ok so my name is chris i’m 18 and i am a caucasian male from the phillyburbs (suburbs of Philadelphia). I’m still in high school and i would say i’m pretty laid back about most things, and i don’t worry too much. i first heard of Peromones a little more than a year ago because i forget how now but somehow i came to have one bottle of some nexxus stuff. (I didnt pay for it I just think it came with something i got, not too sure) anyways i didn’t really use that stuff at all, but in the past week i have googled about Pheromones and that is how i stumbled upon this forum.
ok so i told you about me and now i’ll tell you my situation. i have a girlfriend, and we have been together for one year and 3 months. Now alot of the times we are just absolutely perfect and could not be happier. Now she has told me before that she thinks she is slightly bipolar and mostly i just think she says that, but i don’t know because it could very possibly be true. I have to be on the top of my game to keep her happy because alot of things will make her made at me, and she’s not the girl to forget things so if i do something wrong now, even if its little then she will start bringing up every little thing that i could have done wrong from while we were going out or even before. I even want something that will let me get a little more respect. I do everything i can to keep her happy, and most of the times she does get mad its for things i cant help like a day she wanted to hang out i would have to work or something like that. For example- last week she wanted to hang out with me on Saturday night but i had to work that night but we still hung out a little bit Friday Night and Saturday in the day. but she was mad for the whole entire week before that, but now this week were perfectly fine, so its just alor of up and downs.
Last week she also told me that she is starting to see me as a friend more, and i had no idea where that came from, i was just like are you serious? why do you see me that way? but i don’t know if she said that just because she was already a little bit upset, but im not sure because like i said this week were fine. and its not all about just not being able to hang out with her its partly the work itself. My parents own an ice cream store and its all girls that work there except me and my brother, and i have to work there theres no choice. ( i’d rather not though) so the work will bother her too.
To sum up my whole life story i’m basically looking for something that will keep her lightened up and in a better mood. ( i was thinking Instant Shine, but at what strength) also something to get a little more respect because when she does get mad she doenst like to give me any respect. (So Maybe A314?) Then i was thinking maybe TUTH. We never had sex and i wouldn’t use this to get sex from her, but just because of what she said about her seeing me as a friend, and because even like the kissing and basic physical contact has slown down a little bit recently and it never hurts to Turn Up The Heat.
Sorry For not being able to summarize, and giving you a 5 page paper that you guys probably won’t feel like reading. but any suggestions would be great. And i read the thread “What pheromones can and cannot do” and yes i know i’m asking alot, but i am living my life according to them already. (I give her plenty of respect, and try to make her happy in everything i do, and i try to self consciously think would this aggravate her if i did this. but then again its not that bad and i can live with it, it just sounds worse on here because i am only describing to you guys the problem.) I just want a little extra “edge” at keeping her satified.
Hi Chris from Philly. Thanks for providing so much information.
A314 will get you additional trust and respect. Ammo would be useful to build further sexual attraction. Instant Female Magic would help to put her in a better mood, however it’s currently out of stock and I have read it will not be back in stock for a while now. The communication or ‘instant’ products could be useful, Instant Shine, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness. These may help to draw her to you and help her open up. Turn up the heat is a very sexual product, but must be used carefully as it’s possible to overdose with this.
Chris, have a good read of The Mens Guideand let us know if you have any other questions. Also have a good read of the main forums and see what products other people just like you are using.
The lovelly Tisha should be online again soon, she will give you a $25 gift certificate.
Once you start using pheromones, be sure to return and let us know about your results
wow thanks for the extremely fast response that was amazing. and i have been reading the Forums for a couple days now and i have read the descriptions of all the products except i did not read Instant Female Magic’s description because i heard that it would not be restocked for some time, but now after seeing your post that seems like EXACTLY what i need. except i can’t get it =/ man, the one product i need the most, and they are not manufacturing it now. just my luck! haha well so i’ll get the ammo and the A314, then i guess Shine to try and substitute what i really need. Any recommendations for what strength? Instant Openness and Instant Honesty may help, but talking is not an issue, we talk all the time and we are completely honest with each other, but i guess they could help to make her feel a little bit more comfotable?
Hey Chris, this is a hard situation, you sound like a pretty rounded guy, albeit a bit young, but have you ever really talked to your significant other about sex at all? Perhaps she was ready to take that step, and feels a bit rejected or distanced by your lack of interest in that area of your relationship.
Instant shine as well as AMMO, are great products and I used them quite frequently. Might want to give those a go as to-go’s for your first plunge into Phero. products.
Now if your GF is truly bipolar then there is not much mones can do to change that and she should see a doctor. Do you think maybe she has severe PMS or something like that ? PMS I can help but not bipolar.
First lets cover respect, A314 is a great product but I suggest you go with IG for two reasons. A314 can distance people and doesn’t bring much comfort with it. IG will give you a mature masculine dependable respectful aura without the intimidating vibe that A314 gives. Something about the way you describe her tells me she wouldn’t respond to it well.
Ishine is a good ideal and I agree you should get this one.
TUTH will come on way to strong and is likely to swing her moods more, I suggest AMMO which is arousing yet buffered for comfort and ease.
Now if you think PMS may be a issue which can possibly set her Bipolar episodes off, if she is, then I think you should pop on over to Natural attraction.com and pick up one of the mens products there as well when you have the money. Here is why…A1 is perfect for your situation for calming, putting her at ease and increasing affection. It was sold here in IFM but has been and will be out of stock for a while. Natural attraction holds the patent on it and they are a really good company.
If you have any questions just ask. Your GC is on its way
i believe she still is attracted to me. I think its just she doesn’t like to do anything physical when she’s a little upset. but hey, it doesn’t hurt to have her a little more attracted.
and well it was more of her that wanted to push off the sex for a little while, and what i meant was that i respect that, and i’m not going to use pheromones to seduce her into having sex.
ya thanks for all the advice i don’t think its bipolar i just think she says it as an excuse after she realizes she shouldn’t have acted as she did.
and like i said before its not that bad, it sounds alot worse when i describe it on here because i’m trying to tell you every little detail just so you get a better idea of the situation. Like if you told me theres nothing i could do to solve this problem then things would still fine between us. Just thought theres always room for a little improvement hah. and thanks for all the advice!
Chris, I came to this site to try to fix a failing/failed relationship. While I truly believe the pheromones work, it doesn’t always work the way you want it. In my case, my girl was so hell-bent on leaving and finding other guys, she resisted the products I was wearing. (Quite well I might add, because I could tell it was affecting her.)
I wore instant honesty on a date with my current g/f and it brought out the waterworks, “you don’t tell me you love me anymore” conversation.
It’s commendable you’re trying to repair the relationship, but take the pheromone use slow. Keep it methodical and don’t overdo it. A little goes a long way. And if she’s seeing you as a friend because of something you’re doing or not doing, pheromones aren’t going to fix that on their own. (But they will help you once you head in the right direction.)
Have you taken a look at CTTM or Instant shine? When I pair those 2 up, I feel real light hearted. I don’t know how it’ll affect your girl, but it certainly brightens me up.
hey Tisha i went over to Natural attraction.com and they have 2 products that have the same exact description and seem exactly the same but for says Men and the other say LeMale so i was wondering if you knew the difference
