaction:

Random short and slightly chubby girl: “happy st patrick day” + touches me on the face

Me: Instantly annoyed and feeling disrespected that a stranger comes up to me and touches my face so I respond “dont touch me” + push her hands off my face

Her: gives me a horrified look

Me: Radio Silence

Her: walks away

Results With Guys:

  • No fight or near fight but there was this semi hostile interaction that happened.

  • I’m standing there and this young and cute white girl comes and stands right besides me trying to get my attention. This is the 2nd time she had done it that night.

  • This random short white guy comes up to her, not sure what he said but things didn’t go well for him since i heard the girl saying “get away from me!”

  • Instead of leaving the guy starts getting mad complaining to the girl and getting hostile mumbling nonsense like a crazy person. Then as he’s mumbling he keeps lightly bumping into me. I try to ignore him but it continues and I finally get mad, turn to look him directly in the eyes and say “stop bumping into me”.

  • I can instantly tell by the look in his eyes that this guy is super drunk/high/fucked up. He loudly says “sorry sorry!” and then goes outside. As he goes outside he bangs the door hard and mumbles more nonsense…basically acting like a crazy person. He came back inside later on but never looked at me or came near me again.

  • Another thing worth noting is this tall muscular white guy I’ve seen many times at this club. He’s always acting weird around me like he wants my attention but never makes eye contact when i look at him. It’s definitely not a friendly vibe between us and I dont like him. Tonight he was again acting weird, walking around like someone looking for a fight, i kept my eyes on him but he never made eye contact and eventually left when the bouncers noticed how he was behaving.

  • It should be noted as well that there was an unusually high amount of black people at this club tonight and almost never will i have issues with guys when there’s other black people around. It’s almost like other people assume all black people are friends so if they fuck with one of us all of us will defend him. So maybe that’s why no fight or near fight tonight.

  • I’m happy to have had no significant issue with guys tonight. Tomorrow would usually be my favorite night since my favorite club on earth is open but I’m banned until April for fighting the super muscular guy last week so tomorrow I’ll come back to the same place as tonight. It will be interesting to see if I deal with any issues from guys tomorrow since there definitely wont be many black people there tomorrow.

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Gym Report:

Friday March 18th:

The Mix:

At 5:45 PM I applied 5.5 sprays of jerk applied all over neck and chest

The Location:

  • Went to the gym at the other big university in my city.

The Results:

If my dream gym visit is 100% then today was 7%.

No girl approached me

  • A few looks here and there but no crazy/blatant sign of interest.

  • Today’s results are inconclusive since there was not many girls in the gym at all today. I encountered only 7-10 girls.

  • me and one tall skinny white buy bumped into each other as we walked by each other but he apologized right away as I just kept walking.

  • A few guys as we walked by each other, these guys would kind of walk towards me kind of like getting in my way, I would just keep walking straight ahead like i was about to walk through them and they would then move out my way…this happens to me pretty often even without mones and both women and men do this but it does seem to happen more when im wearing jerk.

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Friday March 18th:

I’ll keep this report super short since I dont remember much since I was too lazy to write it the same night like i usually do.

Basically, I went with another jerk heavy mix of 5-6 sprays on my neck and upper chest.

If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 0% since I literally cannot remember any clear sign of interest from a hot girl.

Not sure If I OD but judging by people’s reaction towards me I dont think i OD at all.

Only interest from girls I got was these 2 disgustingly fat white girls. Literally the only interest i got.

It goes without saying that I’ve of course had much better nights without mones and with other mixes.

  • As far as guys go, this random white guy walked towards me with his hands spread like he wanted to to hug me. I put my hand on his chest to stop him and said “I dont know you” and he responded by getting mad and saying “ok ok , jeez relax, are you from Montreal or something!!!”…thats what he said…so weird.
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Saturday March 19th:

Background info:

  • I showered before putting on the mones

  • I did jerk off last night.

The Mix:

  • 5 sprays of ammo on neck and upper chest

  • 5 sprays of openess on wrists and forearms

The Location:

  • CWB nightclub exit.

The Results:

  • If my dream night is 100% then tonight was 10%

  • No girl approached me directly

  • I tried to switch it up and instead of having very arrogant body language along with a “I’m the coolest/hottest guy ever” demeanor and attitude that I had with jerk…tonight I tried to be just relaxed and chill.

  • I would say there 7-10 clear signs of interest from hot girls

  • I’ve had much better nights with or without mones

  • Guys where not hostile at all but several guys trying to talk to me which always annoys me since I have no interest in talking to guys when I’m out. I specifically go out alone because of that. One guy in particular kept trying to talk to me and it got annoying and at one point I just ignored him completely.

  • At one point when a lot of girls where around i was stuck in a fucking conversation with one of my black friends who i ran into so that kind of ruined my night since at the time where the most girls where around me instead of looking for girls I was stuck talking to a fucking guy. This guy is a cool guy so I would have felt bad just ignoring him but looking back i should have found a way to get rid of him quickly.

  • Tonight again fucking fat girls where trying to get my attention. It really fucking annoys me. wtf are these girls thinking? It makes no logical sense to me, why the fuck do they think I would want them?..i guess its because of all the black guys out there known for liking fat white girls. Tonight when these fat girls came and stood directly next to me , I just instantly left and walked completely to the other side so it was obvious i was rejecting them…thankfully they got the hint and immediately left. I find it so fucking insulting, I work hard to stay thin and in shape and some lazy chick who is fucking super fat thinks I’m going to want her just because she’s white? wtf?

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You’ve been getting all the classic signs of enone overdoses.. Unsurprising by the amount of sprays of the products you have been using. Being black and 21 you are likely to be producing loads of enone anyway. I’ve got to say your persona isn’t coming across as being agreeable. You gotta understand those large doses of enone is effecting the way you act too, it will make you short tempered, cocky and aggressive. Like other guys. Not surprised by the constant mentions of brawls. It took me a while to realize that I hate wearing enone when guys are around.. Its mainly for a one on one thing with a target when sex is on the cards. It’s proved to me to be my least useful attractant. Sounds like you need something to soften your image.

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Von: Overdosing all the way, yep. It’s been said a few times in this thread, but it goes on. With -none, less is more. Especially at that age. And with ladies near that age. Couldn’t agree with you more.

Btw, I’m just a guy near Montreal who just did not get the Montreal joke a few posts back… Lol.

Peace.