having a314 on when speaking with individuals who already poccess high alpha level vibes ( high phero signitures , but those that never use phero) ,and natural high testerone level … so if the a314 with you confidence and body language will give off this type of vibe will it anger others causing fights?
Similar to evolutionary terms when there are two gorillas both alpha fighting for same thing
If one person is natural alpha with high TEST levels , and you appear alpha and confident from pheromones will that cause anger in that person???
the anger, if any, in the other person will be repressed and will usually not show on the outside, if you act congruent with your signature.
however, i have found most alpha males tend to embrace other alphas if you do not pose a threat to them. for example, i have 40% higher TEST levels than average and can be highly alpha when the need arises but when i meet a confident alpha guy i usually assume he is a nice person unless he proves otherwise. however, what ticks me off are beta males who try to be alpha and think that by looking at people in anger they shall scare them to death and eventually rule the world (which is the vibe that you might give off if you wear a314 and are not congruent with it).
I did a quick search on google and found this article that i felt was quite an accurate description of an alpha male. What is an Alpha Male?
However you should respect everyone for being a human being and not give crap to them just because you feel superior than them. I find that a314 sometimes makes you seem disrespectful towards some people and if not handled carefully, it can cause serious damage in your long term relationship with that person.
Looking at the search results for ‘alpha male’ , this is another link i came about Halley’s Comment: 01/19/2003 - 01/26/2003
Go through the links on the first post. It really interesting and about 90% true.
Sorry for barraging you with links, i am just not used to giving long posts of advice.
yes i will check the link… Just i dont want to start fights with other alphas from the signiture i give off …not that fighting would be problem for me , but i want to find a a way to handle other alphas in a polite way rather than piss other off because i seem better than them
A true alpha male doesn’t need to be aggressive to ‘challengers’ unless they cross a certain line. If you don’t know how to smooth thing out if it gets rowdy, then don’t let the other guy feel challenged.
I have to agree with Phya. Many people have misconceptions on what a Alpha male is exactly. Alphas do not feel threatened by other males therefore they have very little trouble sharing a room with other Alpha males as long as you dont touch what they deem to be theirs. (then they will rip ya a new one) Beta’s are the ones who generally feel threatened by the Alpha vibe and become aggressive and competitive.
As long as your congruent to the Alpha vibe this should ward off any aggressiveness by the Beta male. This is not to say you should be aggressive. Just show your confidence and they generally back down.
Tisha’s dead on on this! Beta males really aren’t so much a problem as the Beta’s that are Alpha wannabes though. Over the years I’ve had countless Alpha wannabes looking to argue or pick fights with me for little or no reason. I’m not a very big guy (5’ 10" and 165 lbs), but I learned MANY years ago to never back down from a fight. I’ve had my ass kicked a time or two, but far more often than not when an Alpha wannabe has challenged me and found that I was willing to stand up for myself and wouldn’t back down, they’d go look for someone easier to intimidate.
The Alpha wannabes are pretty easy to differentiate from a true Alpha, who is confident in himself and doesn’t feel the need to try to intimidate others for no reason. A true Alpha is not the one to be concerned about, it’s the Alpha wannabes that like to stir things up.
Good post, and very true. This is why I think I am starting to get away with higher doses of -none, because not only am I the same old person, having got used to the “-none rush”, I am also wearing A314, and it gives the vibe of a guy who isn’t going to start any trouble - why would the A314 guy start trouble? The A314 guy has the air of a man who is in control at all times.
Even with the edginess of -none, the A314 continues to project the right image. All I have to do is remember to be extra nice to people, like being just a little bit extra effusive on that “Thank you” when someone does something for me, etc, and things go extremely well.
I always thought the opposite was true. I thought the Beta male was the male that stayed behind and protected the women/tribe when the alphas were off being manly. As such, they relate better to women and have a different connection with them. They make up for what they lack in physical magnetism and power with personality and emotions.
That being said, I’ve always considered myself a beta male. And when I meet an alpha, it’s the exact opposite. They get jealous because I’m closer to the women, and they are constantly trying to impress them in front of me. Alphas, IMO, have always tried to dominate betas when there is the opposite sex present, or an environment where the mean are establishing their pecking orders. It’s that “gotta be dominant” mentality that drives me up the fucking wall, and I thought betas weren’t the type for that, making them betas.
Yeah thats GREAT article..I’ve always had those qualitys before I read it, but lately I havent been feeling like that, so its nice to find something on the net(by a woman no less) that reminded me about what I am, and/or could be w/ a314, even on my off days..
The problem isnt a beta who accepts that he is a beta, those usually dont cause any problems - its the guy who THINKS he is an alpha but isnt. He is always trying to prove to others and most especially to himself that he really is an alpha. You also have plenty of alphas that are all brawn no brains. Good warriors but poor chieftans - the difference between the rapper 50 cent and James Bond.
A really truly alpha dog, being both strong as well as cunning, is not threatened by others. Certainly he is respectfully wary of others he sees as alphas but feels no need to show agression unless there is a direct challenge. Funny thing about dogs actually. In my experience, every other dog except Rottweilers and pitbulls will bite you from the back if given the chance and will bolt if you jump at them suddenly. Pits and Rottys tho, will jump straight at you and are hard to startle. They are also some of the most loving and friendly dogs - untill they are NOT being friendly and then they are VERY unfriendly indeed. That is an alpha dog. Dobermans, german shepards growl and snap at you but are most likely to bite you when you turn your back on them. Thats a wannaba alpha beta dog. Your golden retriever, thats a beta dog who accepts his status.
It is more complicated than that in a complex species like humans. Some of it is down to biology and some down to culture and various social constructs. Your question deserves a long and thorough reply which I haven’t quite got the time to formulate right now, maybe someone else can add their thoughts, but I’ll just say this: “gotta be dominant” = trying too hard = wannabe Alpha, or “trainee Alpha” at best!
Also, think of a small tribe, a tribe of people well outside of our industrial society who might still be into the hunter-gatherer lifestyle, they are separated from us by geography, language and culture significantly, that’s for sure. But the differences can often help us see things more clearly within our own culture… There is the alpha male of such a tribe, a guy whose role is clearly defined culturally. Not only is he often responsible for looking after the women, in some regard, but the men too. In fact, he is responsible for the whole tribe, not exclusively, but he is an important decision maker for the group.
There appear to be two main reproductive strategies in humankind that complicate the matter too: the -none, spread your DNA around as much as possible thing, and the -rone, good provider strategy.
