I mean, I am not totally out of the scene yet. In fact, she spends more time with me then she does him. I also have been invited to go down with her to San Antonio over Valentine’s weekend. She asked because she hates driving long distances by herself or at least that is what she said. I agreed that if I didn’t have something else going on that I would think about accompanying her since I have family down there. I am also going out to Two Rows with her tonight which Deuschebag refuses to go out to the bars. She is a great girl and all but like pherophreak says there are plenty of others out there and I don’t want to come down with oneitis.
NOw correct me if I’m wrong but isn’t valentine’s the time for lovers. She wants to spend the weekend with you and is going to a bar with you where she knows he won’t be.
Shit man, either I’ve fallen off the banana boat or the girl is into you.
Lol, guess I didn’t look at it that way. My plan of action is still as it always is. Have a ton of fun and just play it by ear. Fortunately, I know what kind of guy I am and what kind of guy he is. If I play my game, accentuate my best qualities and those aren’t on her buy list then there wouldn’t be that much compatibility anyway. With her personality I would want more than just a one nighter and that means that we need the compatibility AND the attraction. But I cannot deny that the attraction is there for both of us.
Yea man, girls don’t invite you for a Valentines day trip just as friends, (in my opinion) You have a PRIME chance here. Think about it, you, her, a contained area (car) for several hours? Choose your mones very carefully and precisely, and you can win her yet.
techman,
Mark reckons she’s into you, pherophreak reckons she’s into you, so do I. I’ve just had my wife have a look at this thread. Her response was basically to slap you round the head, tell you to wake up and go get the girl 
What you waiting for dude?
Guess I will have to pull the trigger tonight at the two rows. Thanks for the advice guys.
You want a wing man along let me know. Otherwise, Friday at Cape Buffalo
More advice techman, take Mark up on his offer
Ok guess I should post a new report on here. I am not posting about last Wednesday night because a lot of drama happened to Sunshine and well it was not a good night for her.
Friday night I got some hits off of a new bottle of MX203 that I got in the mail.
Dosage: 3 togo sprays MX203, 2 to the neck and 1 spread across both wrists.
Effect: I started my evening having a couple of cheap beers at Twin Peaks before going out to Cape Buffalo. I didn’t put on any pheros until after I was at the Cape. My brother came with me wearing a combo he has started to really like for bars. When we first got there apparently his started working immediately (i still hadn’t put any on) because the last decent spot at the bar was next to this older guy. He didn’t seem like he was talking to anyone until we showed up and ordered a beer. Then he started chatting like crazy to both of us. It took us a little bit to end the conversation but eventually we did. While we were waiting for more friends to show up my bro and I scoped out the place. Several more friends show up and of course I say hi to Mark who was there by that time. Finally I decided to put on my MX203 dosage in the bathroom.
Sunrise was there by that time and she wasn’t all that talkative or lively as she had missed her nap that day to get a tattoo. In fact, I was basically the only one she would have a prolonged conversation with and of course I was cracking jokes like crazy just to get her to laugh. Finally my friends from work show up after making a trip to The Endzone to see my boss’s kareokee show. I went back over to chat at Mark who introduced me to a friend of his. After Mark left she and I chatted for a bit and she seemed to be making great eye contact and giving me geniuine laughs at my corny jokes. She only had a short time to stay and after about 20 min of talking she asked if I danced. I say yes and she and I went out to the dance floor for a song. Then her phone went off and she needed to go. I gave her my number in case she wanted to party again. She took it and immediately called me back.
I went back over to the bar where of course the guys who saw everything congradulated me. Gotta love nerds. Anyway in the course of that an older redhead maybe 40-45 was standing where I was standing before I went to talk to Mark. I jokingly said she was in my spot where she immediately started acting like a scolded puppy. Her head was down and away from me so I said, “Hey now you can’t be sad at a bar it should be smiles from here on out, you are forgiven.” She gave me a big smile and we talked for a little bit. I ended the conversation in about 5 min because I really wasn’t going to hit on her. But I think that is a probably a hit. Sunshine was tired and left shortly after that so it was just the guys left. I was content with my confidence really high so I just drank with them until about 1:30.
Lately since I have been taking steps to make myself more outgoing and using pheros my confidence has sky-rocketed. Though I am still proud of my nerdiness, I no longer “feel” like a nerd.