Alright, I want the truth! Do women want sex just as much as men?

Oh I did not know this!

Women have sex more than men. My girlfriends each have two lovers. Back when I was younger I believed in save thy virginity for marriage. Then I realize it was a form of social control so men can go wander and forcing the woman to always be concerned about what other people think of her. Damned it you do, damned if he does and you don’t.

It’s a manipulation device used to keep the woman’s libido under control. Why? Because we can have sex more than a man. We do not lose energy the way men do when he bust the mother load. We, on the other hand, can keep going and going and going.

Do we want it just as much? Eh…, we prefer to be loved just as much as a man wants sex. We don’t necessarily want sex because, we can have it anytime. But if we have it, we can have a lot more than a man does. We don’t have to reload.

Sometimes I think about a man’s penis…I do really..:roll_eyes:…no really, I think about when he gets aroused and how all his blood flows there and as it hardens, his thingy triples in size. Nothing on my body triples in size when I’m feeling good! Except my smile. :smiley: When I’m aroused, on a good day, my sensitive spot barely grows by 25%, and that is an exaggeration.

So physiologically, I think a man’s desire for sex is harder for him to control. His chemical desires are more intense. Women, however, can hide it. That’s why when men get it, they can wait a week before they can have it again. A woman once started, usually wants it more frequently. This is why they sneak around, and go clubbing without the man. Though their desire is not on such a crazy scale.

This is why it is traditional for men to chase. It’s the act of nature. More so chemical than social. So it is quite ridiculous for a man to wait for a woman to chase. If she does, it’s usually for his money/status/power/love/what-ever-she-doesn’t-have more than his weenie (Unless, he’s Mr. Chizel face, which we ALL want to bed at least once in our lives.) :cool: However, after an awesome session with a regular cute enough guy…MAYBE…she might might be inclined to.

I have a young lad waiting for me to chase him…It just shows he has a weak sex drive. What he doesn’t understand is, he doesn’t fit the “marriage” criteria for me to chase. So he could be waiting around for a while, or till I accidentally spray myself with some custom mix mones.

In the meantime, I will be flirting up a new stash o’ men.

Great post sugarspice!

Oh, jeez, im sofa king stupid - we are supposed to control those urges?

why didnt somoene tell me?

dang girl - you used the p word!! its my fave. plus i totally agree with you!
triple in size? oh dear? what time is he getting home tonight?

dang bond, u seem too um… worldly for HS - for sure!
btw - u did see the sat night live skit on sofa king - right? hilarious! saw it on youtube. ROFLMAO also, check out the sat night live skit on
colonel angus (say it fast)

mmm would need tons of LAM to make that happen!

There are some who claim that sex in a way can be physically dangerous for a woman (large guy, small girl) , so there is some “filtering” built in. If I recall when I was taking psychology way back in the dark ages there was a term “sublimation” which was defined basically as “to divert the expression of an instinctual desire or impulse from its primitive form to one that is considered more socially or culturally acceptable.” What this meant was, for example, if a female was “hot to have sex” so to speak, she might instead go out and do some other form of physical activity like dancing or sports.

Now from my own personal experience (as a guy) I have found that many women are as “hot to get it on” as many guys are (and just as there are some guys, somewhere *, that are cool to having sex, there are some women who are also cool to the urge).

How one expresses it may be due to both innate (genetic) behavior and cultural/social conditioning. I recall “Bunny” as having said that where she lived women were not all that shy about making their desires known. In other parts of the world it just wasn’t “proper.”

My thoughts/observations.

(now if I could just find some of those “hot to trot” women around here…)
:smiley:*

yea im a senior but im an early birthday do im almost 19. sory iv never seen the skits, but i will if there on youtube.

damn… i didnt know this was such a hot topic… so many opinions… wow

Well, anything with the word “sex” will sure make the headlines!:smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

I plead the fifth. I am not here to embarrass my ex lovers. :roll_eyes:. We’ll just say… the little train that could. All it it needs is a little chugachugachugachuga-chokehold. Hahaha. JK.

There are times I’m like this is BULL SH*T. Other times I impress myself. :smiley:

Once you get as old as me and manage escape the stranglehold of marriage to a judgmental hypocritical controlling prick, you learn a few tricks or two.

As for he’s too big and it might be dangerous…ermmmmm…not really. I haven’t die yet!!! :stuck_out_tongue: But…I would like to hurt someone.

Trust me I might have a BIG foul mouth, but being Asian, I’m pretty small down yonder and it’s really annoying when there is a struggle in bed with Mr. Big. Sometimes I’m secretly happy to find Mr. Medium. And if you promise not to tell…Mr Small might not have it packin’ but for some odd reason he’s got more heat.

Everytime a boyfriend says he wishes he had a black man’s shaft (meaning larger than his white self), that makes me want to slap him. Is it not enough we struggle 5 mins to get that thing in and when he finally gets the chance to slide it in a little, he jabs it like he’s trying to kill someone?

The things I put up with! :smiley:. All I can say is big guys tend get greedy. THEY happen to enjoy sex more than I do. I once broke up with a guy because he was a lousy lover. It was bad!!! I hid when I heard his name or voice. I did however, tell him he was too big, and I couldn’t handle it. Edit the lousy lover bit. He was soooo smug…if only he knew… Eventually I told him the truth after 4 years of trying to chase me down. Hehe.

See, bond, you’re already getting to know us! :stuck_out_tongue:

I have no choice but to rep you for a great post like this one!:smiley:

Gives a whole new meaning to: little guys try harder. lol :cool:

That’s cubbacubba…

That’s 'cause you sugarspicesugar…you are impressive!

Another endearing quality…lol

More truth…

Big , small, wide, fat 'n long…it don’t matter…when we find “the good thing” we can all get greedy…lotta people, not just guys…can’t get enough…
stop being so desirable! Speaking of greedy…anybody here got enough pheromones?

Some guys are just jerks, no matter their size…but if you really like him gotta give him a fair..ahem…shot, but not an extended run if that’s the deal…gently tell the big lug…'n if he can’t/won’t comply…give 'em a one way ticket on the “Adios Express”…boyfriend?..how the f did he get to boyfiend? :roll_eyes:…you jest.

Mr. Big?..it’s a love/hate thing.
Yes, Mr. Big…poor Mr. Big sometimes he’s just …Mr. Too Big…and sometimes he’s just Mr. Big Enough…really depends on the girl…what she can handle/likes.

I’m so :confused:.

Words already out…Mr. Small can be a great guy…he does try harder…in a lot of pleasant ways…sometimes small can be bettah…if ya know what I mean…and size does matter!..especially if you’re a litte gal…not all little gals…but a lot.

Mr. Medium is a guy who fits in just about anywhere…we love Mr. Medium…lucky Mr. Medium.

Ah…true…I gotta year or two on ya…
Yeah, I managed to “escape the stranglehold”, too…till I was about your age…lol…then a funny thing happened…I met someone :slight_smile: :smiley: :stuck_out_tongue: :wink: …didn’t want to ‘escape’ anymore…funny how that happens, even to me…love hurts!..and stinks…see, my parents 'tween the two of 'em…were married six times :open_mouth:…uh huh…you think you’re :open_mouth:…you should check it out on this end! LOL

I personally can attest to the fact…there are a lot of really nice guys out there who’d make great husbands…it doesn’t have to be a strangle hold…find the right fit and it can be …a mutual head lock!

Bella

I almost forgot…

Let’s see… sugarspicesugar needs a new recipe…mmmmm…hell, what are friends for…

A314 - 5 drops - really doesn’t matter where you put it
P83/50mcg - 4 sprays, see above
P80/50mcg -3 sprays, ditto
Tal/50mcg - 5 sprays, ^
Turn Up The Heat - spray liberally, like body mist
Meg 'o dose, of our favorite! - sugarspicesugar
First Aid Kit (Androtics should just stock them, really)
911/speed dial
Prayer…I forgot prayer
And anything else anybody can think of I forgot to add.

Oh, sss, let me know before you apply it, mkay?

Bella at airport. Two tickets to Amsterdam!! Have any extra seats? Honey, how many people do you think live in the bay area?

Bella

sugarspice is DABOMB! :wink:

…you know on the weekend my girlfriend had a weird reaction to p83.She said she felt paralyzed like she was tangled up in a spiders web.She said: i think this scent would be useful in seducing girls but they wouldn’t feel good about it afterwards.:confused:…she is perceptive because i never told her a thing about what p83 is “supposed” to do…i just told her they were sample scents a friend had given me.:slight_smile:

I guess everybody here tells the same thing to their GFs!:smiley: :smiley: :smiley:

amazing idea flaming, bravo… wonderful… mind if i use it on my parents. my package arrives friday, just incase they intercept it.

bond

I always just call it my perfume, my mom kept saying that it stuck and coldnt be perfume, then one day I sprayed MX134 and saw her and she was like “OMG it is perfume, that stuff stinks!” :smiley: hehehe

OK HERE IS MY WANT AD:

WANTED MAN WHO WANTS TO HAVE SEX 3+ times a day…more would be best… (Christmas everyday :wink:)

does I95 go to british columbia? i could be there by tomorrow :slight_smile::wink:

my parents hate when i buy stuff online without telling them. any suggestions on wat a should say if one of them intercepts my mones package.