Well I have been making a few friends on pherotalk lately that I have been talking to on aim, on the phone, etc. I meet a local guy through here and we decided to share our pheromones and go hit the club last night together to get some hot chicks. Well everything was going well, I picked him up at his house, drove to the club, he paid a $5 cover fee and I paid $12 because I am 20 and they discriminate against 18, 19 and 20 yr olds. Anyways as soon as we paid, my cellphone starts ringing. My gf is calling me so I pick up, and she says “Hey babe, whats going on?”. I reply “Hi how are you? Im not doing much, just chilling with my friend and going to a club to dance with a few chicks but I wont do anything more than that I promise”. Excuse her language at this part, put your earmuffs and blindfolds on youngsters…“You’re #^$&% what??? you &$%!!!”.
I asked “umm whats wrong?”…she said “if you dance with one girl, I am never talking to you again…you better drive home right now and talk to me on the phone all night so I know you’re not at the club *click”
So I had to drive my friend back home, then went back to my place. I wasted time, gas, money, time to spend with hot chicks, and lots of pheromone wasted all because of this…She claims she isnt jealous btw…Any tips on what to do next time when something like this happens?
Well now, that can be a tough one… some women are very protective of their property and see going out to dance without them as you being on the prowl. Which, let’s face it, is true for some men. One thing to do would be encourage her to do the same thing… have girls’ night out at a club. That’s what both my g’f and i do, since we go to seperate colleges 30 minutes away. We can’t always go out together, so we know that although we may be dancing with someone else, we’ll be coming home to each other. Or if you’re uncomfortable with the idea of her grinding with some other guy, then you should understand why she doesnt want you doing the same thing. Honestly, my girlfriend is more uncomfortable with me going out to a gay club (it’s the only club in my hometown, so it’s actually full of straights and gays), since i get hit on so much by guys there. I laugh alot at that… girl’s flirting with me is ok, but guy’s who dont attract me arent? Oh well…
Hm, how about instead of going to a club by yourself why not take her along? I mean, she is your GF after all isn’t she? I don’t know what to tell you man, if you want to go to clubs without her and go looking for other girls then just be single. Kind of messed up for her, I don’t know. Unless she goes to clubs without you as well, and you guys have an “open relationship.”
The coloquial expression for this is being “pussy whipped.”
You can do what you want. I will not put up with someone trying to run my life in that manner. I would have turned off my cell phone and enjoyed the rest of the night at the club. (Actually I don’t like clubs, but you get the drift.)
I’d start by getting rid of a girlfriend, if I wanted to head to a club to dance with “hot chicks” while slathered with Pheros. You can’t have it both ways dude.. (Unless she’s into that..Ahem )
I want to have a relationship with this girl…I care about her a lot and she loves me, and she is super hot, like a 20 on the 10 scale, educated, professional businesswoman, and rich lol.
There you go! You got it. Sounds like you’ve got yourself a catch, so be careful before it’s gone. In other words, just put yourself in her shoes. If she’s that hot, and would go to clubs by herself imagine how many other guys would be all up on her? You wouldn’t want to even risk a guy getting that type of chance bro, because you never known if she’ll ever fall into temptation.
Then if shes that hot, why the hell werent u at her place hittin that? haha..F*** the clubs, if you got that. Most of those broads in there are broke anyways..looking for someone w/ money and drinks, thats about it..
you better drive home right now and talk to me on the phone all night so I know you’re not at the club click WTF? I remember those days.. my advice is do whatever you want that will make YOU happy. Don’t cater to anyone. If this is not the girl you are going to marry, then go out and dance. At your age I wouldn’t be committed.
Or if you’re uncomfortable with the idea of her grinding with some other guy, then you should understand why she doesnt want you doing the same thing. Honestly, my girlfriend is more uncomfortable with me going out to a gay club (it’s the only club in my hometown, so it’s actually full of straights and gays), since i get hit on so much by guys there. I laugh alot at that… girl’s flirting with me is ok, but guy’s who dont attract me arent? Oh well…
)