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I there, I am a 26 year old guy living in portugal riddle with problems, with no apparent solution… until now :slight_smile:

Ok so lets start from the beggining. The first time I had contact with a pherormone product. The first I had 18 year olds, I heard of it and me and my friends get some money together and we bought it. In the end it work and the woman that would come to talk to me in a disco would be much more than before. I havent take any profet from this because after the talk I would simply walk away for moral issues (at the time :slight_smile: ). I was testing it out of curiosity than anything else.

Meanwhile I “grow up” and never think of it again… until now.

And so now I have some little problems in my life.

Lets start with me. I may have something like a bipolar disease, but not normal bipolar has I can be extremelly outgoing 10% of the year some unique nights, and the rest 90% I am just shy and sulk, so finding something to increase those 10% would be a bonus and I am open to suggestions.

Also I have to win complitly and utterly someone that is been playing with my hearth for a year now. All started a year ago when I met her, she was away from her country, and I fell for her. we lived 6 months knowing one another and when she left I agreed to house her, and her friend plus her sister in my house so she could have summer vacations with me, you know portugal is a summer paradise :slight_smile:. I wanted this because I was (and I am) utterly in love with her, but you know all this time the first 6 months and also for my disbelif the vacations, I was denied sex. Hoe many guys would stand up to it and play along I dont know. But I did just for the sake of winning her hearth. Meanwhile she left and one person that know her talked to me and give me proof that she had a boyfriend all the time she was with me, and so making sense why the hell she always denied me sex. I dont want revenge, but we are going to meet soon somewere between our countrys to sort this out, and I want to win her completly I know I won her already for the feelings now I just need the attraction. So this is my first and more important reason for coming here and my biggest cry for help… I need something.

Well there is a third problem, I am really sure that after meeting her, she is going to be back to her boyfriend because I dont live in her country and bouth of us need to be in our country for more at least 2 years, what I strive for is that I can remain in her head and somewhere in the future she wants to be with me. Maybe we meet again in summer somewher we never know, but what I know is that I am going to go through hell thinking on her until the next time. So I need someone or many someones that can take my head out of her but dont fall in love with me. What I need are some bonified friends in between. And being a shy guy, sometimes is difficult to get some. So I do need something to spike others attraction for me.

Last question, anyone know how does portugues customs react with this products? should I ask it from dhl? If I order with dhl is garantead custom free?

Well I hope I didnt bored you with my questions, I wait for your awnsers. And yes the gift offering would be also nice, since I probably have to buy a lot of stuff :stuck_out_tongue: .

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HI there,

Welcome to the forum.

To win over the girl need a lot of effort and luck too. Pheromones are not magic potion. It can only help.

You can try IH. IH can make her closer and more intimate with you. She will talk personal and more details with you.

A little bit of TUTH will also help to sexually attract her.

Good luck

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Falco–
Hi and welcome to our forum! I am sorry to hear of your problems! My wife suffers from bipolar disorder, so I can understand your situation somewhat. Have you went to the doctor to seek treatment for it? If not I would suggest doing so. Or at the minimum check out some resources online for controlling your mood swings. There are many things that can be done to even out how you feel. Only being “outgoing” (or manic) 10% of the time may get you the girl of your dreams, however the 90% of the time probably would not satisfy her. Plus being manic can cause you to do harmful things that sabotage yourself in the long run. Anyways enough with the preaching :slight_smile:

You say you are smitten with this woman for over a year. Have you expressed your feelings to her? I am assuming you have, due to your claims that she has denied you sex. Was there any romantic involvement? Kissing, holding, or anything like this?

If there was romantic involvement, what were her stated reasons for no sex?

You state you have won her feelings. I am not sure what you mean by this. Are you saying she reciprocates your feelings of wanting to be together, but because she has a boyfriend she will not be with you? Or she like you as a friend and thats all?

You then go on to state, that after your next meeting, she will be going back to her home with the boyfriend for 2 years. You want her to remember you during this time and eventually come to you correct?
How long will you two be together during this meeting?

For the meeting I would recommend Ammo, however it is not in stock right now. Like Jamesbonded said, IO and IH would also be a good addition. TUTH added at the right time could spark up some passion, but if she is not set on sex then it may backfire.

You really just need to be honest with her and tell her your feelings. She may reject you, but then she may agree. Either way it will be a new chapter in your life!

To open up to others, I would go with the IO. When I use it, I am able to be more open to talking to others without fear. It also works on the people you are talking to. You might even look into IG to give of a cool laid back vibe. That would seem to fit your personality. If you combo the two together that should get your foot into the door with other women.

When Ammo is available, I would def get some of that as well!

About customs, I cannot anwser that. I would call the 1800 number. Steve is the man and can help you out with those questions, as well as advice with the ladies LOL :slight_smile:

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About the 2 topics above. Yeah I think Instant honesty would be defently a plus provided it works has it is described and I could get all the important not going to tell you information she has to offer.

About the last reply. Well our involment had everything couples do, from sleeping together, staying together, kissing, holding hands, and all playing around in bed that does not goes to out of hand. Also she always protects herself with a friend (girl) that is always around to the point were I had to sleep with the 2 of them in bed … many times. And no there is no romantic envolment or possibility from the other girl. The reasons for no sex… I can only wonder that it is because of the other guy, another one may be that this girl is big on trust and needs a lot of time to turst someone to that degree… all in all they ara all guesses … but she is not introverted, on the contrary on discos she always the center of atetions and likes to play around. I would say if there are 10 beautifull girls in disco she would be the one with more guys around her… she likes to provoce. When she is alone with me (not with her other friend) her behaviour changes completly she is the most inocent girl that set foot on earth. She is sweet and caring has I never seen before. She likes me but she dosent love… and she loves the other guy, although she tells me that sometimes she loves me… my guess is that the fear of me being so far makes her protect herself. And I am going to meet her soon for 3-4 days. Also about myself my polarity is not severe but is enough to let me sulking a lot of time, some time I miss energy and a little bit of euphoria.

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IH will help her feel more “connected” to you. It will lower her guard down a bit.

Possibly, she does not want to have sex because it is her moral standard to not “sleep around”. Her cheating on her boyfriend (which she is doing with you) indicates there is interest at least on some level. It is hard to guess about why she would not have sex with you though.

You have a tough situation ahead trying to win her in 3-4 days. I would say again just tell her how you feel and let her tell you how she feels. Go from there. Maybe you can move to her country? Personally, I do not see anything coming of this relationship other than what it already is. I could be wrong though! My wife would tell you how many times I have been wrong LOL!

I would def call Steve on monday and ask his advice though. I believe he could help you with how to set up the situation better than I could. Maybe he will chime in here as well!

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Well I hope he can get here or ill call him but calling from portugal is expensive. About the telling the feelings part its more than done. Problem is she cant decide if she wanna part from me or want anything more, she cant make her mind and yes I am sure she feels alot for me. But she has a conflct and I am not talking about boyfriend, I am actually talking about what she feels about me. Maybe because of what the other girl says I never know what they are saying I dont understand the language. But sometimes her behaviour can change like night and day. There is some click missing, I need something that makes the differnce. I want her to be swept of her feet. I am really romantic and I can manage the surrondings, but I need something else.

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Good luck with this! +01 425-786-2001 is the phone number. I am not sure if it is free or not.

I am not saying that Steve will tell you how to be romantic. Anyone can do that. Here is an example. Teen Dilemma, call for advice (lengthy) - #2 by SteveO

He is good at setting up a situation to get the results you desire. Plus he can match the pheromones to enhance you as well.

From the more and more info you give, it sounds like she does care, but probably is afraid of the long distance commitment. Look at how she does her boyfriend now! It would be hard to stay committed for 2 years without seeing someone. It would be hard and heart wrenching! Please post back your results!

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you mean post back my results after being with her or after talking with steve?

and yes long distatnce relation I know dosent work, but I dont want it. In fact I want but I know its impossible, so I just want her to think about me after meeting and there is high probability we will meet again next summer. I want her to think about me, and I want to cause a big impression this 3-4 days so it lasts. We do talk once or twice a week in skype. But we dont talk very personal. We decided that we are going to have very important talk about future in this meeting. That is why it is critic I can turn the tables in my favour.

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Either one or both! :slight_smile: I would like to know what happens in your journey! Even if it does not go in your favor then there are other women to meet. Other things that can be accomplished! If you get her to do what you would like then that would be great to hear about as well! :smiley:

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well ill call him this week if he dosent stop by. :slight_smile:

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Hello and welcome to PheroTalk. I am so happy you were able to discover this most amazing community. We consider each other like family here and are totally committed to helping each other out. There are so many great people here and now another too :slight_smile:.

I will be issuing your GC in just a short while to your email. I would love to be able to personally respond to every new user signing on, but because I want to ensure you get the GC in time I can only reply with this message at this time. I’m sure you are anxious to get started, just like the rest of us were too :slight_smile:. Its cool!

Of course Steve is available to answer any question you might have regarding moons. Please call our hot-line and select extension one and Steve will be able to consult you one on one.

Welcome to the forum.

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OK so you PM’d me a few times asking for my advice since calling from Portugal is out of the expenses for you. I would say first and foremost what I am going to say is not going to male you happy. I believe that the truth prevails and because of that I won’t beat around the bush and tell you things just to make you think pheromones are the answer. I believe they can help you in social situations and even in some sexual situations, but from what I’ve read you’re seeking a miracle potion and they just don’t work like that.

This girl wants to stay in your most beautiful country (I’ve been there) and bring along her friend, sister and stay for, let me guess: FREE! Of course she is not going to give it up to you! Why would she? She is staying in an exotic location and its not costing her a thing. She is using you for everything you have and all she has to do s once in a while “play” the game for a few minutes. She has her friend around so nothing happens and has a boyfriend at home for two years. I can almost bet that all the times you’ve kissed and fooled around could be counted on one hand. She is doing this cause she knows how to play you like a fool my friend. She is providing just enough “play” to keep you interested in something you will never get.

Sorry, but its going to be a rude awakening to figure out that she is not at all interested in anything but a free ride :frowning:. If you think she is going to “put out” based on her staying there you are asking her to prostitute herself, and if she does then where are her values based anyway? Crazy stuff right?

The thing is from reading your post, I read everything I wrote in what you said. You know this all already. Tell this girl if she wants to stay there she will have to pay, even tell her you’ll only charge her 1/3 of what a hotel would. I can almost guarantee she will no longer be available for you. If she stayed in a hotel would she call you?

Now if you just want to use her like she is using you, get yourself some IJ, A314 and IO. Skip the IH as its great for deep rapport but IO is for that 10% you sought earlier in your post. The IJ will help present that strong sexual male vibe, while paired with A314 you get ultimate male dominance and IO is for social conversations.

Again you may not want to hear what I am saying, but you already know that’s the truth. I wish it wasn’t but I’ve been there and I know.

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Well, actually I was hoping something like that. Although there is a third possibility, I do think you may have the right awnser. But in between I would like to know what are the range of effects of for example IS and AMMU, why do you suggest only sexual ones, arent they to aggressive if not paired with something more smooth or does IO are doing it here. And I would like also to know the effect of IH. Actually I know that dosent to have to be you to tell me this, so I would be happy anyone would contribute.

And I thank you for your prevous advice.

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Hey andrew has you asked Ill keep you updated, I have bought alpha, IO and jerk after talking with steve. Ill tell you later in december about the results that this will bring me.

And once again thank you for all your help.

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Goodluck! A314, IO, and IJ is really one of my favorite combo. It is a wicked as hell combo to! I have a thread about it somewhere!

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I will look for it later, now I am going to sleep, Its 1 am in portugal.