Just getting off work where I spent my night researching instead of working.. shhhh don’t tell the boss. I am older and in a fairly hopeless situation for the time being. I work nights, when I am not working I have young kids, and my EX is living in my house to help care for the kids when I am at work.
I am looking for a little something to add a bit of spark to spontaneous situations and hopefully something that will help get women past the point of the Ex in the house. Nothing like a challenge eh?
So far I decided on shine, A314 and turn up the heat. Suggestions are always helpful however.
Ponderu
Hi Ponderu,
It is nice to hear from you.
A314 will give a feeling of authority or father vibe. So, it is going to be useful. To get more attraction and sexual feeling, you can try Ammo.
Social pheromones like IO, IS and IH will increase your social environment.
Best Regards,
jamesbonded
Welcome.
How old are you?
What is your personality like?
Tuth may not be the ideal stand-alone product for you. We can give more focused suggestions if you tell us a bit more.
Hello and good morning to you. And welcome to the forum?
How old are you? It kinda helps to know that.
A314 and TUTH are both great products but they are also two of the trickiest. As GWTW says TUTH is not the best stand-alone product. It is ususlaly best if you are already in an intimate relationship. And A314 can help yo0u attract women but they will tend to be the confident type looking for thsame in men. It can push away shy women unless you really reach out to them.
If you are say older than 25 I think Ammo, Instant shine and IO are probably more useful.
Not sure if ANY of this will help overcome the Ex in the house. I think that will have to be all you.
ya, definatly try out some ammo. Cant go wrong. That stuff grows on me more and more every day. Welcome to the boards new friend!
Thanks to all of you for the input.. I added my age to the profile.. I am 46. I thought about all the other products and I will probably add them as I go along. I got the TUTH with a specific purpose in mind that I am just not going to add at this point. I will say that where I will be using it, it will be more than likely the right product considering the venue.
I do have a question though.. I have read several posts and it seems like everyone has their own mixtures they like.. is all of this basically from trial and error? Or is it based on something else?
I am a bit of an analyzer in case nobody guessed it…nature of my job I am afraid.
Several of you asked for more info about me. Right now there is not a lot to tell… for the last year I have not been out of the house much other than work. I am working on changing that but until recently the situation with the kids has prevented me from having much of a social life.
Before kids and marriage.. I was never home, I was always out with someone and had friends everywhere. Now of course I have to start fresh and I basically have no friends other than work people who I do not really associate with. Starting over fresh.. not a bad thing.. just where I am.
Ponderu
I am mid-40s. Renny is about the same if that helps from age/mix/advice perspective.
Well, you don’t need to go into details as we all know you don’t buy TUTH to start deep conversations … lol.
Some are based on mixes others have described. Other mixes come from knowing the effects of certain products individually and trying to come up with a mix that combines those effects or perhaps takes it a step further hopefully from a synergistic effect.
Now since each of us a slightly different natural phero-signature, you often have to play with the mixes some to find just the right combination for you. But that is also why we ask so much info - age, race, how much and where so we can try to adjust from there. Plus if there is a mix that has consistant results across the board, whether for everyone or the same results for everyone in a given age bracket - then I am sure Jasmin and MHarris sit up and take note of that also.
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I know the feeling.
Well, any good parent will make sure the kids are taken care of even if it puts them in some tough situations. Hats off to you for being a good Dad. I know that situation for the wife is awkward and kudos to you for living with it if that is the best fix you have for the kids right now.
Not a bad thing at all. Best wishes with that and with the pheromones.
Ok.. I have been reading more posts and think I need to add a bit on myself.
I am considered one of the leaders at work, I tend to be the person that everyone comes to if they have an issue that needs fixed or just need someone to tell them what to do. So I have the authority figure part naturally and it has always been that way.
With women one problem I have had far to often (once is to much) is I get put in the friend category to quickly. They want me around just not as close as I wish to be.
Another issue I have is that I do not produce testosterone well at all. I am taking shots for this for a couple years now. The little boys got killed by a bad infection see super bug.. the antibiotics killed the bug.. bad side effect.
That was probably to much info for some but I am not exactly shy, I am pretty open to talk about anything. Sorry if it bothers some of you.
I am thinking I need to go make another order at this point.. Just when you think you know what your doing.. someone changes my mind. chuckle.
Ponderu
My ex is bipolar. Is there anything that would help keep her balanced that either of us can use? For now her meds keep her mostly balanced but there are days.. most of them come with ms. Flows visit. Not really a surprise there but wondering if anyone has any ideas that might help.
Ponderu
Welcome Ponderu!
Bipolar, meaning that he has mood swing and get angry easily? I think instant shine will help a lot by making her happy
Do you still see her very often?
Is the is only purpose of trying pheromone for you? Or you still have anything else in mind, just let us know and we will try to help and give some advice 
Instant Female Magic will calm her down. It will make her more relax.
I always thought that instant female magic only relieve period related stress or stuff, but has much less obvious results any other time
But great suggestion still, worth a try if you think that it might work
EDIT: I didn’t catch the “ms flows” part:o, so instant female magic will be great
She is unfortunately living in my home currently to help care for the kids while I work.
The reaction she has can be anything from depression to anger to near suicidal depression. Not pretty, if I am there I can usually diffuse it. When I am not my daughter can. Just wondering if I might find something that would lessen the probability of it happening.
Well, you mentioned that most of the extreme mood swings come about PMS time. Several people around the forums have commented that Instant Female Magic helps greatly in lightening her mood during that particular part of her cycle.
If she is bipolar and on meds … well IFM and Instant shine might help during that time of the month, but the key is for her to stay on her meds. Too many bipolar folks decide to go off of them - many seem to “miss” to manic stages.
I ensure she stays on her meds.. took me years and a divorce to get her on meds. She is also to the point now that she knows what things were like when she was not on the meds and has no desire to go back. Keeping her on meds with no insurance since she can not be on mine anymore, but well worth it for and the kids.
At 46 you probably don’t have anything to worry about with Turn Up The Heat. You might also wish to consider some of the other Androstenone products like raw power.
You might try some Instant Gentleman - as further enhancement of your comforting masculine vibe, and Instant Honesty, which will help get some deeper conversations flowing. You could also experiment with Instant Openness, for meeting people.
Please tell us how your experiments go.
Basically, What the Boss is trying to say…Is when she is sleeping…completely filler her entire pillow with IFM – Welcome to the boards.
Too true. Also, not sure what benefits you have, but therapy in conjunction with medication is very effective (and often helps the patient to stay on the meds). Does she also have PMDD?
You have a challenge on your hands. Hang in there and keep us posted!
you could also try CTTM
I think one of the members loves that stuff lol
prob works better than instant openness in terms of getting ppl to come up to you and talk