Advice on Rekindling Old Flames

Hey all, I have been away from here for quite some time dealing with my most recent breakup mainly because it came out of no where and the only problem with the relationship was that my girlfriend felt she was not focusing enough on her school work and I was to blame. Basically she told me I was a distraction that she couldn’t have at the moment. Harsh I suppose but really I can tell from her actions since then that she still may hold a bit of a torch for me. It has been over two months since I have seen her but I can tell in our most recent correspondence that I think she is battling in her mind whether we should meet up again or not. With a potential reunion on the Horizon I want to present myself in such a way that will make her remember how great our relationship was.

I want to remind her of our bond that we once shared but also show her I am still as sexy and attractive as I was if not more. So I was thinking of utilizing my supply of A1 and P83 for starters. She also always responded well to Ammo and IH. Now the question is what would be the best mix to give off the vibe I want. It doesn’t have to be with the mones I listed above I am open to suggestions. Any help will be much appreciated!

This is just a suggestion

Id go with A1 + p83 + Ammo because A1 and p83 at a 1:1 ratio I have found to be far superior to IH for bonding and closeness with women, add a little ammo to give you some sex appeal and keep the mix out of the friend zone.

Something like this:
30-40mcg A1
30mcg p83
1-2 sprays ammo
You could also add some IS to keep things a little more upbeat if you want.

Good Luck :slight_smile:

Nice that sounds like a good mix, I was thinking along those lines as well but I guess I am still not 100% comfortable with my mone knowledge yet lol. I think it is always helpful getting advice from someone else though, it is much appreciated. I will keep this mix in mind when and if the reunion takes place.

I’d second that mix as well, except maybe consider adding the IH instead - That and the A1 will help build comfort and closeness.

How often were you two talking and txting, maybe she felt smothered..

ammo + A1 + IH + IS. Been there, done that during a horrible break up and this mix worked like a charm.

I am in my early twenties and have been encountering a lot of social issues. I have trouble speaking to people, opening up, engaging in social gatherings, attracting the opposite sex as well as attracting people in general both men and women. Over all my shyness and reservedness comes off as being snobby and stuck up due to which i am highly disliked and not the ideal company people would like to hang around with.

I would really love it and appreciate it greatly if you could suggest what pheromones would be the most suitable for me in making a great amount of both male and female friends as well as attracting men. I would really love your help since I am in a very unfortunate situation. I would love to have a strong pheromone that people cannot resist and approach me since I am not talkative myself I find it hard to approach and speak to others and make friends. I really want a strong pheromone that cannot fail on me. Attracting men and making friends with both genders would be a dream come true if possible.

Shazl - As this is your first post, rather than pitch-up on some random thread it would be better if you have a read of this:

https://pheromonetalk.com/t/how-do-i-qualify-for-a-25-gift-certificate/19934

Then go and start your own thread in the Intro Forum.

That way we have more info to give better advice on and you earn the GC to help offset the cost of starting to try stuff. :slight_smile:

@ Shazi:
Mobo’s right on with the advice. Just wanted to add a bit of something. You’re going to have to address your shyness issue. It doesn’t matter what you wear if you can’t learn to communicate effectively with others. Just think of the times you approached someone and tried to communicate with them and they are for whatever reason socially awkward and you left feeling like…“that was weird.”

Same thing applies here. People may approach you, but if you don’t reciprocate appropriately, they are going to walk away not wanting to move forward in whatever capacity that relationship should.

Thankyou guys!

This is my post below if you have any more advice for me please please post it here it will help me greatly

Well to answer your question we pretty much talked and texted every day, but I only did it because for every one text she sent me I sent one back, so she was the one texting me first and starting all communication and I just followed the system for every one text she sent me I would send one back. I did this on purpose because I had been guilty of “smothering” in the past but in this instance I was actually only responding every time yet it still ended up the way it did. I have a very simple system, if you want to stop talking to me just say “can’t talk right now, I will text you later” I actually said that to her a few times to, and she always texted me later. In fact in the beginning of the relationship she was kind of smothering me, five minutes after leaving my apartment she would text me saying how much she missed me. She did that a lot. At first I was concerned but then I let it slide because it meant she legitimately cared about me and it was a nice feeling.