A rough club night near Palo Alto with Ammo and Instant Openness

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I had a pretty rotten night yesterday hitting the clubs near Palo Alto. I was wearing 2.5 shots of Ammo (neck/chest/back of neck) and 3 shots Instant Openness (wrists). This was my first time hitting the bars with just my male wing. Normally I have an entourage of female friends dancing with me and it makes life sooooo much easier!

Irish Bar: Two young girls at the bar seemed to be into us. The hottie told me she was in the army and I was wearing dogtags so I teased her back that I was too. She reached out and took my dogtag in her hands, teased that they were fakes. We talked for a brief moment and they ran to the dance floor for the next hour just pumping away on each other alone…we weren’t interested enough to join them. An invitation would have been nice though!

Loud dance club with patio: I interrupted a set of two girls on the patio with an indirect opener. They took the bait and answered my question, but I couldn’t really hear their response, so couldn’t bust on them. A couple seconds later they were back in their own little world. Looking back I should have added a verbal false time constraint in addition to the “I’m leaving now” nonverbal false time constraint.

Another loud dance club with upstairs: Approached a couple sets with indirect openers. They all answered the question but I had to repeat myself once (damn these loud clubs). I really need to master transitioning from the opener into new material.

Anyway I wanted to let folks know that even fairly attractive, hardcore students of attraction wearing good phero signature get shot down too :slight_smile: Sometimes you just have to chalk it up to a learning experience. Even though AMMO scent is good stuff I’m looking forward to getting some mutant AMMO and covering with my own cologne. I was smelling a little spicey (you guys know what I mean).

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Can’t win em all, shit happens as I say.

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Loud clubs are rough. I sometimes find it almost impossible to have any kind of conversation with my wife. We usually head for the quietest spot we can find when we are not dancing. I know this does not help you any though …

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So this was an “aweful” night? Why not go with the flow when it’s too loud for conversation and just dance and have fun? :slight_smile:

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Sorry but i dont understand what was awful about the night? You opened convo with girls but maybe didnt carry on the convo but why is this a bad thing? Whenever i go out i just enjoy myself and dont worry about stuff like that i then find things end up coming my way anyway so its always a bonus to the night.

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Yepp, and having a good time sends way better signals to the girls than thinking about ‘verbal false time contraints’ (whatever that may be :smiley:). No offense intended, but I always think running around in a club and opening ‘sets’ instead of just having fun sends a signal of desperation (well, maybe that word was is a little too much :wink:). You know, the guy running around only thinking about how to get laid…
:wink:

Additional benefit: If you are out to have fun, not having gathered two dozen phone numbers won’t make you think about that evening as a ‘pretty rotten night’!

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A verbal false time constraint, It is when you tell them you need to get back to your buddies or need to leave. always something that needs to take you away from the girls, makes you more interesting to them usually.

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I avoid loud clubs unless they have really good live music. Then I go for the band. I can only work my “magic” with conversation so the chest vibrating subwoofer pretty much kills my mojo. I guess you could use body language to lure them outside or into a VIP party room. But, yeah, if you’re trying to meet and woo women there are better venues. I do better on college campus, regular bars, Waikiki beach, etc.