hello, i’m a male, mid-thirties. i live in hawaii. no, i’m not in the military, i’m from here. i love surfing, brazilian jiu-jitsu, and going to concerts. i just enjoy live rock music. too bad we don’t get visited by the big bands from the mainland. oh well. i can go visit, especially when TOOL is playing in california.
i’m here because (there isn’t an easy way to say it so i just i’ll say it), i’m here because my wife cheated on me. we got divorced about a year ago but i can’t get over it. perhaps my ego is in the way, not sure. perhaps too much of a burden. not sure.
i try to go out with girls but somehow i’m not really playing the dating game right i guess. i just want to start over and find somebody but i need the extra confidence that i lost. i go on dates but..i don’t know, i don’t seem to engage the girl i like enough to take her home with me. so i need extra help.
i’m hoping to get a good pheromone that will get me laid to forget about the my ex already. which leads me to the fact that i don’t know anything about pheromones. i was just surfing the 'net on how to attract women, one link led to another, and i’m here.
please recommend me a pheromone that would make a girl very forthcoming to have a good time even if it’s just chatting. that’s all i’m asking. thank you.
That’s a terrible thing to happen, but rest assured you are not alone. First things first it should be noted that pheromones by themselves aren’t a miracle cure, but they CAN help greatly in enhancing what’s already there and making interactions easier/smoother.
If you are just starting out, it’s a good idea to experiment with the socials first, because you really can’t go wrong with them and the effects are the most consistent. IO, IS and IH are generally referred to as the ‘social mones’. Instant Openness helps with achieving a casual, relaxed, approachable vibe, while Instant Shine puts everyone involved in a great mood, which in turn means that people want to be around you. Instant Honesty targets depth, rather than breadth, of relationships and helps people to open up and feel closer to you.
I’ve never used the men-specific phermones myself, but from what I’ve read on the Men’s forum (the journals are really helpful in figuring out what’s best for you, what to expect and getting further advice! Highly recommended you read some ) Ammo seems to be the go-to product for attracting women, and has seen very good results, very often. Once things are already intimate you may want to look into getting TUTH as well.
I hope this helps in some way, and if you’re still feeling unsure or just want more perspectives, there is the Men’s forum to check out. The key is to find out what works for you! The amount of self-effects varies from person to person, but if you’re one of those that are affected by the mones themselves, even that can be a great confidence booster and attract its own results.
Let us know how it goes, we hope to see you around.
Sorry to hear about your ex. Sometimes situations like these give us just the kick in the ass we need to improve ourselves and ultimately become happier.
What can I say that Spinach’s excellent post did not already touch on? She made some great recommendations.
I would like to personally suggest A314/Instant Gentleman. If being a bad ass could be bottled, it would be A314. Status-raising, respect-earning, intimidation-creating liquid gold. This one can make it a little harder to get the ball rolling but once you’ve gotten her attention, this one will keep her hooked. It can also help to give you that confidence boost you’re looking for. Instant Gentleman is a lighter, less abrasive, less complex A314. This one gives you an extra status boost and cool guy vibe without being as intimidating as A314. It’s for you to decide between the two, though I would suggest A314 especially for your age.
Now, we’ve recommended pretty much every consumer line product Androtics sells haha. To narrow it down for you, I would personally recommend Ammo, Instant Shine, and A314 as a great place to start. Ammo will give you the social and sexual spark you need to help create attraction in women. A314 will help with keeping them around and with your own confidence. Instant Shine is a great addition to any mix and will just make everything better. These three are very versatile and balanced products that work well alone or together (just make sure you try them separately first and in different dosages before mixing; this will help you see for yourself what each product does and how it works for you).
It is a terrible thing to be cheated on especially by a wife.
I know what its like to be cheated on as I have been and it wasn’t easy to get over and up to now I have not forgiven that person
However, another relationship or sex is like alcohol , a temporary fix
You need to try to heal and take little steps towards getting out there and realizing it had nothing to do with you but with the persons short comings
Pheromones and the products is one step , going out there again and doing other activities , sometimes you have to force yourself and eventually. I didn’t like to hear this but time does heal all wounds
thnx mickaelia. i like your words. i’m forcing myself to do things and going out. i just need the extra confidence push or jumpstart. that’s when mones come in.
