Hiya! First of all a small introduction:
I’m a 43yr old caucasian (North European) guy, I definitely do not look my age, I could go with mid 30’s without any problem. (For what it’s worth
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Slim muscular built, work out 3x a week, but nothing out of the ordinary.
I’ve been told by the women in my life I’m sexy and sweet, so that must be a plus.
So how did I end up here, and started using Pheros?
About a year ago my long term gf kinda went chuckoo and to cut a long story short, we broke up after 7+ years. We had just started to settle down and think about kids etc. Painful and complicated situation.
Too long of a personal story.
Hard work and hitting the gym like a maniac was what kept me going, but going without the joy of life.
About 8 months into the process, feeling depressed as hell about the situation, I literally bumped into a very bright eyed girl on a cold morning. After a period of ‘circling’ we finally introduced, spoke and eventually started to date. It was mutual love at first sight, kapow.
However, I was still with one foot in my complex ex-situation. There was a lot of stuff on the line, and end of the line is…I got dumped by the sweetheart after about 2 months because she didn’t know what my game with her was, thus protecting her own heart, it went too fast, from both sides.
My credit? Being too codependent in way. Seeing her as the angel who showed me there was more to life than stress and worries. I was devastated too see this wonderful human being walking out of my life.
She showed up a couple of times afterwards using bogus excuses (the zzzzinggg still present), called a few times, last few weeks it’s radio silence. I decided to pop one more call and call it quits after that. The ball is in her court. Can’t wait to use mones when she pops around, and she probably will.
Now ffwd to phero:
Decided to no longer be miserable, antisocial and alone, so I stepped up my game. Ofc I was going out and socialised with friends, but it didn’t feel like second nature. More or less an uptight vibe.
So after some research, kinda by accident I bumped into pheromones. I tried some years ago, no real biggie back then.
Ordered some commercial stuff first, used it with moderate success, then I found this forum, ordered AMMO, IS and TUTH. (More stuff on it’s way
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So here we go, my first evaluations:
Tuesday July 30th:
Put some commercial stuff (I won’t mention) on during a course I’m taking. Just guys: result, super social, loads of smiles and laughs. Even more openness from the guy giving the course, whom I always found a bit ‘avoiding’ me. So in all, a positive effect.
Wednesday July 1st
Had to go for some shopping in town, was wearing beta variant of commercial product. Crossed eyes with a gorgeous half black woman. She appeared a bit ‘intimidated’, her eyes were on and off me a couple of times
in the few meters we crossed paths, she even missed a few steps losing her balance for a sec. ![]()
Didn’t know where to look kinda thing.
Later the same day:
Met a girl via a dating app (let’s call her K), nothing big..just to keep myself occupied after work and the usual social tidbits. Have been chatting for a few days, we decided to go for a drink and meet irl. Put on the more ‘beta’ variant of the commercial product. Had a good time, was relaxed and even got a very complimenting txt afterwards saying: ‘You have such a relaxed vibe around you’
Thursday July 2nd
My Androtics order arrived! Stoked!
This day was something special, I did some work for my ex’s company and had to check out the results. Pumped some IS on my neck and AMMO x2 on wrists (split). IS kicked in like a triple espresso, I almost immediately felt uplifted and secure, wow. Before I went into ex’s business I ran into some old pals, I was greeted by them like I was the long lost homeboy who served time and got out recently. Told em I’d be back.
Ex was friendly and doing her business as usual. The ‘complicated’ vibe that has dominated the last year seemed to have evaporated…
Went back to my pals, joined in for a beer or two. All of them extreme Alpha males..got loads of respect, smiles, laid back vibes and the one guy who barely says anything ever and just smirks in a mysterious way told me half his life story. While I went into the bar to get some more drinks I got sized up by a (again) half black girl in her late 20’s, she was about to leave with her friends, but she even took off her sunglasses to exchange some very obvious glances. I’ll probably bump into her again as she was calling the bartender by his name, so must be a regular.
Later that night I went out to check the event I did the work for.
This time I added a touch of TUTH on my chest to the AMMO and IS
Got loads and loads of thanks and respect from the people involved with the event for what I had done, it was crazy. So I went on and entered my ex’s place of business.
Had some casual talk and then I spot this coworker my ex had hired a few months ago. Adorable cute girl, we never got anywhere further than a smile and a ‘hi’. (Let’s call her L for future reference) We spent about half an hour outside the venue talking about work and music until my ex got the air of it
and literally, very subtle, pulled her a few meters out of my aura.
Like she unconsciously smelled it. Furthermore a lot of gazing eyes from girls entering the event while I was socialising at the entrance. Respectful looks from males, the kind of respect a bouncer would get..and I’m by no means beefy nor do I have the pitbull look.
Friday July 3rd
Big festivities going on in my town at the moment. I nearly drew a young chick from her boyfriend, she was sizing me up with her eyes and almost humping my leg while I was dancing at a bands gig with a friend that night. She was giving me that “woah, I want him” look. Poor bf was so intimidated in the background I almost felt sorry. Then she realised what she was doing and she left in a hurry.
I did a combo of IS and AMMO with a small touch of TUTH. Took about an hour and a half to notice effects. But then again, it’s very hot and crowded atm. So I might up the ante a little bit.
Afterparty got super social, loads of ‘long lost pal’ greetings, ‘We’ve met befores’ and handshakes, even from guys I faintly know. I seem to have a better memory for faces than others do…
Saturday July 4th
I just went for a stroll into town. IS and AMMO on.
First hour nothing ‘big’ except a nice confident laid back self-effect. Massive sport-event going on, so loads of people to test out.
30 minutes in, alpha males smiling friendly, asking me for directions, super social.
First semi hit from a beautiful black girl in her 20s on my way to the event, seemed a bit intimidated. Last minute eye catching. This was 10 minutes in. Next hit after an hours walk, store employee…smiles, deer in the headlights, ‘I know this guy’ kinda vibe and winks from a few yards, she was inside and I was passing by…this time again a half black girl. Exactly what I’m aiming for…so far so good. I’ll definitely go for some clothes in that store somewhere this week. ![]()
Same night, bit slow, same setup. Met up with a friend, met some new folks, conversation was mellow and easy.
Sidenote: With the new folks and the festivities going on, a lot of beers where handed out, so I got wasted a bit too fast for my liking, just one of those nights I guess. Then Ms. K showed op on my cellphone, we exchanged texts and I was starting to push my luck, just ffs. Conversation wasn’t as easy and mellow as the first date. A hint of ‘doubts’ and expectations was lingering in the air. In the end I made a stupid move too fast, I tried to kiss her with my drunk face haha. She kinda blew me off, but kept very polite. I thought I blew it, but this morning I found a text on my phone with ‘no worries!’.