Advice for a bi-girl

I wear perfume almost all the time. My nose can catch scents a mile away but usually they don’t bother me. I thought they all smelled wonderful (which was odd because I was warned some might smell like cat pee). I have not tried the other two on their own yet. I did not realise dizziness or depression were a possibility. Is this just building up a tolerance, perhaps? My stomach is notorious right now, so what makes other people dizzy could easily effect my digestive system. I felt like I was going to bounce off the walls. I assumed since he knows me so well, he would not respond to what i changed, I don’t know at all. I was worried that maybe I got shipped the male version of Instant Sexiness (is there even one? or maybe that is a silly newbie question).

I did this specifically at a party where I knew there would be bi-women even figuring that would help me be less shy. I had one woman get down right mean. It was the oddest thing I have EVER seen, I walked up to compliment her pretty boots and she said, “so maybe you should get on the floor and lick them” I said while smiling, “hmm…nice offer but no thanks” and she started insulting me. The whole exchange was beyond bizarre.

I was going to use one at a time for a little bit until I get the hang of it, but I have to say this has been a daunting and disheartening experience so far.

If it helps anyone sort out what I am doing wrong the first night I placed them all on my wrists but for the Instant Sexiness which I also placed a bit in my hair. Going forward I will stick with wrists. I am hoping this for my side is a getting accustomed sort of thing and on the how people treat me side that maybe I just mixed things that should not be mixed? Any and all help is welcomed.

I wear perfume almost all the time. My nose can catch scents a mile away but usually they don’t bother me. I thought they all smelled wonderful (which was odd because I was warned some might smell like cat pee). I have not tried the other two on their own yet. I did not realise dizziness or depression were a possibility. Is this just building up a tolerance, perhaps? My stomach is notorious right now, so what makes other people dizzy could easily effect my digestive system. I felt like I was going to bounce off the walls. I assumed since he knows me so well, he would not respond to what i changed, I don’t know at all. I was worried that maybe I got shipped the male version of Instant Sexiness (is there even one? or maybe that is a silly newbie question).

I did this specifically at a party where I knew there would be bi-women even figuring that would help me be less shy. I had one woman get down right mean. It was the oddest thing I have EVER seen, I walked up to compliment her pretty boots and she said, “so maybe you should get on the floor and lick them” I said while smiling, “hmm…nice offer but no thanks” and she started insulting me. The whole exchange was beyond bizarre.

I was going to use one at a time for a little bit until I get the hang of it, but I have to say this has been a daunting and disheartening experience so far.

If it helps anyone sort out what I am doing wrong the first night I placed them all on my wrists but for the Instant Sexiness which I also placed a bit in my hair. Going forward I will stick with wrists. I am hoping this for my side is a getting accustomed sort of thing and on the how people treat me side that maybe I just mixed things that should not be mixed? Any and all help is welcomed.

I wear perfume almost all the time. My nose can catch scents a mile away but usually they don’t bother me. I thought they all smelled wonderful (which was odd because I was warned some might smell like cat pee). I have not tried the other two on their own yet. I did not realise dizziness or depression were a possibility. Is this just building up a tolerance, perhaps? My stomach is notorious right now, so what makes other people dizzy could easily effect my digestive system. I felt like I was going to bounce off the walls. I assumed since he knows me so well, he would not respond to what i changed, I don’t know at all. I was worried that maybe I got shipped the male version of Instant Sexiness (is there even one? or maybe that is a silly newbie question).

I did this specifically at a party where I knew there would be bi-women even figuring that would help me be less shy. I had one woman get down right mean. It was the oddest thing I have EVER seen, I walked up to compliment her pretty boots and she said, “so maybe you should get on the floor and lick them” I said while smiling, “hmm…nice offer but no thanks” and she started insulting me. The whole exchange was beyond bizarre.

I was going to use one at a time for a little bit until I get the hang of it, but I have to say this has been a daunting and disheartening experience so far.

If it helps anyone sort out what I am doing wrong the first night I placed them all on my wrists but for the Instant Sexiness which I also placed a bit in my hair. Going forward I will stick with wrists. I am hoping this for my side is a getting accustomed sort of thing and on the how people treat me side that maybe I just mixed things that should not be mixed? Any and all help is welcomed.

There isn’t an Instant Sexiness for men, so no worries there. It sounds like your stomach is being sensitive or reactive right now? When I mentioned dizziness/depression, I’m referring to a new user getting their hands on some Instant Openness or Instant Shine, applying a goodly amount (sometimes a whole lot, gotta love those newbies!), feeling sort of high from it (this won’t happen once you acclimate) and then having a little bit of a crash when it wears off (again, this won’t happen at all once you’re used to it).

is it just me or did that remark of her sounds pretty kinky? maybe you wandered into a BDSM bisexual party … or she herself might have been a mean dom … was she wearing lots of leather?

that’s the best way to go, one at a time, small doses at first, figure out what it does for you, find an optimal dose … it takes time but then you’re solid in your practical pheroskills.

there’s nothing wrong with putting it in your hair. I don’t think you did anything wrong, I think you’re just having a very unusual reaction. I would wait on hair applications until you know you have a winner, though, and won’t be wanting to get it off you on short notice!

you might want to take it real easy with the pheros until your stomach settles down in general.

Hmm That is odd, I have never before heard of throwing up from them. Mones are said to enter the brain straight threw the VNO organ in the nose. (VNO organ is still being debated by scientists) This would mean very little if any would actually enter the blood stream. Scents however can still cause strong reactions. The scent of diesal fuel makes me throw up.

I normally get head rushes from new products but it passes quickly. Is there a possibility that your coming down with something that just happened to strike at the same time you tried your mones?

Use them one at a time and start with small amounts and keep track of the ones that make you feel sick. Maybe we can narrow it down to a certain molocule.

As for why this one women was a mean bitch. More then likely she was just a mean bitch. Cops have been said to make some women catty but there is just trace amounts in Instant sexiness. I have never seen a catty reaction from it myself but others have. She also could have seen you as a threat to her in some way.

Again start small and work up one at a time and see if you still notice cattiness from women.

Your boyfriend could be sensing a change in you and feels threatened by it. Change can be hard for some people to deal with even if they are not consiously aware of that change. My husband didnt really react at all to the mones at first. After about a few days he started looking at me funny like he didnt know me. Then suddenly he began to react to it

Also try one other thing just for the sake of testing. Spray it on your cloths and not your skin and see if you still feel ill. Do it where you can run andchange if need be.

Tisha

First time I wore heavy androstenol, my heart just raced. And it did get to the point where I feared I might throw up. After washing it off I was fine. And it never got to me to that extent again.

For a bi lady, I’d recommend mostly light social pheromones. Instant Sexiness, Instant Honesty, Instant Openness, and Instant Shine. Everyone likes these pheromones, and they will definitely get you noticed in a crowd.

Regarding madame boots: I’ve been to SM events before and I can tell you that several pushy subs (submissives) complimented me on my boots and wanted to kiss them. The lady probably got the wrong idea about your interests and was trying to be nice, in her own special, perverse way.

You do seem quite sensitive to the self-effects of pheromones. Just be patient. They go away after a time.
Best,
Kitten

MX203 still makes Tater want to heave…

Yeah, thats a domme for sure! Thats her coming on to you. She thought it was what you wanted, since you mentioned the boots. If you’d said she had ‘pretty hair’ it would have been an entirely different conversation, but boots are part of the dominatrix uniform so she mistook you for a submissive and went into character. Then you said ‘nice offer’ and she thought the rest was you just pretending to be a bit ‘brattish’ - again, part of the scenario.

In other words, it was an accident. And there will be one very puzzled domme somewhere wondering why you walked off :slight_smile:

F.

Ok, it was NOT an BDSM party, which is why the comment was so utterly bizarre to me. It was a “swing” party. I complimented her boots (my bf is one of the Mystery Method guys, from long before it was fashionable to be associated with Eric. I was working on approaches, which yes, I know is different f-f than f-m). I have fierce approach anxiety and my job literally was to go up to women, compliment, and keep the conversation going for 1-2 minutes and then gracefully leave. Very specifically working on openers and light attraction building for anyone familiar with the routine. I have far more domme boots and saying hey kiss my boots even at a BDSM party would have been in poor taste. Since I have now explained where I was, it got curiouser and curiouser throughout the evening because she went from that to attempting to compete with me. I had long forgotten her and was off having fun only to see her trailing me attempting to compete. At first I thought it was me being all girlie but my bf and someone independent of us pointed her out to me also as looking like she was trying to one-up me. THAT is over the top odd since I wasn’t even trying to show off. I am shy my idea of a good time is hiding in a corner alone with blankets over my head. She was not the only odd reaction, women were friendly but chatty not touchy. Usually in a conversation I can play decent kino and touch here and there now and again. The few women that I placed my hand near, on their necklace, shoulder, arm etc more or less jumped back in all but horror. They were friendly chatting but touch made them bolt upright. I’ve been working on this awhile and I have never seen that before.

Since I am domme and both my clothes and dress make it clear that after the man I am pretty self certain, she was clearly a messed up little number. Besides a dominate woman would NEVER try to compete with another woman, she would just do her own thing. It was amusing particularly in context of what I was working on for the evening. Her clothes would be described best as cheap street walker, not domme, but maybe that is a cheap catty comment on my side.

Tisha, I thought that too, maybe I just have a flu. Friday night as soon as I washed it off my wrists I felt enormously better. Saturday fine, Sunday I only applied Instant Sexiness and again with the throwing up. Yesterday and today I have tried spraying on my wrists and then wiping my wrists a moment later with a towel and that has cut everything down to just a little head rush. Today I did Instant Sexiness with Instant Honesty and the effects were awesome. At the vet I had all the techs falling over themselves helping me, men and women. I am still getting a head rush but not as bad. In fact together both of those made me feel like a million bucks, been happy literally all day.

I think I might just be over sensitive because the idea of soaking myself in this stuff was not anything I would have done. I’ll try the clothes idea.

One thought the bf had was that my own pheromones might be very strong, I make men feel all heady and stupid just by being near them (I am pretty but not THAT pretty) so he was thinking maybe just by my own body chemistry added to what I sprayed on it might have been over the top for anyone around me.

In any event thanks again for all the input, I am taking every day as an opportunity to experiment.

Hi everyone. I’m a lesbian and will be posting my results here as well> I’m a newbie that has had considerable success with mx 134 both in a work and social setting. I’ve gotten favorable responses from males in both settings.
That respect thing without being intimidating. I like that. I just bought Instant
shine and will be adding instant sexiness and female magic to my work mix.
As far as my sexual mix to attract women I plan on getting turn up the heat
add shine, female magic and instant openess to that mix and see what results I get from that. I may add as a buffer Scent of Eros pads not the oil to enhance the shine affect since they are very similar. Will post soon on
my results when I go out with this woman I have deep feelings for on our
3rd dinner date. The first 2 dates were a success. I just want to make her
feel more comfortable hugging me and giving me kisses on the cheek.
Her body language was a little rigid at the end of the last date even though
she said she had fun with me and was looking forward to the next date. Let me point out that she is straight with bi- tendencies> I want her to comfortably

to be continued - explore her sexual feelings with me at her own pace>
I am very patient with this situation. I’m confident with the right mix I can
encourage her to be herself around me. The important thing for me is that we
already have a deep affection for one another> The mix can only enhance
those feelings and bring out a positive sexual response. At least this is my wish> We will see.