Hi Aloha, welcome to the forum!
Great to have another woman joining us. Carrie has offered great advice. The womens section stickies are very helpful. Post away with your questions over there when you’re ready. This article is an excellent source of copulins info too. Copulins: pheromone excerpts from The Science of Sex
Essence of woman and Npa are both strong smelling products and take a little learning and experimenting to get right. You could try the edge gel packs over at love-scent instead of npa so you’ll only be dealing with masking the scent of essence of woman until you’re more experienced.
Lust after me reads as if it is easier to use than essence of woman, or Dirty for the androstenone plus copulins kick, but I am speculating I have not used either of those yet. Instant Sexiness is a great start regardless of your other choices.
Enjoy!