I have been using a314 for a good 24 days or so, and I have realized that it tends to get beta males defensive and aggressive sometimes…anyone else notice this ?
I have never noticed this… Are they acting is response to your actions? Are you doing something to make others angry?
When you get a response from any one, whether positive or negative, it is usually best to look at your actions first. What did you do to cause that response. What can you change to get a different better one. In any interaction with others, you should try to think ahead and decide the desired outcome of the interaction. Then make it happen.
IMO, I do not think a beta male would respond with agression towards an Alpha male in most circumstances. Unless provoked that is. Most people are afraid to respond to another person with agression. They fear consequences. They worry about how you would respond back to their agression.
True, but you can trigger that fight/flight/freeze response that can seems like impotent aggression.
Yes while I agree that your statement is true, A314 should not cause this. Unless The OP is doing something to cause the agression, most people would go with the flight or freeze response. Unless they feel backed into a corner they will not normally fight.
I’ve heard this being a possibly side effect of None OD but I’ve never experienced it from A314 and I use anywhere from 2-3 drops a day. Like the others said, it’s possible you might be acting in a way that crosses the line from assertive and dominant to aggressive and domineering.
I’d also suggest, depending on just how much A314 you wear, to buffer/enhance it with a shot if IO and/or Instant Shine. IMO this shifts the leadership vibe from one of leadership by intimidation to leadership by charisma.
Idk but this is how it went down last night.We were taking hooka hits until we ran out so we made a bong and I ask perkins to help and we were doing our thing but then we need some help and we ask James to give us a hand. He would be like I know how to do it…I was under impression that he thinks Im trying to set my frame over his…but anyways about 15 min later his girl is bitchin about how he needs to clean up the house, he was like “thats not my job, I pay for the apartment”, so I was like fuck it this budd here has me feeling good, so I started helping her out…I ask prekins and his girl to help and they were like yea ok, but then when I try getting James to help he freaked out and was like I’m tired of you always trying to tell me to do shit in my house, kelsi(his girl) was like whats the matter with you…he got hella mad and started saying a bunch of things I was doing that was trying to over thrown him in his house…I was pist now and was like I never told you to do things, I asked for your help…yea I told you to help her clean up the house but your having a kid you piece of shit so grow the fuck up…he told me don’t come back or I will kick your ass…I laughed and said Oh, it’s like that " and left.
there was a couple more situations like this but not as bad .
OK lemme get this straight, you chose to wear a dominant alpha male message that can sometimes be construed as “intimidating” to what is basically a pot party. Took the initiative to be more helpful to his girl than he was…in his own home…while he’s under the influence of a substance alleged to sometimes cause paranoia. And then verbally chastised him in front of his friends and from reading your post I assume the mother of his child? Is that pretty much it? Because if it is it’s not so much the product as it is a case of bad judgment in it’s application and a lack of diplomacy on your part.
For one, given the situation I think a heavy combo of IO and Shine would have been a far better choice. Secondly, if your buddy is having issues with his girl in front of you, do NOT step up and play the good guy role. Right off the bat this will make almost any guy feel threatened no matter what mones you’re wearing if any at all. A more diplomatic alternative is to privately take him aside and suggest that he do what his girl asks but to ask you and the other guys for help. This way she gets what she wants, he get’s to look like an alpha at least in her eyes and you don’t get your buzz killed by a lot of drama that could easily be avoided.
I don’t think it was the weed or paranio.I have this friend of about 4 years, and recently since I started wearing this, it seems like he is in competion with me, a while back he drove me home when we were having a little get together…He made a big ol scene about how he told me I couln’t drink there (btw he never ever tripped out about this)A few nites back we made plans to call some people over and play pool.He calls my budies phone( I don’t have a phone)and ask if were ready to get picked up, I told em yea…about 20 min later he shows up, and everyone is like what up this and that.When we get ther we played pool for a while then went upstairs to smoke sheesha he seemed hella chilled back, everyone was being chill and cool untill my budies girls shows up…he then again startes making a big deal about me not drinking here…idk but he was like I have to take you somewhere or home
He is chilled if there is no girls around
Lately it’s been more mellow out, I think it’s do to the more males in one spot the higher the testosterone levels in everyone.
Responding to the intial message I too have been using one drop of A314 and 1 spray of IHx2 at work. Although I havent had any overt aggressive responses I have been excluded from some of the chit chat at work. I have been congruent to the A314 by being sociable, confident and outgoing without imposing myself on anybody.
I have discussed this situation on another thread called “Frozen Out” where I got some quality advice and reasoning. I am only working there on a temporary basis so I intend to continue to use A314 to help me deal with the situation.
With A314 I dont care whether people are talking to me or not. I am confident and positive no matter of any circumstances. I feel I have a bullet proof vest on where nobody can shoot any arrows into my heart. Basically I am much more thicker skinned which helps in a work environment.