Saturday 28 May 2011
F’s leaving night – a few places up town
1 spray of Ammo x2 to throat
A guy that I used to work with is going to work in another country as a computer programmer so I was out for his leaving night. There was only me, F and P from my old work. There were quite a few of his friends at the restaurant to start with – around 15.
I chatted to a couple of these guys for a bit. I had quite a long conversation with F’s ex-girlfriend A. Another girl was getting me to have apple vodka and lemonade – I don’t ever drink vodka and coke or that but I just thought, “what the hell. When in Rome!”. P arrived after me and when he did I had a good catch up with him. I talked to him a lot throughout the night about anything and everything.
We moved on from there to a pub. We stayed outside in their large courtyard – even though it was very windy and even colder! It was the Barcelona v Man Utd Champions League Final so everywhere was rammed so it was basically wherever we could get in. At this point there were still about ten of us so we were limited in choice.
For the most part, I was just chatting to P and occasionally F (both male). We got talking to two Irish guys. They opened me and were pretty funny. We had a good chat about rubbish. I noticed a few glances from girls now and then when I looked around – a theme that was there the whole night.
Eight of us moved on to a bar/ club around 11.30 for the rest of the night, where one more joined us. The clientele are not the best there but we managed to get seats, which was the main aim for the next stop!
I noticed quite a few hits at the club:
One of F’s friends A winked at me a lot when he was speaking. He was a very jokey kind of person and almost every time he said anything with a bit of humour he would wink at me – a couple of times in a night would be acceptable/ normal but this must have been over a dozen times. I just felt like he wanted to impress me and be my buddy.
The toilets surprisingly brought a few hits. First off was the guy working in the toilets. Normally, these guys might give a bit of chat but this guy was really talking my ear off. He said that I looked Asian – something I thought that I would never hear in my life as I’m a pure bread caucasian. I also had some random Dutch guy chatting to me about his life and his business. We had a few good laughs about the night and general life. I also bumped into one of F’s friends J in the toilet. Up until this point, I hadn’t really spoken to him but I opened him in the toilet and we chatted for a while in the toilet before heading back to the seats.
I was at the bar a few times. There was a girl standing next to me. She was quite good looking – she had really big eyes which were so cute. Anyway, she looked at me and I smiled. She then reciprocated briefly but then looked down at the ground quite nervously. She was being served when I went over so left after less than one minute. The next time I went to the bar, it just so happened that this same girl was standing next to me again. She gave me a two or three second stare straight in the eyes – pretty hot! Unfortunately, she was standing next to her boyfriend (I assumed) so I didn’t chat to her.
I also noticed that I was getting smiles from the girls behind the bar when I was ordering and also I got served quicker than some people who had been standing next to me – not necessarily mone hits as this may have happened anyway but perhaps these are.
J, the guy who I had chatted to in the toilet, was a tall guy – maybe 6’5’’ - 31 and very muscular – not body builder muscular but he was ex-army and kept himself in that shape. He was hard as hell – certainly not someone you would want to get in a fight with. He was really strange. He dressed entirely in black, including a black leather jacket. He had a disposable camera with him which he was taking pictures of some of the group with. He took (at least) one picture of just me. I was just sitting down chatting to one of the group and he took a picture straight at me. This made me feel a bit sort of uneasy about him as I’d only just met him and I wouldn’t know why he would want to take a picture of me. I also noticed a few times that when I looked round, he was staring straight at me. Again, I just felt a bit uneasy about this guy. I had basically kept the same seat the whole time there but most of the others had moved around. At one point, I had been at the bar and came back to J sitting next to me. He opened me and we chatted a bit. He brought up my sex life. I’d made the point that I was far more interested in finding a LTR that I could spend the rest of my life with happily than going out every weekend to find some slut to have sex with and never speak to again – granted that does not mean that the latter is something which I would be averse to every now and then 
His response was that he’d had lots of sex with loads of different partners and that he was great at it because of all of this practice. He then went on to say that because I had said that I didn’t think that sex was the most important thing in my life that I must be crap at it… I just tried to ignore this guy for the rest of the night. It was like he was trying to show off to me and impress me – instead it just made me think he was an arse and a pervert. It’s fair to say that I would very happily never see this guy again. In terms of testing though, I would say that he definitely displayed many IOIs as detailed above and that he wanted to impress me and be my friend. This is not anything I’ve ever discovered before so I would say that this may have been Ammo related.
The last hit that I noted was T. She was a 40 year old milf. As far as 40 year olds go, she was definitely a 9, verging on a 10. We chatted for what must have been an hour – from 2 until 3. She was there with a friend who was quite drunk by now but T didn’t seem too bad. Her friend was being chatted up by some dodgy, old, fat man with his hand getting increasingly lower down her back. They were both married with kids, although in T’s case she looked early thirties and like she kept fit. She made it pretty clear that she was happily married and I just agreed that that’s the best way to be so I knew that I would not be getting lucky with this lovely lady from the outset but I still wanted to chat to her and get to know her. We had a good laugh about a lot of things and we flirted a bit with each other. She said on a few occasions that I was cute and would find an amazing girlfriend soon – she even jokingly offered her twelve year old daughter in four years’ time but I said that it would have to wait until she was 18. When we left the club I walked the ladies up the road to the taxi rank. Her friend was asking if I wanted to come back in their taxi. I said no as I was going the completely other way but if T had asked then I definitely would have said “yes”. I got kisses on the cheek from both of them (plus a couple more earlier from T), which is definitely not a part of the local scene, where a hug is far more commonplace. That was a very interesting chat with someone legally old enough to be my mother! Had she not been married, I don’t know what would have happened though. I’ve certainly noticed that I do tend have longer chats with older ladies. In terms of as a hit, I’m just not sure whether Ammo had any influence over this as it had been a long time since application.
Carrying on from the last point, I’m not sure whether Ammo had an effect on this due to application time but I went to the casino after the club at 3 - getting there about 4. On the way, a couple of girls were sitting down on the outside ledge of a shop window. They seemed a bit drunk but started saying “hello”, smiling and whistling to me as I passed. I responded with the same but kept walking.
At the casino, I got into a debate that three guys were having about probabilities. As I take quite an interest in gambling theory, I know about probability theory, particularly with respect to roulette and blackjack. I took the side of one guy who pretty much had it spot on. The other guy was basically talking rubbish. I told him that I knew what I was talking about and gave good reasons for that – he replied that he had studied statistics, which was exactly what this had to do with! He was meant to have gone to a very good uni and he didn’t know things about basic probability that I had learned when I was 18 – anyway, we agreed to disagree!
There were another couple of guys who played at my table who I joked with and made similar bets with. We were on a similar wavelength and had a good laugh together. I had two females all over me. The first one was chatting to me about everything and what she’d been up to etc. We had good eye contact and smiles etc. The second girl then sat next to me after the first one had gone away. She was a bit scummy so I wasn’t after chatting to her too much. It was very similar to the first girl, good eye contact and plenty of chat. Later on, the first girl re-joined me. She was there with her friend (possibly boyfriend), who was one of the guys that was betting with me, and they came back to my table. She was standing against me – using me as a leaning post – whilst chatting to me and to her friend. I just noted this as a good IOI and didn’t say anything about it :-p Again, I’m just not sure how much is Ammo related and how much would have happened anyway due to application time.
I would say that I got a lot of glances from girls tonight here and there – all very brief but definite IOIs. I thought that every guy I spoke to wanted to be my best friend and/or wanted to impress me and make me laugh. I had a lot of hits tonight and I think there may be even more that I can’t remember. This just makes me want to try Ammo again some time soon!
I declined by not really saying anything to her. She did text me the next day saying that perhaps that was inappropriate.
Anyway, we went up the stairs and I ordered for the 3 of us plus the guys who I was in a round with. L put her arm round my back and sort of massaged me on the centre of my lower back and said thankyou - I defnitely felt that that created a definite connection between us as this was more than just a friendly thankyou. We, didn’t, however, get a chance to speak much for the rest of the night but we did dance quite a bit together.