For a couple days I’ve been wondering why girls only seem to want sex when it comes to me lately. So much that it’s got me depressed. Today, I saw a woman go into a car at school with a man, and they came back asking me a few minutes later if I wanted a ride. Completely random strangers I have never even seen before in my life, and it was obvious, the girl wanted sex. I felt like vomiting. Then I realized what was the problem, I’ve been wearing pure Ammo for these past weeks, and I’ve been putting it on oblivious to what it’s doing to the people around me. Ammo works, it really does, there ain’t no arguing, because without a doubt in my mind, Ammo, and all these other pheromones work.
The thing is, I don’t want sex. I am 19 and still a virgin and I plan to be until I find the perfect girl, maybe even until I get married. Yes, I am a man, and I say this. Now, I have decided to go back to the drawing board with my next order, I want a girl to think of me as a life partner, not a sex object, I want girls to fall in love with me.
I have decided to purchase some A314, Instant Female Magic, and Instant Honesty. And I would really appreciate it if I can get some tips and experiences, and maybe even some suggestions as to how to use the pheromones. Thank you.
Why did you purchase Ammo in the first place if you don’t want sex? I’m quite positive that the product description mentioned that Ammo has a definitive sexual note…
Well, the way I stumbled across this site and pheromones in general is I was reading about oxytocin. Maybe read a bit about that.
P.S. I think you should try that without pheromones, but that’s just my personal opinion. Take a look around, maybe there’s already a girl like that but you haven’t noticed. Imho, love is a mix of everything good, including trust, support etc. All that stuff doesn’t just come with instinct.
Stin - I admire you you for standing by your principles. You are THE MAN in my book. Too many men - esp. ones who are old enough to know better - are willing to compromise themselves (and not just about sex) for NOTHING. You can read through here to find too many guys and gals who have had their marriages or relationships wrecked because some guy - husband or friend - did not respect their marriage. You hang in there looking for Ms. Right - there is no shame in waiting.
We won’t even go into greedy b******* or crooked politicians. Although sometimes the two are the same.
You have a pretty good mix in mind but I would think about exchanging the A314 for Instant Gentleman. The A314 is probably going to come across as very strong to a lot of women your age. On the other hand the Instant Gentleman is much warmer. It suggests a smooth cool kinda guy, dependable, and as a result probably a little older than his real age. It has no 'none so it is not blatantly sexual. But it will send out the “I am the man you are looking for” vibe.
i know how you feel. totally gorgeous women that are sweethearts just throwing themselves at me like i’m a rock star. makes me feel cheap, like a piece of meat.
ok, meanwhile back in the real world, you can file this under never. most guys would kill to be in that situation.
Thats easy enough. Just say no or stop using the product. Although I really have never heard of that strong of a reaction . Nones tend to be more subtle then that. Its not like you see on axe commercials. Perhaps its just the mentality of knowing that cant have something. You know people always want what they cant have.
Socials increase attraction as well. Stick to IO IH and Ishine, you will still get some sexual hits but hopefully not as strongly.
And just to throw in my 2 cents, Tisha and the Boss have both given you some great advice. I had planned on suggesting replacing A314 with Instant Gentleman as well, but the Boss beet me to it.
And I gotta say that I respect your decision to wait too. My first time was a one night stand with a girl that meant nothing to me, and the only thing that was special about it was that back then I had barely even dated and was pretty much afraid of girls and rejection, and if she hadn’t been the one to initiate it, god only knows how much longer it would’ve taken me to realize that I was actually ok and had nothing to fear.
Mate, whatever you do *don’t read Nancy Friday’s “My Secret Garden”. *If you realised how women really think about sex, it would make your head explode.
OK, I’ll stop being a smartarse.
I respect your desire to get married and to a wonderful woman that you love and who loves you back. I genuinely believe that putting sex on pedestal as you seem to do is an unrealistic attitude, sex comes before love and commitment, not after it. Doesn’t mean that you shouldn’t have high standards about who you get into a relationship with, just accept that women are sexual beings too.
I’m afraid i’m going to have to agree with tezza here. I’ve been with the same girl for… what, almost 5 years now? And i’d have to say that sex has made our relationship stronger, if not saved it. Mind you, i’m not saying that’s all there is to the relationship, not by a long shot. But we both have very high libidoes and it woulda been something of a strain to resist temptation all this time in college (we go to seperate colleges 30 min away) if we didnt have each other to turn to. But now when i go out to a club with the guys and end up dancing with some girl (don’t look at me like that, she has ladies’ nights too), it just makes me want to come home and be with her all the more, since thats something special and not just a one-night stand. Now I completely respect your opinions about not having sex until marriage and i think thats great that you have that kind of conviction, but dont think of it as something vile that should make you puke. It can be a very intimate and beautiful experience between two people with feelings for each other.
Boss is right. It is certainly something to admire, your ability to stand by your values.
When you let love and commitment come before sex, you have the opportunity to build a strong, lasting bond that is based on something more durable than hormones. You can get to know each other’s character without being blinded by sex. You don’t let your sexuality be compromised by loveless sex. There also is not the pressure to use sex to keep the relationship together, so it can be a delicious expression of love, instead of something you hope creates love. Then, sex can be the icing on the cake and you can also feel free to fully enjoy each other sexually, because you know there is love and she will be there for you. Waiting for love is a beautiful thing.
I don’t think it is the idea of sex that is so off-putting for him, but the “not personal” fast-foody vibe of stranger sex. I have always found that to be extremely repulsive as well. And actually I feel even more strongly about it. I get a real visceral rage reaction to it.
On the other hand I have always had an extremely high libido, and have always enjoyed very good sex in relationships. But, when the lack of commitment in those early relationships became clear, my libido went poof, followed immediately by non-negotiable revulsion.
In some of us, stranger encounters, or hooking up, or fuck-buddy arrangements are sexy. In others they are abhorrent. It doesn’t have anything to do with philosophy, or world view, or fear. It is just the way some of us are wired.
